Picking apart a femme

[Jesse]

I am thinking it may be best for you to speak from just your "me" place and not include how you think others may feel or think. This will help others to know what you are trying to express. Just sayin...

Originally Posted by softness

I was answering in the make up thread when I hit upon the notion of this thread. I had a BF who teased me about having a thin upper lip. He didnt like it. He likes nice full lips. But he loved me so he "accepted" it. But every now and then he would mention it. Once, in front of his friends, much to my horror. To me, "picking apart" a femme is akin to making notice of a male IDd butch's chest/breast size (no, I am not calling them breasts....but thats my point, to do so would "pick apart" the butch)

Have you ever felt picked apart? Dont post nastily. Alot of butches and FtMs just dont know what they are saying. Its part of being 2x4s or at least, not being femme so they dont know the sensitivity to such things. No names and no attacks. Lets educate and share our ouchies kindly....