Question for everyone

WolfyOne · 09-19-2010, 02:55 PM

I used to think that, but as I age I don't anymore
It would be like saying forever and nothing, I mean nothing lasts forever

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

I used to think that, but as I age I don't anymore
It would be like saying forever and nothing, I mean nothing lasts forever

yes i know. but i was wondering if that whole "everything happens for a reason" is true

Tcountry · 09-19-2010, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by sweetbutch26

yes i know. but i was wondering if that whole "everything happens for a reason" is true

Everything for sure happens for a reason...people come in and out of our lives when we need them. Not when we "want" them...painful sometimes but so true!

WolfyOne · 09-19-2010, 05:38 PM

What it all comes down to is an old saying, a reason, a season or a lifetime
It has nothing to do with fate or soulmates
You can turn it around any way you want or need it to fit

Corkey · 09-19-2010, 05:52 PM

Is there someone for everyone, yes. Is it the right one for you, perhaps, but only you will know when it happens.
In the meantime, have fun and date, date a lot, date often.
Good luck.

Ebon · 09-19-2010, 05:55 PM

She will find you when you are her are both ready. In the meantime relax and have fun. She will come running with a 2X4 and bop you upside the head. You will know it is her.

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Organicbutch

She will find you when you are her are both ready. In the meantime relax and have fun. She will come running with a 2X4 and bop you upside the head. You will know it is her.

i'll know she is the right one when i see stars if she bops me

MaggieBluIze · 09-19-2010, 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Organicbutch

She will find you when you are her are both ready. In the meantime relax and have fun. She will come running with a 2X4 and bop you upside the head. You will know it is her.

It really should not take that OB
(you have been pushing that in my head for a while my friend) ...
And yes, unfortunately,
that is sometimes what it takes to get you guys to look our way
(not even trying to push and ask for an approach, just a look and we can take over from there, if needed).
*thinking I need to seriously make a trip to Home Depot*

Nawen · 09-19-2010, 05:59 PM

Nah.

Relationships are work* and believing in 'The One' would make me give up on anything that is 'less than' some imaginary perfection.
* not in a bad sense.

I do believe there are people we click with more than with others based on interest, views on life and similiar things... and those are the people that are worth working on the relationship with and making each of us the other person's soulmate.

For me it's tied with that 'I can't control your actions, I can only control my reactions to them' - it's not about the other person being this or that, it's about me viewing those qualities as good (or bad).

Hm, hope this made sense.

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Nawen

Nah.

Relationships are work* and believing in 'The One' would make me give up on anything that is 'less than' some imaginary perfection.
* not in a bad sense.

I do believe there are people we click with more than with others based on interest, views on life and similiar things... and those are the people that are worth working on the relationship with and making each of us the other person's soulmate.

For me it's tied with that 'I can't control your actions, I can only control my reactions to them' - it's not about the other person being this or that, it's about me viewing those qualities as good (or bad).

Hm, hope this made sense.

it did

thank you much hun

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WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,392 Times in 4,138 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	What it all comes down to is an old saying, a reason, a season or a lifetime It has nothing to do with fate or soulmates You can turn it around any way you want or need it to fit __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

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Nawen Junior Member How Do You Identify?: ♪ Preferred Pronoun?: Name, please, English is not my language :) . Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 30 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 62 Thanked 37 Times in 17 Posts Rep Power: 480	Nah. Relationships are work* and believing in 'The One' would make me give up on anything that is 'less than' some imaginary perfection. * not in a bad sense. I do believe there are people we click with more than with others based on interest, views on life and similiar things... and those are the people that are worth working on the relationship with and making each of us the other person's soulmate. For me it's tied with that 'I can't control your actions, I can only control my reactions to them' - it's not about the other person being this or that, it's about me viewing those qualities as good (or bad). Hm, hope this made sense.