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			mmmm...for now, it's the first cup of coffee
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			A very nice time on the lake watching fireworks and talking with my beloved.....it was a very unexpected beautiful night......
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			walking around the flea market today with my friend Jean, and enjoying "county fair fries" and a lemon shake...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			A beautiful, peaceful walk along the Bay with a woman that just might get under my skin! Now, if our dogs could just get along!!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			to be...or not to be...that is the question! Join Date: Mar 2010 
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			Sitting at a cafe outside by the marina with two wonderful friends...eating tapas and drinking wine. We laughed and carried on for hours planning our next big adventure sightseeing in Europe.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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 *Let's take a walk... ok... I don't wanna go to the lil park, let's go up to the lake.. ok.... walk,talk, walk.. rescue baby bird trying to learn how to fly in gale force winds, walk, talk, walk... sit.. talk, talk, talk.. fireworks, fireworks,fireworks..* Completly surrounded by fireworks in every corner of the sky... Lovely... 
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			 I had a very busy day and a huge lunch so a nap was in order. ![]()  | 
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			The briny.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			 My babygirl did, 
		she always does, she certainly made My birthday the best one ever! ![]() ![]() ![]() 
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			The many wonderful friends in my life brings me joy ... not just today but everyday.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Of course, have to mention ... my dog, Kelly, is my #1 Best Friend Always.   I plan to post a new photo of her shortly with her latest "surprise." If I come home from the grocery store or from anywhere and I have packages, she gets so excited to see what I bought especially for her. Kelly is hilarious! Yes, indeed, a great joy to hang with -she always makes me laugh out loud.
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			It’s all good. Join Date: Dec 2009 
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			Although I am facing a number of things in my life that I never dreamed would be in peril...I can come to this site and even though it may be for just a few minutes out of my day...I can find acceptance, compassion, colorful viewpoints, many a post to make me think maybe my way is not always the right way, and a whole group of people that love me and would never, ever even know me if we passed on the street...sometimes when I finally make it to bed late at night I can think on these things and know I am going to be alright.  Someway. Somehow.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Today was a pretty good day, for a few reasons: 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	~ The sun was shining, and it was warm outside ~ Talking with and getting to know a sweet femme online ~ Having a friend of Mine, who I didn't expect to hear from for awhile, tell Me that he missed My friendship and that he wanted us to be friends again ~ Watching videos on YouTube of FTM's posting vlog's (video blogs) about their transition; as well as a specific channel where SOFFA's discuss what its like to be with an FTM, how they feel about various weekly topics picked by them or viewers of the channel, and just seeing alot of love being expressed between the guys and their partners I'm telling you, today was a day that has put a perma-grin on My face ~ can't you tell?  
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			Sunshine. Hot dogs. Sweet Puppy love. Fireworks. Friendship. Dragonfly's. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Curled up on a big comfy couch in the a/c with my dog, my exes shih tzu and her gf's dog.. .Just watching tv and relaxing. Us all catching naps throughout the day...  Me and the dogs that is LOL  They are out of town..   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Tonight....we had a little get~together with some of the Austin peeps..... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	And Oiler surprised us all (but mainly Pup) with a big ol' box of FIRECRACKERS!!!! We had our own personal Fireworks Display and it was SO much fun!!! Great BBQ and sides....I made a new recipe ~ Raspberry Buttermilk Cake.....it was yummie! The whole evening was really so lovely!  | 
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			* Hanging out with one of my best friend's two toddlers. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			* Hearing my nephew sing and play his guitar tonight. He's getting so good. * Grabbing a coffee and gabbing with one of my buddies. * Cracking up my mom (and the other ladies at church) by telling her things we did as teens that she didn't know about. 
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