The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 61

lipstixgal · 06-24-2010, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Thanks every one. I am feeling much better. The meds have kicked in and I actually had energy last night.. first time in over a month I felt normal.. relatively speaking lol. Still gonna take it easy during this heat wave though 5 days of over 90 degree heat and it's not suppose to end til tuesday. urrggggg. No outside activities for a while I'm afraid.

Lipstixgal.. walk your dogs as little as possible before 10 am. My allergist says thats when the most pollen is around.

Hope you all are doing well in this heat!
Have a wonderful day folks.
Ruthie

Thanks Ruthie glad to hear that you are feeling better!! I usually walk the dogs at 6 am and then at 3 or 4 in the afternoon. But with this heat we don't go far just around the block I can't take any chances...moving out of NJ because of pollution and cold weather in September some time so that should help with the asthma and allergies.

Lady_Wu · 06-25-2010, 05:05 AM

The heat's even reached WV! The temp has reached-gasp!-90 degrees! (I'm from MS/LA where the temp is considered HOT when it's over 100 degrees.) Yes, the town is even handing out free lemonade, an old tradition in "the air-conditioned city."
I hope everyone has a great weekend! Stay cool and out of the thunderstorms!
Ruthie, I'm so glad to hear you are feeling better. Lipstix, I don't know what to tell you about allergies, except to stay inside, lol. They've bedeviled me all of my life. I hope you get to feeling better and maybe find a med that helps!
Namaste,
Lady_Wu

morningstar55 · 06-25-2010, 05:07 AM

goood morning.. Loft dwellers
hope you all had a productive week.... lol ........
hey found this radio station its soo awsome.......... Native American
its mixed with flute, drumings, chants, story telling, blues and other tunes.. lol .... hope you all enjoy it.

http://radiotime.com/station/s_16747...ary_Music.aspx

Ruthie soo glad your feeling better....

and LadyWu

oh wow.... (((((((((((((( Incubus))))))))))))) soo proud of you .. 58 days .. keep it rollin...... ha
am enjoying my time at home . and in fact i need to get rolling here soon.. i have to get my stand loaded in the van and set up later for tonight and all day tomorrow.. will be face painting at a festival. later gators

cuddlyfemme · 06-25-2010, 07:04 AM

Good Morning Lofters! Happy Friday!!! I hope everyone has a wonderful day and stays cool. Its supposed to get up into the high 90's today in Columbia SC and the humidity (which is what i really hate) is supposed to be high

lipstixgal · 06-25-2010, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme

Good Morning Lofters! Happy Friday!!! I hope everyone has a wonderful day and stays cool. Its supposed to get up into the high 90's today in Columbia SC and the humidity (which is what i really hate) is supposed to be high

good afternoon cuddlyfemme, enjoying my days off from school and internship duties!! Its a high of 86 but the humidity seems to be better today!! Hopefully your day will be good too.

Jet · 06-25-2010, 11:56 AM

Flyin by, everyone have a good weekend

Wryly · 06-25-2010, 12:35 PM

Hey all!

Haven't been up to much lately. Enjoying the World Cup - was surprised by Italy's loss but am glad the U.S. is doing as well as they are.

Am heading out of town for a few days and I don't think I'll be able to check in here.

Everyone have a good weekend. Hope to see you soon!

Legendryder · 06-25-2010, 01:59 PM

Wow it is hotter than 10 hells here in Georgia today. Passed by one of the bank signs, it said 101 degrees. Youza!!

morningstar55 · 06-26-2010, 06:47 AM

morning Lofters.......
wow what a long night last night........ facepainting was soo busy.. heh
and today is going to be a looooong day.... of painting all day with a parade and then crowds for fire works...... yeha..
guess i need to get moving here . have a few things to do before i head bk to the carnival thingie.. lol
wow Legend...... that is like texas weather..... heh..... i travel to Ga often. mabe you'd like to meet for coffee or eats?? anyways......... i need to gits here......
hey ya cuddly..... Ruthie yhope your feeling ok this morning.
have a good day everyone

cuddlyfemme · 06-26-2010, 07:18 AM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

morning Lofters.......
wow what a long night last night........ facepainting was soo busy.. heh
and today is going to be a looooong day.... of painting all day with a parade and then crowds for fire works...... yeha..
guess i need to get moving here . have a few things to do before i head bk to the carnival thingie.. lol
wow Legend...... that is like texas weather..... heh..... i travel to Ga often. mabe you'd like to meet for coffee or eats?? anyways......... i need to gits here......
hey ya cuddly..... Ruthie yhope your feeling ok this morning.
have a good day everyone

hey morningstar, be safe out there!

cuddlyfemme · 06-26-2010, 07:19 AM

Good Morning Lofters and happy Saturday. I hope everyone is doing good. I've got a stomach bug so am pretty much laying low. Have a wonderful day everyone!

Soon · 06-26-2010, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme

Good Morning Lofters and happy Saturday. I hope everyone is doing good. I've got a stomach bug so am pretty much laying low. Have a wonderful day everyone!

cuddlyfemme · 06-26-2010, 07:27 AM

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Originally Posted by HowSoonIsNow

thank you so much for the birthday wishes!!

Sunny · 06-26-2010, 07:33 AM

I hope everyone is staying cooooollllllll! It has been pretty hot here by the ocean. We do have a breeze all the time though. It makes it bearable. Well have to go to work today at least there is air there. They do keep it steamy.

cuddlyfemme · 06-26-2010, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Sunny

I hope everyone is staying cooooollllllll! It has been pretty hot here by the ocean. We do have a breeze all the time though. It makes it bearable. Well have to go to work today at least there is air there. They do keep it steamy.

i love ocean breezes....i'm glad where you work there is at least air. its supposed to get hot here in, columbia too. i think today is a day where i stay inside

Lady_Wu · 06-26-2010, 07:59 AM

HAPPY BIRTHDAY,
CUDDLYfEMME!!!

cuddlyfemme · 06-26-2010, 08:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady_Wu

HAPPY BIRTHDAY,
CUDDLYfEMME!!!

Thank you so much Lady_Wu for the birthday wishes!!!!

ruthie14 · 06-26-2010, 01:58 PM

I am such an idiot. Apparently I have trouble figuring out if someone is interested in me or not. Been dating this one woman... told me she was interested.. Asked me for dates... flirted.. etc etc.. now she tells me she is not "ready for a relationship". Is she? or is she just NOT interested. We found each other on a dating site for heavens sake. WTF... do I have a sign on my head? Having a stiff drink. My head says its her issue... but the rest of me is thinking there is something wrong with me. I give up.

cuddlyfemme · 06-26-2010, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

I am such an idiot. Apparently I have trouble figuring out if someone is interested in me or not. Been dating this one woman... told me she was interested.. Asked me for dates... flirted.. etc etc.. now she tells me she is not "ready for a relationship". Is she? or is she just NOT interested. We found each other on a dating site for heavens sake. WTF... do I have a sign on my head? Having a stiff drink. My head says its her issue... but the rest of me is thinking there is something wrong with me. I give up.

Ruthie, I'm so sorry that happened...its happened to me too, so i understand. I just don't get it, why people do this. If they aren't ready for a relationship, ok....but to put yourself on a dating site, find someone and say "i'm not ready for a relationship" is something i can't wrap my head around

lipstixgal · 06-26-2010, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme

Ruthie, I'm so sorry that happened...its happened to me too, so i understand. I just don't get it, why people do this. If they aren't ready for a relationship, ok....but to put yourself on a dating site, find someone and say "i'm not ready for a relationship" is something i can't wrap my head around

Happy birthday cuddlyfemme!! Yeah I'm on dating sites too, met a woman wanted to meet for coffee then she emails and says she has to go on a business trip for 3 weeks am I suppose to wait for her? I don't know why she contacted me in the first place, can't wrap my mind around this one either. So Ruthie I feel for you. I don't understand why people even bother. Well for me I think I'm glad that nothing happened because I plan on moving out of fucking NJ can't stand it here any longer!! don't like the winters and don't like the people in the area. tomorrow is gay pride in NY going alone of course, no one to go with. Tired of being alone already

06-25-2010, 05:05 AM	#1202
Lady_Wu Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Queer Stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: M'Lady Relationship Status: given up looking sigh Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere buried under a pile of books Posts: 197 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 300 Times in 105 Posts Rep Power: 155955	Heat The heat's even reached WV! The temp has reached-gasp!-90 degrees! (I'm from MS/LA where the temp is considered HOT when it's over 100 degrees.) Yes, the town is even handing out free lemonade, an old tradition in "the air-conditioned city." I hope everyone has a great weekend! Stay cool and out of the thunderstorms! Ruthie, I'm so glad to hear you are feeling better. Lipstix, I don't know what to tell you about allergies, except to stay inside, lol. They've bedeviled me all of my life. I hope you get to feeling better and maybe find a med that helps! Namaste, Lady_Wu __________________ I'm the Yin in the Yang and the Yang in the Yin.

06-25-2010, 05:07 AM	#1203
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	goood morning.. Loft dwellers hope you all had a productive week.... lol ........ hey found this radio station its soo awsome.......... Native American its mixed with flute, drumings, chants, story telling, blues and other tunes.. lol .... hope you all enjoy it. http://radiotime.com/station/s_16747...ary_Music.aspx Ruthie soo glad your feeling better.... and LadyWu oh wow.... (((((((((((((( Incubus))))))))))))) soo proud of you .. 58 days .. keep it rollin...... ha am enjoying my time at home . and in fact i need to get rolling here soon.. i have to get my stand loaded in the van and set up later for tonight and all day tomorrow.. will be face painting at a festival. later gators __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

06-26-2010, 06:47 AM	#1209
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	morning Lofters....... wow what a long night last night........ facepainting was soo busy.. heh and today is going to be a looooong day.... of painting all day with a parade and then crowds for fire works...... yeha.. guess i need to get moving here . have a few things to do before i head bk to the carnival thingie.. lol wow Legend...... that is like texas weather..... heh..... i travel to Ga often. mabe you'd like to meet for coffee or eats?? anyways......... i need to gits here...... hey ya cuddly..... Ruthie yhope your feeling ok this morning. have a good day everyone __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

06-26-2010, 07:33 AM	#1214
Sunny Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: New Jersey Posts: 423 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 396 Thanked 745 Times in 283 Posts Rep Power: 6521616	Hot! Hot! Hot! I hope everyone is staying cooooollllllll! It has been pretty hot here by the ocean. We do have a breeze all the time though. It makes it bearable. Well have to go to work today at least there is air there. They do keep it steamy. __________________ Sunny

06-26-2010, 07:59 AM	#1216
Lady_Wu Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Queer Stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: M'Lady Relationship Status: given up looking sigh Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere buried under a pile of books Posts: 197 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 300 Times in 105 Posts Rep Power: 155955	Happy Birthday! HAPPY BIRTHDAY, CUDDLYfEMME!!! __________________ I'm the Yin in the Yang and the Yang in the Yin.

06-25-2010, 07:04 AM	#1204
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496122	Good Morning Lofters! Happy Friday!!! I hope everyone has a wonderful day and stays cool. Its supposed to get up into the high 90's today in Columbia SC and the humidity (which is what i really hate) is supposed to be high

06-25-2010, 11:56 AM	#1206
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,646 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	Flyin by, everyone have a good weekend

06-25-2010, 12:35 PM	#1207
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094253	Hey all! Haven't been up to much lately. Enjoying the World Cup - was surprised by Italy's loss but am glad the U.S. is doing as well as they are. Am heading out of town for a few days and I don't think I'll be able to check in here. Everyone have a good weekend. Hope to see you soon!

06-25-2010, 01:59 PM	#1208
Legendryder Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Queen City, MO Posts: 420 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14 Thanked 969 Times in 261 Posts Rep Power: 7270130	Wow it is hotter than 10 hells here in Georgia today. Passed by one of the bank signs, it said 101 degrees. Youza!!

06-26-2010, 07:19 AM	#1211
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496122	Good Morning Lofters and happy Saturday. I hope everyone is doing good. I've got a stomach bug so am pretty much laying low. Have a wonderful day everyone!

06-26-2010, 01:58 PM	#1218
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	I am such an idiot. Apparently I have trouble figuring out if someone is interested in me or not. Been dating this one woman... told me she was interested.. Asked me for dates... flirted.. etc etc.. now she tells me she is not "ready for a relationship". Is she? or is she just NOT interested. We found each other on a dating site for heavens sake. WTF... do I have a sign on my head? Having a stiff drink. My head says its her issue... but the rest of me is thinking there is something wrong with me. I give up.