I am a Lesbian/Man/Tman and I like Lesbians/Men/Transmen because....

SuperFemme · 07-05-2010, 04:47 PM

I am a femme, a lesbian and I love other humans.

I happen to be in love with and married to a trans man, but not because he is a transman. It just happened that the human I fell for is a transman.

It's hard for me to couch an answer in what it is I love about a specific label, because no two transpeople that I know are exactly the same.

I will say that I appreciate it when a trans person wants to keep their Queer/Butch/Femme/Whatever roots and remain a part of the community.

I don't want to lose all the history and amazing people we have because they chose to transition, and I am incredibly grateful when people do not leave the community because of transition.

I know it's not easy sometimes.

I am also grateful when others make room for each other and change is accepted. Again, it's not always easy, but the pay off is immense.

07-05-2010, 04:47 PM	#16
SuperFemme Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 10/24/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Married (one of 18,000) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atascadero, CA Posts: 4,933 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,309 Thanked 7,108 Times in 2,327 Posts Rep Power: 0	I am a femme, a lesbian and I love other humans. I happen to be in love with and married to a trans man, but not because he is a transman. It just happened that the human I fell for is a transman. It's hard for me to couch an answer in what it is I love about a specific label, because no two transpeople that I know are exactly the same. I will say that I appreciate it when a trans person wants to keep their Queer/Butch/Femme/Whatever roots and remain a part of the community. I don't want to lose all the history and amazing people we have because they chose to transition, and I am incredibly grateful when people do not leave the community because of transition. I know it's not easy sometimes. I am also grateful when others make room for each other and change is accepted. Again, it's not always easy, but the pay off is immense.