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For me, personally, I have found that taking extra time to point out both sides in a thread discussion helps in getting across that I am not only looking at what fits for me. Whenever I have not done this and have also been pissed, the end result is just plain negative and probably only contributes to existing wedges. These wedges just plain hurt. I know that when someone states understanding of a variable I may deal with as a FIB along with what their experience is (i.e., maybe a Transman responding to a post of mine), I feel that community-based sense of alliance. So, it seems that I ought to do the same thing. Although I have learned so very much from this community via the site (and old one), doing research on my own helps me understand much more and be able to contribute to a discussion from a more informed place. In building community, I feel that I need to take sources that touch someone else seriously. Yup, it gets hard sometimes because there are a lot of sensitive discussions here. We are human and can get frustrated. But, when I get away from responding personally in a negative manner (have not always been good at this), I end up feeling like I am part of a larger community and can be an ally to differing home groups in a meaningful and authentic way. Thanks, Met! This feels like a good way to bring us together. |
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