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[cuddlyfemme]

Originally Posted by AtLastHome

OMG, I am still single! Perhaps it agrees with me.... hummm... But, I think femmes are wonderful. Just need to find one that Frog Dog will accept. He can be very difficult!

I'm the same way with my cats...although 3 of them hide under the bed whenever anyone is at my house. I watch how my cat, Goldie, reacts but she loves everyone so the Butch would have to be pretty aweful for Goldie not to like them

[bigbutchmistie]

See I agree with T Country... Give me a girly girl femme any day with a fiesty attitude Now that is just HAWT

[asphaltcowboi]

good morning singles... well we made monday and tues.. now all we have left is WTF!!

[lipstixgal]

I read back through the thread and yes the dogs would have to like the butch I'm with especially the older one he is my baby!! But you never know how people could be especially with pets hoping everyone is having a nice day so far its chilly here in NJ!! Dogs are outside for a bit of fresh air I think that's why they go so often for the fresh air...

[asphaltcowboi]

Originally Posted by lipstixgal

I read back through the thread and yes the dogs would have to like the butch I'm with especially the older one he is my baby!! But you never know how people could be especially with pets hoping everyone is having a nice day so far its chilly here in NJ!! Dogs are outside for a bit of fresh air I think that's why they go so often for the fresh air...

i always trust my dogs judgment in people.. if my dog doesnt like someone i keep my distance

[bigbutchmistie]

Originally Posted by cody

i always trust my dogs judgment in people.. if my dog doesnt like someone i keep my distance

That's true. I watch how a femme treats Simon. He loves everyone so its not like I can tell if he likes or doesnt like someone.. Hes just an attention WHORE.. So, I watch my date. Watch how she interacts with him. If she half ass pets him or doesnt seem to like him. I cut her loose. For sure.

[bigbutchmistie]

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

Im assuming this question is to the butches? If so here is my response

People always are wondering with me cause Im not easy to attract or get my attention. My friends say the "stars have to align" lol

What get's me is a true girly girl femme in looks....

What keeps my interest is her heart. Can she make me laugh? Can I trust her? Is she loyal? Is she consistent? And does she think I hung the moon? Can I talk to her about anything and everything? Does she listen? Is she there when I need her without question? Am I a priority for her and not an option? These all are huge things with me.

A perfect date for me would have to be the old dinner at a resturaunt. Just talking and getting to know each other... Other first few dates would follow with things like movies, picinics, walks in the park, and then....

I might cook for the person in my home. Something quick and easy with candlelight..

I have no gaydar when it comes to femmes. Hell Ive even stated Im 2x4 and that is so true. How a femme would get my attention she would have to be blunt. Not subtle and see above

Age wise I prefer my age 34 or older...

Looks physical wise? Its never mattered to me but Ive always been partnered with size 24 and under

I have dated a woman that made more money than me. Hell she was a vice president of a marketing firm here in dallas. Didnt make me any difference. I didnt feel the need to "take care" of her, nor did she me. It was the best relationship I ever had

Um if we are going to wait for me to ask you out well dont hold your breath. Im shy and again 2x4 so that's probably not gonna happen. I need someone who would ask and then be point blank that its a date cause Im just that slow LOL

So these are my answers

It was early morning like 4 a.m. when I posted this.. I forgot to add self confident and nurturing type adding to what keeps my interest Sorry

[MaggieBluIze]

Hello Everyone!!!!

Really wish I could get a bit of a break at work/home and answer some questions too, truly get to chatting in here too, just get some time to interact with y'all, and answer some emails sent my way.
Please know I'm here in spirit.

Hope all is going well ... Love that everyone is still chatting away.

Have a great Tuesday!!!!

~ Maggie ~

[WolfyOne]

Originally Posted by katsarecool

Questions were asked by Kobi for the Femmes. Now the shoe is on the other foot.

What kind of woman/person/femme would interest you?
I don't have a particular kind of femme. I don't care if she's jeans and tee shirt with no make up or girly girl with all the frills.

A favorite type of date; one that sets the scene for repeated datings with the same person?
I think dinner and conversation works best with no strings or expectations attached.

Would you cook a meal for your date and if so what would be on the menu?
Since I'm a butch that enjoys cooking, I'd ask if she'd enjoy a home cooked meal and what her taste in food was before I decide the menu. My last question to her would be my place or yours because I want her to feel comfortable. I don't think I'd do the intimate setting because expectations can be assumed by it.

Do you have trouble with your gaydar finding that feminine woman who is a lesbian? It's a crapshoot, sometimes yes, sometimes no.
If so what would you suggest we feminne women do or wear to get your attention? I think you femmes can spot a butch from anywhere, so if you want one of us, approach us, we're not mind readers.

What age group to you prefer to date? I used to say age is just a number and would look into the soul, but since my ex and I split, I think I'd stick within 10 years up or down from my age.
Does body size/type matter to you? I've dated them all, big and small....so, no.
What other physical attributes to you find attractive? I look at a person from the inside out. For me the attraction has to come from within because looks can be deceiving. Lesson learned at a young age, letting my eyes and head rule my thoughts without my heart being in it.

Would you date a femme that made a considerably larger salary?
I don't see money when I'm dating someone. I date them because I enjoy their company and they enjoy mine.

On the first date, would you prefer that you were the one to ask her? Or are you okay with being asked out on a date by a femme?
It doesn't matter to me at all. Once again, not a mind reader.

Can't wait to see the answers and I may have more questions later...

Let me ask you this, if a femme asks me out, should we go dutch so neither of us hold expectations after the date? Would you prefer to pay or expect me to pay? How exactly would that work, so we both feel comfortable on a first date?

[Kobi]

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Questions were asked by Kobi for the Femmes. Now the shoe is on the other foot.

What kind of woman/person/femme would interest you?

Blend June Cleaver with June Lockhart, Sandra Bullock and Paula Deen, add a dash of Aunt Bea, with a smidgeon of Catherine Deneauve, a pinch of Chris Cagney, a dab of Joan Jett, frost with generous portions of Elaine Boosler and Rita Rudner, and top with sprinkles of Karen Carpenters voice.

A favorite type of date; one that sets the scene for repeated datings with the same person?

I like activity dates – less pressure, more fun, easier to gauge how well we mesh.

Would you cook a meal for your date and if so what would be on the menu?

If my date had a craving for a grilled peanut butter and orange marmalade sandwich I would cook. Otherwise, I suggest we go out or order out.

Do you have trouble with your gaydar finding that feminine woman who is a lesbian? If so what would you suggest we feminne women do or wear to get your attention?

Eye contact, a smile, a wink and saying Hello works really well

What age group to you prefer to date? Does body size/type matter to you? What other physical attributes to you find attractive?

Mid 40’s and up is good. Body size/type doesn’t matter. I have a thing for eyes, smiles, voices, and hands

Would you date a femme that made a considerably larger salary?

That might be fun.

On the first date, would you prefer that you were the one to ask her? Or are you okay with being asked out on a date by a femme?

I prefer a partner frame of mind rather than adherence to rigid roles. So asking me out is an okay thing.

Can't wait to see the answers and I may have more questions later...

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[LipstickLola]

Wow, I'd love to go out with all of you, at least once!

[lipstixgal]

All the answers were good now if someone lived close by in northern NJ that would be great!! or perhaps an email or phone number maybe making a nice dinner of turkey and potatoes and salad and something cold to drink wish someone could share it with me too.

[Zimmeh]

Good Evening Sunny,

I love living on the beach. It is very relaxing to walk on at night. It is hard to find someone who can relate to what I am talking about when I had to come home and take care of my dad for the last four years of his life. It is something that I will never forget. That is why I am going to school to be a nurse, I love helping people, it is something that I have done since I was 18 years old, when I moved back to Florida from Pennsylvania to take care of my sick grandparents.

Out of all of the places that I have lived in from a teenager to an adult, to me, I am home. Whenever I decided to move away from the East Coast of Florida, I just didn't feel the new place was my home and I would move back. There is something about the beach, that keeps drawing me back. If I found a partner who I loved more than life itself, then I would definately move away, but I would have to be near the beach...

Hope you are having a good night,

Zimmy

Originally Posted by Sunny

Sounds like you have certainly moved around alot. Where would you like to live if it could be anywhere in the world? I know I would like to be on a beach. It is so calming for the soul.
Some day when I get married I will have the reception on a beach. I am still waiting for that special Femme to come along. I can feel her sometimes, but then she is gone.
Anyway, I hear ya about taking care of your Dad. I had to move back home to take care of my Mom. I took care of her for 16 years until she passed. I saw my life with her full circle. She wiped my butt when I was a Baby and I winded up wiping hers when she was sick. She would not wear Depends so it was really hard. I had no one to help me. I took care of everything on my own. Anyway it is admirable that you are there for your Dad.
Well enough of my stories for tonight. Hope you have wonderful dreams.

[JustLovelyJenn]

Oh my goodness!! So much happened in here today I feel totally lost.

Well, good evening singles. I am sorry I can only get here in the evenings.

Hope you all have a wonderful night.

[Zimmeh]

Good Evening Everyone,

I am like Jenn, I usually can only get online at nights, since I am in college most days from noon to five pm and Wednesdays from 8am to 5pm. I am looking forward to December 17th, when I will be finished with this semester until the middle of January. I won't have to be thinking about Anatomy and Physiology or Microbiology...I am looking forward to my history, constitutional law, human nutrition and spanish classes instead..

Have a good night and see you in the morning if I can,

Zimmy
<Leaving some hot cocoa and tea for everyone>

[Zimmeh]

In two hours and fourteen minutes EST, it will officially be the start of Hump day...

Two more days of classes and I am off for the weekend!!!!

Have a good night,

Zimmy

Originally Posted by cody

good morning singles... well we made monday and tues.. now all we have left is WTF!!

[Sunny]

What kind of woman/person/femme would interest you?
I like a Femme who knows herself and what she wants. She can handle herself in different situations. I want her to compliment me as I would compliment her.

A favorite type of date; one that sets the scene for repeated datings with the same person?
My favorite type of date would be to do something that is fun. I want to see how we interact with each other. Then a nice dinner and a stroll on the beach or boardwalk.

Would you cook a meal for your date and if so what would be on the menu?

Yes I would cook a meal for my date. Of course I would ask her to pick something she would like to have and then I would find a receipe and cook it for her.

Do you have trouble with your gaydar finding that feminine woman who is a lesbian? If so what would you suggest we feminne women do or wear to get your attention?
Yes I do have trouble picking out Femmes. Don't forget straight women flirt with us also. I think a stylish cap that read Femme on it would be a good choice. LOL I think the Femme should make good eye contact and follow it up by a smile and conversation.

What age group to you prefer to date? Does body size/type matter to you? What other physical attributes to you find attractive?
The age group does not matter that much to me. I think love comes in all kinds of packages. Chemistry is the key. I like nice eyes, a friendly smile and sexy hair. Body type is not that important.

Would you date a femme that made a considerably larger salary?
Her salary would not matter to me.

On the first date, would you prefer that you were the one to ask her? Or are you okay with being asked out on a date by a femme?
I prefer to ask her out. I would like her to give me a sign that she would except though.


Can't wait to see the answers and I may have more questions later...[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

[Sunny]

To all the Beautiful Femmes and all the Handsome Butches that are inhabitating this single planet,

May we all find happiness within ourselves. So that one day we may bring happiness to a special person. I wish all of you the magic of love. May you all find it soon.

[Zimmeh]

Good morning Everyone,

This chilly weather needs to stay! I am loving it...

Hope you all have a good day, my microbiology class starts in fifteen minutes!

Zimmy

[cuddlyfemme]

Originally Posted by Sunny

To all the Beautiful Femmes and all the Handsome Butches that are inhabitating this single planet,

May we all find happiness within ourselves. So that one day we may bring happiness to a special person. I wish all of you the magic of love. May you all find it soon.

This was nice I hope you find that magical Femme soon too thats just right for you