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Old 01-04-2011, 10:27 PM   #1
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Me and I are non committal, we won't talk about Strappie....
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Me and I are going to bed before we get Strappie in trouble... G'night!
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Yeah, I think I'd date me.

I know that I can be trusted to give myself a lot of space, and I like my space. I wouldn't get my feelings hurt when I don't return my phonecall, because I would have forgotten that I had called myself to begin with. That sounds good.

Plus I wouldn't have to argue with myself over what radio station to listen to, and I would never begrudge myself a True Blood Marathon Saturday. I wouldn't criticize myself for drinking several pots of coffee a day, because I'd be drinking that much too. I'd never pressure myself to quit smoking. I wouldn't want me to change anything about myself.

If I moved in with myself I wouldn't have to compromise with myself on things like what colour to paint the bathroom, because me and myself have the same taste.
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I don't know that I would have enough patience to date me.
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I guess I'm the only one who would, since I've not been asked for a date in forever......


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No. I'm too stubborn, headstrong, sassy, fiercely independent and I make terrible squish fritters!



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I would definitely want to date me but would probably be a little intimidated by how little I sleep and how many projects I always have going on. Oh, and I might think the relationship with the big orange dog was unhealthy.
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Heck yea, I'd date me! I'm very affectionate, very giving (I have a huge heart), love helping others, I can cook fairly decent, LOVE to make people laugh, not hung up on myself, I don't keep track of who's done what to whom, disappointed when others do, honest to a fault, and I love blonds!

The down side? We all have to honest right? Well, I have trouble saying "no" to others sometimes and get overextended easily, & I can't take a fish off a hook w/o help .
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I'm still not sure if I would date myself.

One the one hand, I would like the responsibleness, organization, adherence to routine and ritual, get it done approach to life with someone who doesnt drink or do illicit substances.

I would also like the appreciation of simplicity, the need for peace, quiet, and lots of space, the love of electronic toys, and nature and the sea.

I would adore not having to explain how I can eat the same thing morning, noon and night for a week, why IF the toilet paper MUST be on the holder, it will be under not over, why I sing the theme songs to old tv shows in the shower, why the tv show Big Bang Theory is funny, or a sardonic sense of humor.

On the other hand, I don't know if I would want to deal with an intense, serious, curmudgeony, aloof, pain in the ass. Plus, I would find myself to be high maintenance cuz I would have to hire a cook, housekeeper, laundress, handyperson, and decorator.

Hm. I must ponder more.
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I would date Diva before I would date ME...
Therefore...
NO I would not date me - I would run for the hills.
But I would date Diva...
If she would butch up (quite) a bit.
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When I was dating myself it worked out so well that I married myself. I cheated on myself a couple of times, but in time I forgave myself, and now I'm more together than ever!
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I would date me for the super dinners i give - at least I'd get a good meal outa me
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I think I would if I were less hairy and had boobs and no muscles.
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....Bump!

I date myself sometimes - I enjoy being with people, but, I don’t need constant social interaction and I also enjoy my alone time, allowing me to process my thoughts, feelings, to do my hobbies, to feel the Ocean bubbles gently kissing my feet or whatever I feel like doing.

Would I date me as a person? …….Ummm……..yes and no! LOL! I’ve been told I can be a handful (minds out of the gutters! LOL!). I’m an offbeat person with a somewhat demented sense of humour - having been told I often have people laughing in stitches and sometimes gob-smacked (although you may wonder just how my mind works! LOL!) I appreciate not everyone will understand me as a person and some have tried to tame me! I’m free-spirited, determined, most definitely unique and a little rebellious (within the law, lol!) at times. I refuse to conform to any ‘label’ that could possibly be given to me.

I have an abundance of thoughtfulness, love, affection, resourcefulness, sensuality, intuition, instinct, loyalty, devotion and kindness. These traits I’d DEFINITELY date me for and the sense of humour! As for being a handful, I’m not sure I could cope with that to be honest! LOL! I would have to have a loving and tolorent, yet, disciplined nature – one that is firm, but, not aggressive. Also, I’d need an amazing amount of energy to keep up with me! LOL!




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It might be fun for a while but we would be too similar. We would make good friends but not good lovers since constant contact with someone so similar would probably get annoying.
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Actually I AM dating myself right now!
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I guess I'm the only one who would, since I've not been asked for a date in forever......





And just for the record, I'm really ok with this.......I can't settle for someone who can't deal.



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Yes. We'd have great sex and terrible fights. i wonder if the conversation would be interesting or too predictable. The bdsm would be a problem since i don't switch. i think it would have to be an open relationship.
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Personally I think the pros outweigh the cons...lol

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- caring
- passionate
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- always in the mood (*wink wink*)
- mad bedroom skills (*teehee*)
- pretty darn good cook (mad baking skills too)
- intelligent
- easily amused
- tenacious
- patient and loyal (most of the time)
- optimistic
- impeccible manners (unless we're just chillin' by ourselves, then I will prop my feet on the coffee table...but only if it's our coffee table)
- enjoys vacuuming, dusting and doing windows
- thoughtful (when not being forgetful)
- compassionate
- attractive
- fun to do things with/travel with
- good with animals...and some humans lol
- yada yada yada

CONS
- jealous
- attracted to shiny objects
- somewhat of a packrat/hoarder
- sometimes absent-minded
- crazy cat lady in training
- sometimes too silly
- picky eater
- sometimes too horny
- cuss like a muthaf'ing sailor (but never around family, children or others that would be offended, I do show respect...although idiots in stores and road rage do set it off sometimes)
- some days too cocky/some days too self-conscious
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It was brought to my attention by my fabulous gf that "disprespected" may or may not be a word. So....let me add to my list that PRO: while I am normally excellent at spelling (elementary school spelling bee champ, oh yeah), CON: I do tend to suck at typing, especially when trying to get a lot of thoughts out...LOL

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