If you're 60 or older, come join me. Let's talk, hang out, tease and support each other.

[AtLast]

Originally Posted by MysticOceansFL

Hello fellow older chatters

Originally Posted by Jude

Thank you. I'll try to follow both. Someone suggested a chat room for people over 50. I'm in if it flies. Perhaps a regular meeting day and time, at least at first? Whole lot of topics that just aren't shared by our younger sisters and brothers. New opportunities, new problems.... would be terrific to have a discussion group.

I would really like a discussion/chat group for us!!

I love our younger cohorts here, but, yes, sometimes we just have things going on that are age related.

[Jude]

Originally Posted by AtLastHome

I would really like a discussion/chat group for us!!

I love our younger cohorts here, but, yes, sometimes we just have things going on that are age related.

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Hi AtLast. Following you with interest on the other thread. I'm a very new member and still haven't figured out how all this works (pea brain here), so suggesting that you or some other more senior member set up a time and secure a chat room and let's just do it once and see if we all have a great time and see how many people show up.

Maybe anyone else interested contact me directly and I'll be sure you're notified.

Time/Date: What about an evening around 7 est. That would be 10 p.m. out west, 9 in the mountains and 8 central. Most people are up those times.

We do have very specific topics -- retirement, travel, finances, entertainment and adventure, aspirations (what we're looking for in life at this stage)............

I'd love to participate. Thanks for your enthusiasm.

[lipstixgal]

I'm 52 and that's who I am just looking for that special butch that wants to be with me!! But I feel great and don't really look like 52...

[Kobi]

Im 54 but feeling 60ish this week. Can I stay?

Would love to get to know some folks my age. And would love an olders chat. Tho if memory serves 7pm est would be 4pm pacific, 5 mountain, and 6 central.

Ok back to Patriots and Jets. Patriots will win tho.

[AtLast]

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[Jude]

Originally Posted by Kobi

Im 54 but feeling 60ish this week. Can I stay?

Would love to get to know some folks my age. And would love an olders chat. Tho if memory serves 7pm est would be 4pm pacific, 5 mountain, and 6 central.

Ok back to Patriots and Jets. Patriots will win tho.

Ha ha ha ha ha, just goes to show my age. Us older women get confused all the time!
10 p.m. EST
9 central
9 mountain
7 pacific

[Jude]

Originally Posted by Kobi

Im 54 but feeling 60ish this week. Can I stay?

Would love to get to know some folks my age. And would love an olders chat. Tho if memory serves 7pm est would be 4pm pacific, 5 mountain, and 6 central.

Ok back to Patriots and Jets. Patriots will win tho.

Originally Posted by Jude

Ha ha ha ha ha, just goes to show my age. Us older women get confused all the time!
10 p.m. EST
9 central
9 mountain
7 pacific

OH CRAP
I meant 8 mountain.

[4verNlove]

Hi, I don't know if this is the place for me to vent. I did try going on the posts re: infidelity; however, everyone seemed so young and thier outlook for the future subconsciously, could have been based on that..I feel, my age has much to do with my decisions...Anyway, my wife and I are together for 16 yrs, married for 10. Long story short, a year ago, I discovered emails written by her and another woman that were love "longing"..I was up in bed recovering from a broken ankle, couldn't walk, and my partner would go downstairs and have telephone conversation with this woman..This went on for 6 weeks before I discovered the emails. They were even planning to meet sometime in the future, as this woman lives in a state far away. They met on line 17 years ago; she was quite young at the time and they had an online/telephone relationship then, but never met. My partner and I had been having family problems that put a wedge between us; however, I never considered she or I would cheat...We love one another emensely. She decided in the fall to live in our beach house and that we should live seperately for a time she could not determine. She said all contact had been cut with this woman. Not true. I found a book the woman sent her containing love and longing quotes and once she called at 1:30 am and my partner got out of bed to go talk with her..downstairs. I didn't know who it was but overheard her calling her "babe"...I have tried leaving her, that very same night, I was so upset; and a few times after that. She would come after me, begging me to come home, and saying she loved me and didn't know why she answered the phone., She said she panicked. My confusion is the "babe" thing. This woman is conserably younger. My wife and I have dinner every night together, go out to dinner, I sleep with her on weekends at our beach house but still she doesn't want to live together. She contends she has reached the end of her rope and needs to spend time alone, (is having a lot of problems with her adult daughter)...but my fear is...is this woman still trying to contact her...She is ruthless...My wife refuses to talk to me about it; says it makes her nervous but that she wants to stay with me, doesn't want to start with a new relationship at this age, it will have kinks of its own to work out...Me? I feel so pathetic...but I know she loves me, and she is the love of my life...How do I trust and believe her, how do I remain strong and accept what she needs...So afraid I will loose...I have nothing...and no one. I feel so alone and lonely, especially at night. We were so close, almost co-dependent. Actually she used to say she liked it that way but has made a complete turn around. Now where before I did nothing alone, I do everything alone and feel so so lost. I could use any opinions and help anyone has..Thanks for listening to this long post. Hope its ok I wrote this...

[Rockinonahigh]

Over the last fue weeks I have been leting my hair grow...now dont anyone have a panic attack,after really short hair for years I desided to grow it longer so now its almost down to my coller so by next spring it should have filled out and gotten the deep waves it use to have.Short featherd back on the sides...full on top so the waves will come on..the same in the back...prolly going to get about a tad longer than shoulder length is what im looking for.What superised me is how much silver im geting and where..like 1 1/2inch wide strips and as long as its growing,looking pretty good I think.

[iamkeri1]

You go! Rockin! Love that long hair!
Smooches,
Keri

Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

Over the last fue weeks I have been leting my hair grow...now dont anyone have a panic attack,after really short hair for years I desided to grow it longer so now its almost down to my coller so by next spring it should have filled out and gotten the deep waves it use to have.Short featherd back on the sides...full on top so the waves will come on..the same in the back...prolly going to get about a tad longer than shoulder length is what im looking for.What superised me is how much silver im geting and where..like 1 1/2inch wide strips and as long as its growing,looking pretty good I think.

[Licious]

I am almost 57, feeling 60 something, so I peeked in....

[iamkeri1]

I'm trying to get myself out of a funk I've been in for weeks.

"Cures" I've tried
*Working endless hours in my yard, pulling weeds, planting flowers, soaking up sunshine and vitamin D
*Playing "bubble shooter" here on the planet and various types of solitaire from my computer .
*going out to a nice restaurant for dinner
*Telling myself hundreds of times per day the "happiness" is a choice

For the last few days I've been cleaning the garage. Wow that is hot work here in the scorching Florida September, The garage looks lots better - still a long way to go, but I still feel bluesy.

So tonight I am here with my "peeps", catching up reading postings about same sex marriage. It's hard not to feel better reading about all the progress that's been made recently. Never thought this would happen in my lifetime. Perhaps I'll live to see equality on a national basis. Wouldn't THAT be sweet!!!

Tomorrow I will pursue the ultimate cure - going shopping for fall clothes for my adorable grand children. My beautiful 3 1/2 year old grandson and my gorgeous three month old granddaughter. So much fun! I already bought her a Christmas outfit. A green velvet dress with matching bloomers and cap trimmed with lots of white lace and little pink silk flowers. Got it at a garage sale in perfect condition for $3.00!

Licious, welcome to the site. "feeling" like you're sixty is good enough. But tonight, I hope you are feeling like you're twenty.

Smooches,
Keri

[morningstar55]

hey ya … i just turned 60 this yr in april ….
i read somewhere someone wanted to dye the grey out of there hair.
geesh …… butchs / the guys …… look so handsome and distinguished with that silver in there hair.

[Tuff Stuff]

I for one won't dye the grey (or in my case whites) out of my hair,i'm actually looking forward to getting grey.

I like hanging out with the older crowd.I'm 47 but most of my friends are in their 50s,60s on up.Sometings i'm in owe at what they can teach me.But i've always loved being around people who were much older than me.I have witness to that some young people are wanting to hang around me more these days...maybe because i'm still young at heart *shrugs*..i don't know,i've always felt older,even at 10 years old when at that age i'd hang out with the older teenagers.

With most of my older friends its usually me and them talking over coffee or shopping.There's no sex or trying to get them to marry me *snort* although there are a few i'd gladly drop everything i'm doing and run to their home for a quick roll in the hay...older people can sometimes be sexy as hell.

But thats my take...

[iamkeri1]

I would be very interested in the chat/discussion group. 10pm eastern sounds good to me, But please not on Thursdays, I have another great meeting I go to that night.

Smooches,
Keri

[AtLast]

I say 60 plus is the most sexy!

[Jet]

Originally Posted by lipstixgal

I'm 52 and that's who I am just looking for that special butch that wants to be with me!! But I feel great and don't really look like 52...

I thought this was for people in their 60s.
Confused.

[Rockinonahigh]

Originally Posted by lipstixgal

I'm 52 and that's who I am just looking for that special butch that wants to be with me!! But I feel great and don't really look like 52...

Welcome and any age cose to 60 or above this is the place to be...