The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

cuddlyfemme · 10-23-2010, 07:41 AM

Good Morning Lofters! I hope everyone has a beautiful day!

Galahad · 10-23-2010, 01:06 PM

I am so thankful for the weekend. I brought work home though. I'm glad I have this job, but the extra stuff to do at home is annoying.
As for this weeks topic, I'm not much on relationships at this point. Friends with benefits would work out better. Life gets so complicated and busy, maybe roommates with benefits would work out better.
Long distance is good in some ways.You can weed out the crazies from a safer distance. After a while everyone shows their true colors.

lipstixgal · 10-23-2010, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Galahad

I am so thankful for the weekend. I brought work home though. I'm glad I have this job, but the extra stuff to do at home is annoying.
As for this weeks topic, I'm not much on relationships at this point. Friends with benefits would work out better. Life gets so complicated and busy, maybe roommates with benefits would work out better.
Long distance is good in some ways.You can weed out the crazies from a safer distance. After a while everyone shows their true colors.

That is so true this woman contacted me from lesbian personals and we have yet to meet I doubt we will but the annoying thing is she keeps stringing me along like I haven't forgot about you and stuff like that. Then she sends little stupid emails with fw: halloween well I don't celebrate halloween I celebrate Jewish holidays that's all...so yes there are crazies out there and its good she lives like 2 hours away so I'm glad that nothing has happened because I think she is nuts!! going to try to bake muffins I think or pizza for tonight and soup for tomorrow..

cuddlyfemme · 10-23-2010, 01:45 PM

Long distance definately has its good point of being able to see the person's true colors. There was one person who wanted me to pick up and move in with hym before even meeting!!!!

Jet · 10-23-2010, 02:22 PM

I moved to Atlanta because of someone. They were nothing like they presented. It was the second worst thing I've ever been through and at times I still reel from it. Never again.

cuddlyfemme · 10-23-2010, 02:28 PM

I would move for someone only after we had spent alot of time together, not just 1 or 2 times

dale2555 · 10-24-2010, 09:18 AM

The passing of years have a way of bringing all kinds of physical aches and pains; and some of them just refuse to go away. For me it's a matter of acknowledging, accepting, doing what I can to lessen; and enjoying all the good stuff that is in my life and being open for the new joys that may come my way.

I live in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and the weather here this weekend has been grand. Today I'm taking myself into town, and am looking forward to the sunshine and a slight breeze on my face while I read: and maybe having a chance to engage in conversation with an interesting person. Of course, having a meal at my friend Mounir's reataurant is a given. And he makes a damn good cup of coffee!

Hope you all have a great day too.

Dale

lipstixgal · 10-24-2010, 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Jet

I moved to Atlanta because of someone. They were nothing like they presented. It was the second worst thing I've ever been through and at times I still reel from it. Never again.

I'm not moving for anybody if I move it south of NJ where its warm and sunny!! hope you all are having a good sunday I'm doing housework and cooking my matzo ball soup and then getting a shish from Whole foods if time permits!!

10-23-2010, 07:41 AM	#1
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Good Morning Lofters! I hope everyone has a beautiful day!

10-23-2010, 01:06 PM	#2
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 339 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446604	I am so thankful for the weekend. I brought work home though. I'm glad I have this job, but the extra stuff to do at home is annoying. As for this weeks topic, I'm not much on relationships at this point. Friends with benefits would work out better. Life gets so complicated and busy, maybe roommates with benefits would work out better. Long distance is good in some ways.You can weed out the crazies from a safer distance. After a while everyone shows their true colors.

10-23-2010, 01:45 PM	#4
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Long distance definately has its good point of being able to see the person's true colors. There was one person who wanted me to pick up and move in with hym before even meeting!!!!

10-23-2010, 02:22 PM	#5
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	I moved to Atlanta because of someone. They were nothing like they presented. It was the second worst thing I've ever been through and at times I still reel from it. Never again.

10-23-2010, 02:28 PM	#6
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	I would move for someone only after we had spent alot of time together, not just 1 or 2 times

10-24-2010, 09:18 AM	#7
dale2555 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: human Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: usa Posts: 43 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 80 Thanked 66 Times in 22 Posts Rep Power: 221122	The passing of years have a way of bringing all kinds of physical aches and pains; and some of them just refuse to go away. For me it's a matter of acknowledging, accepting, doing what I can to lessen; and enjoying all the good stuff that is in my life and being open for the new joys that may come my way. I live in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and the weather here this weekend has been grand. Today I'm taking myself into town, and am looking forward to the sunshine and a slight breeze on my face while I read: and maybe having a chance to engage in conversation with an interesting person. Of course, having a meal at my friend Mounir's reataurant is a given. And he makes a damn good cup of coffee! Hope you all have a great day too. Dale