If You Could Turn Back Time, What Would You Do Differently?

Rockinonahigh · 07-14-2010, 12:17 PM

One thing I should have done in the past is take better care of me insted of busting my ass doing things for ppl who didnt appresheate it.Over the years I have given so many ppl in my life slack when they did things that were not good for me cause I was a ppl pleaser insted of seeing them for who and what they were befor it was to late...this caused me no end of self dislike for being such a push over.Now im a lot more careful and not as trusting as I once was...I really hate that I have lost a lot of trust I once had of ppl's objectives.I would like to think I can still trust folks and I do in reality its just I wonder when I let ppl into my life if they are going to use me for whatever thay want then..im nothing but an object to get the place they want to be or get.I hope that made some sence,well I did to me anyway..

MrSunshine · 07-14-2010, 01:22 PM

There was a time I would (I even had that as a wish in my profile) but now, no way. I wouldn't want to take the chance of having to re-live some of the shit I've lived through. Once was more than enough.

chefhottie25 · 07-14-2010, 07:22 PM

I wouldn't do anything different. It has been a crazy ride and a beautiful journey. I needed to take them both to grow.

Leigh · 07-14-2010, 08:00 PM

There are a couple of things that I would have done differently, but right now I think that I was meant to do things as they were and it has moulded Me into the person that I am today

sweetfemme247 · 07-14-2010, 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Braedon

There are a couple of things that I would have done differently, but right now I think that I was meant to do things as they were and it has moulded Me into the person that I am today

I could think of a couple things you could of done differently

Leigh · 07-14-2010, 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by everettdiva

I could think of a couple things you could of done differently

Yes I agree I could have and I wanted to, but there's nothing I can do about that now right? Its in the past and I cant change that

sweetfemme247 · 07-14-2010, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Braedon

Yes I agree I could have and I wanted to, but there's nothing I can do about that now right? Its in the past and I cant change that

i was only teasing no need to get defensive

Soft*Silver · 07-14-2010, 09:02 PM

I would not have been sitting at that red light when the semi hit my car

I would not have drank Nov 11 2008

I would have moved to a warmer state but one that still had fall

I would have had one or two more children

I would have gone on for my PhD

ruthie14 · 07-14-2010, 09:59 PM

I would have gotten a bachelors degree instead of an assoiciates.

I would have tried to have a child earlier.. maybe then I could have had one of my own.

I would have come out a lot earlier had I known.

I would not trust so easily, forgive so readily, or take crap from anyone for who I am.

Woulda shoulda coulda .... gets me no where

ravfem · 07-15-2010, 11:20 AM

i'd go back to March 9, which is "Get Over It" Day so i could go round tellin
everybody to just get over it already! (starting with myself)

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ravfem Senior Member How Do You Identify?: i'm a girl Relationship Status: negative Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 1,811 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,239 Thanked 3,125 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 1969286	i'd go back to March 9, which is "Get Over It" Day so i could go round tellin everybody to just get over it already! (starting with myself) __________________

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Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	One thing I should have done in the past is take better care of me insted of busting my ass doing things for ppl who didnt appresheate it.Over the years I have given so many ppl in my life slack when they did things that were not good for me cause I was a ppl pleaser insted of seeing them for who and what they were befor it was to late...this caused me no end of self dislike for being such a push over.Now im a lot more careful and not as trusting as I once was...I really hate that I have lost a lot of trust I once had of ppl's objectives.I would like to think I can still trust folks and I do in reality its just I wonder when I let ppl into my life if they are going to use me for whatever thay want then..im nothing but an object to get the place they want to be or get.I hope that made some sence,well I did to me anyway..

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MrSunshine Senior Member How Do You Identify?: The Gardner Preferred Pronoun?: Ummmm Relationship Status: Nah Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Sunshine State, State of Sunshine Posts: 2,616 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,577 Thanked 3,891 Times in 1,155 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	There was a time I would (I even had that as a wish in my profile) but now, no way. I wouldn't want to take the chance of having to re-live some of the shit I've lived through. Once was more than enough.

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chefhottie25 Member How Do You Identify?: boi Preferred Pronoun?: hy Relationship Status: happily taken Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: ohio Posts: 1,406 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26 Thanked 889 Times in 478 Posts Rep Power: 1175217	I wouldn't do anything different. It has been a crazy ride and a beautiful journey. I needed to take them both to grow.

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Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	There are a couple of things that I would have done differently, but right now I think that I was meant to do things as they were and it has moulded Me into the person that I am today

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ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	I would have gotten a bachelors degree instead of an assoiciates. I would have tried to have a child earlier.. maybe then I could have had one of my own. I would have come out a lot earlier had I known. I would not trust so easily, forgive so readily, or take crap from anyone for who I am. Woulda shoulda coulda .... gets me no where