Unwritten Rules II

kittygrrl · 09-27-2025, 04:37 PM

......of dating..what do you want to see and what do you hopefully not see in the people you date or see? ....i find my tastes and must haves have changed so much as time goes by...what are your 'nevers' or what makes you hopeful or happy? and i wish there was another way of getting to know someone..It's not hard, on a first date or even the tenth, to make the worse impression...how do you undue it? Can you change their minds or do you have to live with your mistakes??

We all have unwritten rules, please share yours

kittygrrl · 09-27-2025, 04:58 PM

well...my ideal loves rain and autumn..we share this favorite

kittygrrl · 09-28-2025, 04:40 AM

if they say they are going to do something - note if they follow through

having coffee(scorching hot)

kittygrrl · 09-28-2025, 04:56 PM

does you like their voice?..do they make you blush?

kittygrrl · 09-29-2025, 03:16 PM

kittygrrl · 09-30-2025, 03:52 AM

be

creative, passionate in what you do

kittygrrl · 10-01-2025, 01:00 AM

Interesting bed chem

kittygrrl · 10-04-2025, 12:10 PM

3-6-9 rule
3mos 'honeymoon'
6mos 'facing conflicts, euphoria mellows'
9mos deciding if this is going anywhere

i guess i'm lucky i've usually know @ 3mos is that normal?..no idea

kittygrrl · 10-04-2025, 12:12 PM

3-6-9 rule
3mos 'honeymoon'
6mos 'facing conflicts, euphoria mellows'
9mos deciding if this is going anywhere

i guess i'm lucky i've usually know @ 3mos is that normal?..no idea

but posting today is crazy!

Stone-Butch · 10-06-2025, 05:03 AM

Cellphones get turned off before dinner is served unless an emergency, then off till the end of dinner.

kittygrrl · 10-08-2025, 12:31 PM

manners matter....

Stone-Butch · 10-08-2025, 07:10 PM

If you have feelings for someone tell it like it is. Leading a person on then off then on again is a terrible game to play with someones life.

kittygrrl · 10-08-2025, 09:11 PM

be kind.........

kittygrrl · 11-06-2025, 04:21 PM

loves the cello..............

kittygrrl · 11-07-2025, 01:39 PM

a Relish for

passionate living

kittygrrl · 05-28-2026, 10:39 PM

don't make excuses, own it

kittygrrl · 05-29-2026, 01:34 AM

no question..

i'm your favorite

grrl

Stone-Butch · 05-29-2026, 04:24 AM

If you meet and think you would like to get involved, be honest. Getting to know each other can avoid dissapointment later on. If you like something say so. If you don't care for certain things, say so. If you are asked about something answer with the truth. I would make it fair up front while we messaged that I do not wish to get involved with a woman who drinks too much and often. I do not want to be with a smoker or illegal drug user. I do not like facial tattoos. I myself do not drink or smoke or take other than prescribed drugs. I do not like hearing unnecessary vulgar talk.
I do like honesty and kindness and respect from her and myself. I like to talk things over so the result of talk makes the situation satisfactory to both parties. I would like to have open communication for both parties as it makes life much more enjoyable. I like if things are not up to par she can say so openly as can I .

kittygrrl · 05-29-2026, 11:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stone-Butch

If you meet and think you would like to get involved, be honest. Getting to know each other can avoid dissapointment later on. If you like something say so. If you don't care for certain things, say so. If you are asked about something answer with the truth. I would make it fair up front while we messaged that I do not wish to get involved with a woman who drinks too much and often. I do not want to be with a smoker or illegal drug user. I do not like facial tattoos. I myself do not drink or smoke or take other than prescribed drugs. I do not like hearing unnecessary vulgar talk.
I do like honesty and kindness and respect from her and myself. I like to talk things over so the result of talk makes the situation satisfactory to both parties. I would like to have open communication for both parties as it makes life much more enjoyable. I like if things are not up to par she can say so openly as can I .

Interesting...so more a transactional relationship? inotherwords, you(the grrl) needs to bring something/s to the table that interests you?

Stone-Butch · 05-29-2026, 02:11 PM

That would definitely help.

09-27-2025, 04:37 PM	#1
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Unwritten Rules II ......of dating..what do you want to see and what do you hopefully not see in the people you date or see? ....i find my tastes and must haves have changed so much as time goes by...what are your 'nevers' or what makes you hopeful or happy? and i wish there was another way of getting to know someone..It's not hard, on a first date or even the tenth, to make the worse impression...how do you undue it? Can you change their minds or do you have to live with your mistakes?? We all have unwritten rules, please share yours __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

09-27-2025, 04:58 PM	#2
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	well...my ideal loves rain and autumn..we share this favorite __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

09-28-2025, 04:40 AM	#3
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	if they say they are going to do something - note if they follow through having coffee(scorching hot) __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

09-28-2025, 04:56 PM	#4
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	does you like their voice?..do they make you blush? __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

09-29-2025, 03:16 PM	#5
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09-30-2025, 03:52 AM	#6
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	be creative, passionate in what you do __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

10-01-2025, 01:00 AM	#7
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Interesting bed chem __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

10-04-2025, 12:10 PM	#8
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	3-6-9 rule 3mos 'honeymoon' 6mos 'facing conflicts, euphoria mellows' 9mos deciding if this is going anywhere i guess i'm lucky i've usually know @ 3mos is that normal?..no idea __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

10-04-2025, 12:12 PM	#9
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	3-6-9 rule 3mos 'honeymoon' 6mos 'facing conflicts, euphoria mellows' 9mos deciding if this is going anywhere i guess i'm lucky i've usually know @ 3mos is that normal?..no idea but posting today is crazy! __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

10-06-2025, 05:03 AM	#10
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10-08-2025, 12:31 PM	#11
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	manners matter.... __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

10-08-2025, 07:10 PM	#12
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10-08-2025, 09:11 PM	#13
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11-06-2025, 04:21 PM	#14
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11-07-2025, 01:39 PM	#15
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05-28-2026, 10:39 PM	#16
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	don't make excuses, own it __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

05-29-2026, 01:34 AM	#17
kittygrrl Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: 'Je ne sais quoi' Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: here & there Posts: 10,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,799 Thanked 22,200 Times in 7,263 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	no question.. i'm your favorite grrl __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

05-29-2026, 04:24 AM	#18
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,891 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,462 Thanked 9,506 Times in 3,157 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Unwritten Rules 11 If you meet and think you would like to get involved, be honest. Getting to know each other can avoid dissapointment later on. If you like something say so. If you don't care for certain things, say so. If you are asked about something answer with the truth. I would make it fair up front while we messaged that I do not wish to get involved with a woman who drinks too much and often. I do not want to be with a smoker or illegal drug user. I do not like facial tattoos. I myself do not drink or smoke or take other than prescribed drugs. I do not like hearing unnecessary vulgar talk. I do like honesty and kindness and respect from her and myself. I like to talk things over so the result of talk makes the situation satisfactory to both parties. I would like to have open communication for both parties as it makes life much more enjoyable. I like if things are not up to par she can say so openly as can I .

05-29-2026, 02:11 PM	#20
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,891 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,462 Thanked 9,506 Times in 3,157 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Unwritten Rules 11 That would definitely help.