masculine maturity?

[wolfbittenpoet]

Originally Posted by Chancie

I was with you, really with you, nodding my head and everything, until this.

I am sorry, rlin, because I fear this will derail your thread, but we are not interchangeable with self identified straight women just because some people think we look a certain socially prescribed way.

Chancie you interpretted it wrong or the words didn't read right. I am not saying a femme is in anyway the same as a si straight woman. But for the most parts the femmes I know and have known find themselves a lot earlier or have the courage to accept themselves so much earlier. It gives them a certain step up. Society still screws you over because you do look the way society thinks you should but you don't always act it. In a way it's harder to be a femme then it is a butch.