what NOT to do in a relationship.......

Ebon · 07-29-2010, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by dixielady

OMG! Agreed!!! LOL

Don't call me at work telling me how you love and adore me, then deny that you know anything about the unfamiliar cigarettes and freakin' underwear beside my bed when I get home...I don't smoke menthols, I don't wear underwear, and I wasn't born yesterday....grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Wow is all I can say to this. Just wow.

Gemme · 07-30-2010, 01:29 AM

Do not:

Never negotiate, whether it be sex or personal boundaries, future intentions, etc. Negotiation keeps everyone on the same page.

Be, or expect to be, someone's world. It's too hard to live our lives as ourselves, much less carry the weight of another.

Go to the bathroom in front of me. Been there, done that and it does something to the relationship that I don't like. Familiarity can breed contempt in situations like this.

Do the usual deal breakers: lying, cheating, drugging, stealing, stalking, murdering, embezzling, being a controlling pompous ass, etc.

07-30-2010, 01:29 AM	#2
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