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![]() Yup, this might look kinda hoakey, but, it is in the spirit of helping combat transphobia here and give those of us that are not trans a place to gather information to respond to transphobic remarks and attitudes. My hope is that our trans members will post links, articles, books and personal ideas about how we all can have discussions that prevent on-going myths and mis-perceptions about transpeople and couples in our community and specifically on the site. The truth is that many members do not have a background in gender dynamics and transitioning and their first glimpse of the transgendered (or inter-gendered) experience could very well be here. They could make blunders that are not even close to mean-spirited because they haven’t a clue about where and how to educate themselves. Even in today’s world, even as a member, here. Obviously, this thread takes the point of view that transphobia exists here at times and in real-time within the B-F, LGBTIQ communities. That point isn’t being argued. Sometimes it is difficult for a non-trans person to articulate to someone else that they are being transphobic, but often lacks sound information in trying to make points about this and to let others know they need to get educated in a way that doesn't promote more myth, misinformation, and bigotry. The thread needs and seeks the help of trans members to get movin’! I can recommend Colage as a queer organization for families that can be a good resource- sticking with what I know personally in terms of an organization that can be of help. There are many other resource organizations worldwide that is would be great to get a run-down on from transpeople that participate in them. Hopefully, everyone will add information and links, etc. from time to time to update the thread.... I hope it remains a pro-active and informational thread and doesn't disintegrate into debate- we have many threads to do that in!! http://colage.org/ |
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http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...read.php?t=159 <-- see links here.
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This is exactly the kind of garbage that not engaging in ways to educate people as a community in total spurs in society at large.
Indiana Hospital Says No Transgender Patients Allowed http://gayrights.change.org/blog/vie...tients_allowed |
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http://www.brownboiproject.org/
Check out this site and read their Mission Statement. I am going to do some stuff with this group and I am very pleased to see the younger ones picking up the cause and moving us forward.
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I have to applaud the Boston Veterans Administration Medical Center for their official policy of treating Transgender Veteran patients with the same kindness, care, interest and respect they would render to non-trans Veteran patients. In their policy, which I'll provide a link to the complete text of below, they state:
"Nationwide, there is a VA prohibition against providing gender revision surgery or sex reassignment surgery (SRS). However, VA Boston Healthcare System has a number of transgender patients seeking ‘usual and customary’ treatment. Some transsexual patients have completed or are en-route to full transition from one gender to another. This transition often takes years for a patient to fully complete; some never fully complete the transition. Moreover, other transgender individuals prefer to live outside the traditional boundaries of gender which may not necessitate surgical interventions or other elements of transition. Thus, VA Boston Healthcare System cares for transgender patients who present at multiple points on this transition continuum, including individuals who are not seeking SRS. Therefore, transition status cannot be a prerequisite for providing appropriate healthcare." I'm a very proud employee of the VA Health Care System, here in Las Vegas, and I've recently been appointed to the position of Fair Practices Coordinator in my local union (AFGE). It is my own personal mission, in this capacity, to bring about a similar policy in my own VA system that would provide and require fair treatment all transgender patients and employees. This really needs to be implemented as a nationwide VA policy, and I think it will be, eventually. I'm proud of the VA health care system, as a whole. I'm very thankful that the United States is the only country in the world that honors its military Veterans with our own government-provided health care system and benefits. I receive most, if not all, of my own health care from the VA, and as a post-transition Transman, I'm happy to say that I've always received fair, compassionate, top-notch treatment in the VA health care system for any condition I've had, not just my service connected medical problems. I wish every American had access to such a system, but as a proud Veteran, I'm very happy to have such a benefit that will stay with me for the rest of my life. Here's the link to the Boston VA's complete policy on the treatment of Trangendered Veteran patients: http://www.tavausa.org/Management%20...ients_7.08.pdf Pretty damned cool, yes?? ![]() ![]() ~Theo~ ![]()
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When I look at what citizens did in everyday life to back our military during WWII and compare it to what it is like today, it makes me sick. Frankly, if we had to make big changes in our everyday lives while engaged in war, we might have a better informed society that took an interest in politics and policies that bring us to war engagement. Perhaps, things such as Bush's lies would not have been acted upon putting troops in harms way in Iraq. |
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