what NOT to do in a relationship.......

Diva · 08-01-2010, 10:35 PM

I'm thinkin' that one thing not to do in a relationship would be ~ if one is IN a relationship ~ to come into a thread like this and post what not to do before one discusses it with their partner.

RoyalRose · 08-01-2010, 10:47 PM

Do not belittle me in front of my friends and family. Your job is to always have my back, no matter what.

Do not be afraid of your emotions. I have them, you have them, everyone has them... and the only way we can have a good relationship is if we talk about them.

Jesse · 08-01-2010, 11:00 PM

We are a team and in order to communicate effectively, problem solving will need to come into play. You will need to be a part of that process in order for us to be successful. Do not shut down and refuse to communicate. If you are angry, say so. Frustrated? Speak up.

Duchess · 08-01-2010, 11:03 PM

Don't search through personal items. This is sooo disrespectful.

Duchess

Soft*Silver · 08-01-2010, 11:31 PM

dont ask me to compare you to FtMs if you are butch. Dont ask me to compare you to butches if you are FtMs. Dont question how I can call myself a lesbian if I have been with and could enjoy sex with CIS men.

dont chase the Golden O like its YOUR prize. Its MINE and I like the journey there as much, if not more than, the Golden O.

dont tell me to dye my hair. And dont tell me my silver makes me look old. It might make YOU look old but it doesnt make me look old...

Rockinonahigh · 08-02-2010, 12:47 AM

OH those golden O's....they are a gift from the goddess and should be persued with sweet loveing care,truly the journey is as good as geting there.

Bard · 08-02-2010, 06:27 AM

Do not ever hurt my child we are a matched set she and I and yes I will share her with you she is amazing advanced and sweet and she will get attached so when you discard me you alos hurt her and she is young this is a lesson I don't want her to learn .. I know she will down the road.. but for now she has enough with dealing with her two homes..

IrishGrrl · 08-02-2010, 11:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva

I'm thinkin' that one thing not to do in a relationship would be ~ if one is IN a relationship ~ to come into a thread like this and post what not to do before one discusses it with their partner.

Unless of course one is referring to PAST relationships and not the current one.

Rook · 08-02-2010, 05:58 PM

- Don't presume to know my thoughts...

{on that same token}

- Don't expect me to be a mind reader

- We'll talk, till sunrise if you'd like...But if I want "alone time", leave me alone, when i'm done, you'll know.{in other words, give me space & time to think}

- Don't assume my fondness for cuddling tenderness is an open door to "by all means, fuck me"....

- Do expect random gifts of appreciation/affection in different ways {from a random wildflower, to a simple kiss + smile}

- Don't touch my coffee....

- Love me, love my ferrets

- Do share the TV remote {I promise not to Hog it and blast sports...much}

- Do understand, I pamper My inner child, often...

- All those things u found attractive when we met? Try to remember that always....I do {Especially when you drive me nuts}..

08-01-2010, 11:00 PM	#3
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	We are a team and in order to communicate effectively, problem solving will need to come into play. You will need to be a part of that process in order for us to be successful. Do not shut down and refuse to communicate. If you are angry, say so. Frustrated? Speak up. __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”

08-01-2010, 11:03 PM	#4
Duchess Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Absolute Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Toe curling :-) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 2,382 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,792 Thanked 5,591 Times in 1,521 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	*Don't search through personal items. This is sooo disrespectful.* *Duchess* __________________ *無料のライブ*

08-01-2010, 11:31 PM	#5
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,594 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,897 Times in 4,064 Posts Rep Power*: 21474858	dont ask me to compare you to FtMs if you are butch. Dont ask me to compare you to butches if you are FtMs. Dont question how I can call myself a lesbian if I have been with and could enjoy sex with CIS men. dont chase the Golden O like its YOUR prize. Its MINE and I like the journey there as much, if not more than, the Golden O. dont tell me to dye my hair. And dont tell me my silver makes me look old. It might make YOU look old but it doesnt make me look old... __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

08-02-2010, 06:27 AM	#7
Bard Family Man How Do You Identify?: TG Male Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones Relationship Status: She just gets me Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ..... Posts: 2,828 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,997 Thanked 12,786 Times in 2,431 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Do not ever hurt my child we are a matched set she and I and yes I will share her with you she is amazing advanced and sweet and she will get attached so when you discard me you alos hurt her and she is young this is a lesson I don't want her to learn .. I know she will down the road.. but for now she has enough with dealing with her two homes.. __________________ This is ten percent luck, twenty percent skill Fifteen percent concentrated power of will Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain And a hundred percent reason to remember the name! Give yourself over to absolute pleasure. Swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh - erotic nightmares beyond any measure, and sensual daydreams to treasure forever. Can't you just see it? Don't dream it, be it.

08-02-2010, 05:58 PM	#9
Rook Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A.G - Stone Butch - GenderFuck Preferred Pronoun?: Hym, Hyz...or, just b respectable, it's not that hard.. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Columbus Posts: 2,280 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,227 Thanked 3,182 Times in 1,287 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	- Don't presume to know my thoughts... {on that same token} - Don't expect me to be a mind reader - We'll talk, till sunrise if you'd like...But if I want "alone time", leave me alone, when i'm done, you'll know.{in other words, give me space & time to think} - Don't assume my fondness for cuddling tenderness is an open door to "by all means, fuck me".... - Do expect random gifts of appreciation/affection in different ways {from a random wildflower, to a simple kiss + smile} - Don't touch my coffee.... - Love me, love my ferrets - Do share the TV remote {I promise not to Hog it and blast sports...much} - Do understand, I pamper My inner child, often... - All those things u found attractive when we met? Try to remember that always....I do {Especially when you drive me nuts}.. __________________

08-01-2010, 10:35 PM	#1
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,175 Times in 5,239 Posts Rep Power: 0	*I'm thinkin' that one thing not to do in a relationship would be ~ if one is IN a relationship ~ to come into a thread like this and post what not to do before one discusses it with their partner.*

08-01-2010, 10:47 PM	#2
RoyalRose Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 6 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5 Thanked 21 Times in 4 Posts Rep Power: 0	Do not belittle me in front of my friends and family. Your job is to always have my back, no matter what. Do not be afraid of your emotions. I have them, you have them, everyone has them... and the only way we can have a good relationship is if we talk about them.

08-02-2010, 12:47 AM	#6
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	OH those golden O's....they are a gift from the goddess and should be persued with sweet loveing care,truly the journey is as good as geting there.