Light a candle

waxnrope · 11-30-2010, 11:40 AM

I light a candle today for Dolo and all who love and care about her. She was told by doc today that the goal is comfort care. Pain and other symptom management. No more chemotherapy, because it would interfere with her current quality of life. She knew what he was saying without his just coming out to say it. I could not ask the important things. To inquire how she felt about this. I was cowardly. Didn't want her to hear my voice if I asked. All I want now is for her to hang on til I get there. Please, a prayer for her comfort. For her kids. Her husband. And, for me, that I can bear it.

Spirit Dancer · 11-30-2010, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by waxnrope

I light a candle today for Dolo and all who love and care about her. She was told by doc today that the goal is comfort care. Pain and other symptom management. No more chemotherapy, because it would interfere with her current quality of life. She knew what he was saying without his just coming out to say it. I could not ask the important things. To inquire how she felt about this. I was cowardly. Didn't want her to hear my voice if I asked. All I want now is for her to hang on til I get there. Please, a prayer for her comfort. For her kids. Her husband. And, for me, that I can bear it.

Wax~
When you think there is no strength left,
dig deep to your inner strength it will be there.
Sending Dolo and her loved ones light and strength.

WolfyOne · 11-30-2010, 05:25 PM

Quick update on R

The surgeons finally decided to take her gallbladder without her having to be outpatient.
That's just the beginning of what needs to be taken care of so she can start on the path leading back to healthy again.

Keep the prayers coming
Tomorrow morning she has her gallbladder surgery

JustLovelyJenn · 11-30-2010, 05:57 PM

I light a candle for

My parents and safe journey back home tonight

Matthew that his cold will go away

My dear friend Stephanie who may be pregnant... FINALLY...

and Myself... to have to courage to take needed steps

Leigh · 11-30-2010, 06:55 PM

I light a candle for all who needs it, especially but not limited to:

~ Wolfy & R

~ Spirit Dancer & partner

~ Wax, Dolo & her family

~ Day & hys neice

~ Jenn, to guide her path with light and love

~ Myself, for this damn cold to go away & to have the courage to move on in life

Miss Scarlett · 11-30-2010, 10:09 PM

Lighting candles of protection, peace and reassurance for everyone in upstate SC, western NC and the Piedmont of NC and in north GA - we've got some bad weather coming through tonight.

katsarecool · 11-30-2010, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett

Lighting candles of protection, peace and reassurance for everyone in upstate SC, western NC and the Piedmont of NC and in north GA - we've got some bad weather coming through tonight.

We sure did!!! It was pure hell for about 45 min tonight!!!! Some damage nearby but no injuries!!!!

Tommi · 12-01-2010, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by waxnrope

I light a candle today for Dolo and all who love and care about her. She was told by doc today that the goal is comfort care. Pain and other symptom management. No more chemotherapy, because it would interfere with her current quality of life. She knew what he was saying without his just coming out to say it. I could not ask the important things. To inquire how she felt about this. I was cowardly. Didn't want her to hear my voice if I asked. All I want now is for her to hang on til I get there. Please, a prayer for her comfort. For her kids. Her husband. And, for me, that I can bear it.

Hands and hearts are with you, Love , Tommi

Miss Scarlett · 12-02-2010, 05:34 AM

Lighting candles of peace, harmony, healing, love, positive energy and hope for

Wolfy and friend
Jet
EntycingFemme
DomnNC and family
waxnrope, friends and family
JakeTulane
Andrew
Matthew
Spirit Dancer
me
and everyone feeling disconnected or unsettled this morning

Spirit Dancer · 12-02-2010, 08:25 AM

There are many here who need prayer
I light my candle from those before me.
Sending light and prayer to each of you.

Tommi · 12-02-2010, 08:30 AM

For Miss Scarlett who is conflicted over work and vacation and unfair bosses in the past.

katsarecool · 12-02-2010, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett

Lighting candles of peace, harmony, healing, love, positive energy and hope for

Wolfy and friend
Jet
EntycingFemme
DomnNC and family
waxnrope, friends and family
JakeTulane
Andrew
Matthew
Spirit Dancer
me
and everyone feeling disconnected or unsettled this morning

Lighting a candle for you sweetheart because I want you to have the best stress free vacation EVER!!!! You deserve it!!! Have fun too!!!

Any for anyone feeling any kind of physical or mental anguish at this time!

LipstickLola · 12-02-2010, 09:49 AM

My sister just called, she has a tumor on her spine. Prayers for all in this place, prayers of healing, comfort, for the afflicted, and prayers for peace to forge through for the family and friends who stand beside their loved ones as they traverse a scary uncertain path.

katsarecool · 12-02-2010, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by LipstickLola

My sister just called, she has a tumor on her spine. Prayers for all in this place, prayers of healing, comfort, for the afflicted, and prayers for peace to forge through for the family and friends who stand beside their loved ones as they traverse a scary uncertain path.

Sending healing thoughts with my white candle!!!

waxnrope · 12-02-2010, 12:20 PM

She's hardly eating. Food "tastes nasty" to her. Not real hungry, either. Her doc said that he was open to suggestions (from me). I sent Dolo an email recommending either Megace or Marinol for appetite boost. Anyone have suggestion about the taste thing? Please pm me.

I thank you all for your continued prayers and thoughts for Dolo and the family.

and prayers for all who need them.

11-30-2010, 05:25 PM	#3
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,397 Times in 4,140 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Quick update on R The surgeons finally decided to take her gallbladder without her having to be outpatient. That's just the beginning of what needs to be taken care of so she can start on the path leading back to healthy again. Keep the prayers coming Tomorrow morning she has her gallbladder surgery __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

11-30-2010, 05:57 PM	#4
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,992 Times in 3,684 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I light a candle for My parents and safe journey back home tonight Matthew that his cold will go away My dear friend Stephanie who may be pregnant... FINALLY... and Myself... to have to courage to take needed steps __________________ --Jenn

11-30-2010, 06:55 PM	#5
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I light a candle for all who needs it, especially but not limited to: ~ Wolfy & R ~ Spirit Dancer & partner ~ Wax, Dolo & her family ~ Day & hys neice ~ Jenn, to guide her path with light and love ~ Myself, for this damn cold to go away & to have the courage to move on in life __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

12-02-2010, 08:25 AM	#10
Spirit Dancer Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Complex but Tender Preferred Pronoun?: ~Ma`am~ Relationship Status: Shotgun Rider Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Following the red road Posts: 4,519 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,304 Thanked 12,913 Times in 3,466 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	There are many here who need prayer I light my candle from those before me. Sending light and prayer to each of you. __________________ “For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” Judy Garland

11-30-2010, 11:40 AM	#1
waxnrope Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 5/27/2011 Preferred Pronoun?: hy ho, hy ho; he, she, it, whatever Relationship Status: Going slow ... Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: in her orifices ... la frontera Posts: 1,433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,414 Thanked 2,957 Times in 952 Posts Rep Power: 0	I light a candle today for Dolo and all who love and care about her. She was told by doc today that the goal is comfort care. Pain and other symptom management. No more chemotherapy, because it would interfere with her current quality of life. She knew what he was saying without his just coming out to say it. I could not ask the important things. To inquire how she felt about this. I was cowardly. Didn't want her to hear my voice if I asked. All I want now is for her to hang on til I get there. Please, a prayer for her comfort. For her kids. Her husband. And, for me, that I can bear it.

11-30-2010, 10:09 PM	#6
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,947 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Lighting candles of protection, peace and reassurance for everyone in upstate SC, western NC and the Piedmont of NC and in north GA - we've got some bad weather coming through tonight.

12-02-2010, 05:34 AM	#9
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,947 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Lighting candles of peace, harmony, healing, love, positive energy and hope for Wolfy and friend Jet EntycingFemme DomnNC and family waxnrope, friends and family JakeTulane Andrew Matthew Spirit Dancer me and everyone feeling disconnected or unsettled this morning

12-02-2010, 08:30 AM	#11
Tommi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Usually "Hello" Relationship Status: Married and Bound to Tommi's kaijira (Ts_kaijira ) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Suthun.... California that is. Across the ridge from Laguna Beach. Posts: 8,151 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,621 Thanked 21,338 Times in 5,970 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	*For Miss Scarlett who is conflicted over work and vacation and unfair bosses in the past.*

12-02-2010, 09:49 AM	#13
LipstickLola Member How Do You Identify?: Happy Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: planet Earth Posts: 682 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,679 Thanked 1,597 Times in 433 Posts Rep Power: 5678217	My sister just called, she has a tumor on her spine. Prayers for all in this place, prayers of healing, comfort, for the afflicted, and prayers for peace to forge through for the family and friends who stand beside their loved ones as they traverse a scary uncertain path.

12-02-2010, 12:20 PM	#15
waxnrope Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 5/27/2011 Preferred Pronoun?: hy ho, hy ho; he, she, it, whatever Relationship Status: Going slow ... Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: in her orifices ... la frontera Posts: 1,433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,414 Thanked 2,957 Times in 952 Posts Rep Power: 0	She's hardly eating. Food "tastes nasty" to her. Not real hungry, either. Her doc said that he was open to suggestions (from me). I sent Dolo an email recommending either Megace or Marinol for appetite boost. Anyone have suggestion about the taste thing? Please pm me. I thank you all for your continued prayers and thoughts for Dolo and the family. and prayers for all who need them.