what NOT to do in a relationship.......

dark_crystal · 08-01-2010, 06:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TenderKnight

Do not expect me to be a role.. I'm a human being and I have feelings and sometimes I just CAN'T be your Dad.

this has been an issue for me in past D/s relationships...it is tricky because there are times when one or both of us may have to step out of the dynamic...but i do think it shoud be formally announced when it is happening...if we are both jumping in and out of the dynamic things can break down real quick

Dean Thoreau · 08-01-2010, 06:40 PM

DO NOT............................. assume or think or presume you are perfect and infallible...and I promise I will try to remember I am not either.
Remember we got involved with each other for the same reason ,,we each saw something, liked something, loved something in each other...Now let us both do each other a favor and remember that when we see all the crap that comes with that something we fell in love with!

Rockinonahigh · 08-01-2010, 07:23 PM

We have posted a lot of what not to do,soooo how about a fue of what too do.Hear are a fue of mine...

Understand if I am in a relationship with u it will be the first one that I have been in.Yeah,ive dated and had a fue women friends with benefits over the years,but we both knew what we were geting into cause nither wanted anything else..

My trust and heart are guarded by a gate with an iron lock,for me to open it u will be dificult in many ways because of being used,lied to,made a fool of ect,ect..give me time to realise its ok to let u in.

Understand that I dont do abuse in any way..I will be gone in a flash.

I was the abandond child who was barely part of the family.If it hadnt been for my grand folks and an aunt and uncle who passed way to soon I wouldnt know what a good relationship was

I grew up knowing two sets of rules to live by..theires and mine,in no way were they anywhere the same.

As we get to know each other please realise im going to have to get use to beleaving someone could really care enough to love me.

I havent had many soft places to fall,so if I dont let u in when u think I should have..lets talk it out,I promiss to do better next time.

Well these are a fue,no im not a basket case because of what ive gone thrue
cause over the years I have become who I am and am at peace with all the things life has thrown at me

The_Lady_Snow · 08-01-2010, 07:31 PM

DO NOT eat ALL the Salt and Vinegar chips!

miss entycing · 08-01-2010, 07:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

DO NOT eat ALL the Salt and Vinegar chips!

ANDDD all MY er, I mean...the chocolate-
you will not 'cute' your way outta that.

bigbutchmistie · 08-01-2010, 07:48 PM

ADONT be jealous of my femme friends. There are reasons they are my friends. They were in my past, some of them we had it out we made it through were loyal no matter what and made it to my present and will be there in my future. It raises a red flag to me if one is jealous of someones friends just sayin

Rockinonahigh · 08-01-2010, 09:11 PM

Dont grose out when...I eat pickled pigs feet or pickled pork hocks,I dont do this much any more but onece in a while i gotta have some.

I love sour pickles and keep them by the galon.

I really dig red wine vinager,by the glas or over lettus

I cook with lots of garlic..if its too much for u let me know and I will cut it back a bit.

Salt and viniger chips are great but I dont eat them so much because of the high salt content

Yes,I have some strange eating habits.But I dont have high bp or colestol either.

08-01-2010, 06:40 PM	#2
Dean Thoreau Member How Do You Identify?: Ftm - Male- exfemale Preferred Pronoun?: He’s Him Relationship Status: Has a gf Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Philadelphia pa Posts: 889 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 251 Thanked 763 Times in 219 Posts Rep Power: 4529750	DO NOT............................. assume or think or presume you are perfect and infallible...and I promise I will try to remember I am not either. Remember we got involved with each other for the same reason ,,we each saw something, liked something, loved something in each other...Now let us both do each other a favor and remember that when we see all the crap that comes with that something we fell in love with! __________________ Dean Thoreau

08-01-2010, 07:31 PM	#4
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08-01-2010, 07:23 PM	#3
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	We have posted a lot of what not to do,soooo how about a fue of what too do.Hear are a fue of mine... Understand if I am in a relationship with u it will be the first one that I have been in.Yeah,ive dated and had a fue women friends with benefits over the years,but we both knew what we were geting into cause nither wanted anything else.. My trust and heart are guarded by a gate with an iron lock,for me to open it u will be dificult in many ways because of being used,lied to,made a fool of ect,ect..give me time to realise its ok to let u in. Understand that I dont do abuse in any way..I will be gone in a flash. I was the abandond child who was barely part of the family.If it hadnt been for my grand folks and an aunt and uncle who passed way to soon I wouldnt know what a good relationship was I grew up knowing two sets of rules to live by..theires and mine,in no way were they anywhere the same. As we get to know each other please realise im going to have to get use to beleaving someone could really care enough to love me. I havent had many soft places to fall,so if I dont let u in when u think I should have..lets talk it out,I promiss to do better next time. Well these are a fue,no im not a basket case because of what ive gone thrue cause over the years I have become who I am and am at peace with all the things life has thrown at me

08-01-2010, 07:48 PM	#6
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	ADONT be jealous of my femme friends. There are reasons they are my friends. They were in my past, some of them we had it out we made it through were loyal no matter what and made it to my present and will be there in my future. It raises a red flag to me if one is jealous of someones friends just sayin

08-01-2010, 09:11 PM	#7
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Dont grose out when...I eat pickled pigs feet or pickled pork hocks,I dont do this much any more but onece in a while i gotta have some. I love sour pickles and keep them by the galon. I really dig red wine vinager,by the glas or over lettus I cook with lots of garlic..if its too much for u let me know and I will cut it back a bit. Salt and viniger chips are great but I dont eat them so much because of the high salt content Yes,I have some strange eating habits.But I dont have high bp or colestol either.