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Old 07-18-2010, 03:57 AM   #1
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a dark, rich cup of hot coffee

a gentle rain shower

looking out over my pond at sunset watching the birds at play

a quiet house early in the morning or late at night

a day of doing nothing

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a phone call from a friend, just to say hi

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its fairly obvious that working in my garden or being with horses or animals in general, give me peace. I pray and meditate in and out of the garden but somehow working in it clears my head and gives me the peace I need to know what I am suppose to do, or where I ventured wrong and how I can make the most of my relationships and life.
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Getting to the coast or the lakes before everyone else and getting in a kayak and paddling around and taking in the scenery. Then rigging the rod and casting away my hearts desire. Paddling back in, while everyone else is trying to get out to where I had just had my ultimate quiet bliss.
Kicking back on the picnic table and just taking it all in.
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*I* am grateful for Snowys music too.
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not being pressured by anyone about anything, and if i feel 'sense of urgencies' galore, removing them from my life.

a lengthy list of prep-work/ingredients

getting to know people / letting them into my life slowly instead of knowing/revealing every single detail about who they are, and i am, in the first hour or few weeks.

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Setting strong boundaries pertaining to how me, my dog and my home will be treated...and sticking to them.

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Absolutely no sound in this house other than the sound of my breathing, Lucy's snoring and the hummmm of my AC....
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