Big Butch Love

Leigh · 06-23-2010, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by kfemme

I am glad that I could bring a smile to your face, since you make me smile quite a bit in the House with how sweet you are to me and all of the rest of the girls there! Thank you so much for that and please don't ever change!

If I can bring a smile to a pretty face such as yours hun, then I would never change that because I love making people smile. I love knowing that us big butches/guys are appreciated, and I hope you ladies know that we appreciate and adore you as well

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Originally Posted by ravfem

aw, that's sweet, thank you! *hugs you* We are indeed both lucky to have found each other. Massi truly is an amazing person, and i happen to know that *i* am the luckier one of us

I love watching you and Massive interact in the House and all other threads too

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Originally Posted by Massive

And My babygirl's always right! Thank you kfemme!

Nothing wrong with a good "yes dear" to bring a smile to all faces

kfemme · 06-23-2010, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Braedon

If I can bring a smile to a pretty face such as yours hun, then I would never change that because I love making people smile. I love knowing that us big butches/guys are appreciated, and I hope you ladies know that we appreciate and adore you as well

Well thank you very much! That really is very sweet to say...and I know that as a larger femme it is nice to hear! I'm sure you are one wonderful Big Butch Daddy!

I love watching you and Massive interact in the House and all other threads too

I have to say that although I get little twinges of jealousy every so often it is very heartwarming to watch you two together! I hope you have many fabulous years together!

Nothing wrong with a good "yes dear" to bring a smile to all faces

I can definitely second that but you definitely did it in you own style Massive! No, surprises there either! I'm just really glad I am getting to know you

and all of you!

very big hugs to two really great Big Butch Daddies and one wonderful femme,
kfemme

lipstixgal · 06-24-2010, 04:05 PM

I'm overweight but I'm doing something to help it . I do Jenny Craig which is only 1200 calories per day no easy task!! I don't like being 50 lbs overweight but it is what it is. I started school in September and the weight came on like that. Hopefully with my internship I will be moving a little bit more and losing the weight!! Good lUck to those trying to lose its a hard battle believe me. also my parents were verbally abusive about my weight as well and I was about 120 lbs at the time!!

Andrew, Jr. · 06-24-2010, 04:36 PM

Lipstickgal,

My parents, esp. my mother, was verbally abusive towards me about my weight growing up. I was very thin and extremely muscular. I was out playing football, tennis, lifting weights, and so on. I weighted maybe 100 pounds soaking wet in high school. Everything else was muscle. She was embarassed by me. I was the exact opposite of her ideals of what it was to be a girl/woman/female gender.

If I talk with them today, the entire conversation is just about my weight. Even if I tell them it is not a subject up for debate or discussion, they ignore it. It wasn't until a friend of theirs was in their home, and walked in on a heated conversation of ours, it would have still gone on. I no longer talk with them at all. It is how I survive mentally. As parents, they should be ashamed of themselves. But they are too mentally ill to even know it.

Andrew

Leigh · 06-24-2010, 07:50 PM

I get sick and tired of people constantly making My weight a big issue ~ yeah I know I'm fat, must you constantly remind Me about that? Many of us live with being overweight every single day and we're perfectly fine without going on crash diets or practically killing ourselves to lose weight, so leave us alone and let us go on with our lives

Sorry guys, I guess Andrew mentioning about his parents got Me on abit of a rant because My dad does the same thing with Me about My weight ......... so I'm just glad that this thread is here so that us bigger butches/guys will know that we are loved and appreciated by femmes just the way that we are

lipstixgal · 06-25-2010, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

Lipstickgal,

My parents, esp. my mother, was verbally abusive towards me about my weight growing up. I was very thin and extremely muscular. I was out playing football, tennis, lifting weights, and so on. I weighted maybe 100 pounds soaking wet in high school. Everything else was muscle. She was embarassed by me. I was the exact opposite of her ideals of what it was to be a girl/woman/female gender.

If I talk with them today, the entire conversation is just about my weight. Even if I tell them it is not a subject up for debate or discussion, they ignore it. It wasn't until a friend of theirs was in their home, and walked in on a heated conversation of ours, it would have still gone on. I no longer talk with them at all. It is how I survive mentally. As parents, they should be ashamed of themselves. But they are too mentally ill to even know it.

Andrew

Oh Andrew that's too bad that you can't even talk with your own parents. My parents were mentally ill too I think. MY mom passes away about 4 years ago and now I can be who I want to be fat or thin. Of course I prefer being thinner but that is not always my choice. I have hypothyroidism which making lose weight even harder. So does my dog and he is overweight and on a diet!!! Low fat food for him. Just be who you are and know that you are the best person you could be...

Leigh · 06-25-2010, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by kfemme

very big hugs to two really great Big Butch Daddies and one wonderful femme,
kfemme

((((((((((((((((((((((((kfemme)))))))))))))))))))) ))))))))))

Sending you back the biggest hug ever

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Just be who you are and know that you are the best person you could be...

I definately agree with this ~ we can only be the best person that we can personally be, and if no one else likes it I say to heck with them!!!!

Andrew, Jr. · 06-25-2010, 01:17 PM

Ok, I have to post something here...I love & wear madras of all colors, in shorts and shirts. Most are from India, which I had no idea. And I also like them in all colors - red, navy, black, green, orange, and so on.

My second confession: I love & wear shorts with a pattern on them. For example, navy shorts with red crabs all over; or light blue shorts with martini glasses all over them, or seersucker shorts with lacrosse sticks crossed on them.

Smiling ear to ear,
Andrew

06-25-2010, 01:17 PM	#8
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	My 2 confessions... Ok, I have to post something here...I love & wear madras of all colors, in shorts and shirts. Most are from India, which I had no idea. And I also like them in all colors - red, navy, black, green, orange, and so on. My second confession: I love & wear shorts with a pattern on them. For example, navy shorts with red crabs all over; or light blue shorts with martini glasses all over them, or seersucker shorts with lacrosse sticks crossed on them. Smiling ear to ear, Andrew

06-24-2010, 04:05 PM	#3
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	I'm overweight but I'm doing something to help it . I do Jenny Craig which is only 1200 calories per day no easy task!! I don't like being 50 lbs overweight but it is what it is. I started school in September and the weight came on like that. Hopefully with my internship I will be moving a little bit more and losing the weight!! Good lUck to those trying to lose its a hard battle believe me. also my parents were verbally abusive about my weight as well and I was about 120 lbs at the time!!

06-24-2010, 04:36 PM	#4
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Lipstickgal, My parents, esp. my mother, was verbally abusive towards me about my weight growing up. I was very thin and extremely muscular. I was out playing football, tennis, lifting weights, and so on. I weighted maybe 100 pounds soaking wet in high school. Everything else was muscle. She was embarassed by me. I was the exact opposite of her ideals of what it was to be a girl/woman/female gender. If I talk with them today, the entire conversation is just about my weight. Even if I tell them it is not a subject up for debate or discussion, they ignore it. It wasn't until a friend of theirs was in their home, and walked in on a heated conversation of ours, it would have still gone on. I no longer talk with them at all. It is how I survive mentally. As parents, they should be ashamed of themselves. But they are too mentally ill to even know it. Andrew

06-24-2010, 07:50 PM	#5
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I get sick and tired of people constantly making My weight a big issue ~ yeah I know I'm fat, must you constantly remind Me about that? Many of us live with being overweight every single day and we're perfectly fine without going on crash diets or practically killing ourselves to lose weight, so leave us alone and let us go on with our lives Sorry guys, I guess Andrew mentioning about his parents got Me on abit of a rant because My dad does the same thing with Me about My weight ......... so I'm just glad that this thread is here so that us bigger butches/guys will know that we are loved and appreciated by femmes just the way that we are