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Old 09-02-2010, 07:00 PM   #1
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Wrapping you in a green blanket of healing energy! May your recovery be speedy.

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Sending my Bro some hugs from the Mrs and I, woooo is on the way!
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I wish you well DapperButch. I wish for you to fully recover and to be cancer free for life.
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has anyone .......... heard from Dapper ??? and how he is doing ???
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Hi, Folks!

Thanks for all the well wishes...I am back in business!

As tatalizingfemme said (thanks, honey!), the day I wrote the thread (strangely just a few hours later), I started having intense pain and then went into the emergency room. I had a second surgery and just got out of the hospital the end of last week. This is my first day I have turned on the computer. Tougher recovery this time around, but onward and upward!

Later this week I will meet with the oncologist in my area and then next week I will meet with the folks in Philly for a second opinion on chemo.

Thanks again for all of the wonderful support...it is so very much appreciated!

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Good to see you back Dapper!
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Well, this is IT, folks!

Last chemo infusion today!

It has been a tough road since August, but I am FINALLY done! Just in time for summer!

The support I have received through my gf (tantalizingfemme), has been incredible over this time, and I just want to give a thanks to her here at bfp! I truly couldn't have asked for a better partner!

Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend.

Also, I appreciate the support that I have received from EVERYONE here.

One can get a little whacky with chemo (perceptions get off and brain doesn't work oh, so well), so I apologize if I have been a little "off" in my posts at all. I suspect that the ones who know have kind of treated me with kid gloves if I offended without thinking, which I appreciate!

I hope to not have any problems in the future. With the surgery and chemo, I only have about a 18-20% the cancer will return, so that is awesome!

Thanks again, all!
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Old 03-16-2011, 05:45 AM   #9
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GREAT news Dapper! I'm so glad to hear that all of that is over for you. Take a deep breath and know that it's behind you!

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DB - I feel so bad that I never even saw this thread until today! I am sorry you had to go through that scare at all, and everything that came with it, but I am so thankful that you are ok :-) Sounds like you maintained a positive attitude throughout the process and that is so important - that and the love and support of your girl. I'm glad you're healing well - sending you lots of positive thoughts!
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Well, this is IT, folks!

Last chemo infusion today!

It has been a tough road since August, but I am FINALLY done! Just in time for summer!

The support I have received through my gf (tantalizingfemme), has been incredible over this time, and I just want to give a thanks to her here at bfp! I truly couldn't have asked for a better partner!

Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend.

Also, I appreciate the support that I have received from EVERYONE here.

One can get a little whacky with chemo (perceptions get off and brain doesn't work oh, so well), so I apologize if I have been a little "off" in my posts at all. I suspect that the ones who know have kind of treated me with kid gloves if I offended without thinking, which I appreciate!

I hope to not have any problems in the future. With the surgery and chemo, I only have about a 18-20% the cancer will return, so that is awesome!

Thanks again, all!

Sweet Dapper....
Thanks so much for this good news! I'm sorry I haven't kept up with You (I started to say "haven't kept up with Your ass..." but that would have been over the top, I'm thinkin'... )..... I have no excuse for that....

But THIS! THIS is grand news and I'm so happy for You and Tantalizing Femme....and God bless her for helping You through this hard part...and onward!



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Last chemo infusion today!
WOOO! I am incredibly excited on your behalf. You should have a PARTY.

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Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend.
Oh don't even. It's clearly been a two-way street - you've been a good friend to me as well. Which is a lot of work, because I just happen to be batshit crazy.



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Thanks so much for this good news! I'm sorry I haven't kept up with You (I started to say "haven't kept up with Your ass..." but that would have been over the top, I'm thinkin'... )
Silly, there is already precedence in this thread for ass and poop jokes. I started it - don't let the grand tradition die!
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By the way, I think you need to buy her lots of presents. And pay her lots of attention. I like that woman.
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WOOO! I am incredibly excited on your behalf. You should have a PARTY.

I AM. Remember Nick is coming and you are not? I thought we went over this?



Oh don't even. It's clearly been a two-way street - you've been a good friend to me as well. Which is a lot of work, because I just happen to be batshit crazy.

This would be accurate. But, no you have been great.



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Sweet Dapper....
Thanks so much for this good news! I'm sorry I haven't kept up with You (I started to say "haven't kept up with Your ass..." but that would have been over the top, I'm thinkin'... )..... I have no excuse for that....

But THIS! THIS is grand news and I'm so happy for You and Tantalizing Femme....and God bless her for helping You through this hard part...and onward!





Silly, there is already precedence in this thread for ass and poop jokes. I started it - don't let the grand tradition die!
Good point! I repped Diva telling her she could call me an ass, anytime! You know, as long as I could have a piece of her a....<cough..oops that would be over the top to say, I'm thinkin' ...>

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By the way, I think you need to buy her lots of presents. And pay her lots of attention. I like that woman.
Presents? But I am a cheap bastard! Actually, I'm not. I think you are right!
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