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Old 09-16-2010, 12:16 AM   #1
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I'm lighting a candle for our Ruthie. She is going through a loss that is very hard. so, Ruthie... please know that you are being thought about and I am very sorry for your loss.
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I thought there was more time before symptoms began again. She responded so well to the chemo. I light a candle today for my sister, Dolo, who had a seizure on Sunday, and probably wouldn't have told me except for my questioning why she has an appointment with a neurologist. There was something additional found on her brain, and a PET scan is pending. She starts radiation treatment on Monday.

I thought I was ready and prepared for this, but truly, I'm not. So, if you have anything left over, a prayer, some light for me, too. I need to buck up for her kids. Especially my oldest niece. A candle for them and her husband, too.
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I light this candle for Dolo, her family, as well as for waxnrope, whose strength and loving nature is needed in the midst of this painful time.




In the darkest hour the soul is replenished and given strength to continue and endure.
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I thought there was more time before symptoms began again. She responded so well to the chemo. I light a candle today for my sister, Dolo, who had a seizure on Sunday, and probably wouldn't have told me except for my questioning why she has an appointment with a neurologist. There was something additional found on her brain, and a PET scan is pending. She starts radiation treatment on Monday.

I thought I was ready and prepared for this, but truly, I'm not. So, if you have anything left over, a prayer, some light for me, too. I need to buck up for her kids. Especially my oldest niece. A candle for them and her husband, too.
There's always light for you my friend and for Dolo and her family.
I light these for you all and a bond that spams across the dateline.
She feels your love and support as you feel her fear and pain.
Pulling together here we are sending light to you all.

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SD and T, always sending you my love and strength

Dolo and T, I'm keeping candles lit for you, sending healing strength.

as always, I leave candles burning in my home for my Planet family.
know that I care.
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Candles lit for:

~Those in the path of Hurricane Karl
~SD & her Syr
~my youngest child
~the 2 new kittehs <smile>
~patience for Lucy <smile>
~M's family
~S's family




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I've been really bad about coming here to light candles even though I say prayers for all of you

I can feel the flames from all the candles ever lit since this thread started and am thankful to all who have taken the time to pray for themsleves and for others. Without this powerful prayer circle that we've created thanks to SD, we'd not have each other to reach out to in our time of need.

I've had my own pity party going on and almost gave up hope until a good friend said some things about my job hunt and I better not dare let it defeat me. So, today I pushed on with the hunt and will continue to have my private talks with the higher ups. I know with faith, hope and prayer a job will come my way.

Me, keeping candles lit at home for those in need
When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, we're here
Keeping that circle of light and love with faith, hope and prayer
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wolfy, when we reach inside and touch our wounds and unwrinkle our fears, we are not having a pity party...we are merely loving ourselves....

allow yourself that...

and keep working....the job will come
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