Support for HarleyLuvnButch

WolfyOne · 12-27-2009, 12:39 PM

Friendship and love have no bounds. Although distance keeps me from being there to help comfort Carolyn and her family. I will keep them all in prayer. The time I spent in Vegas and every time I saw Matthew, his smile, his zest, his kindness, his love of family and the time he grabbed his little sister in his arms and jumped into the swimming pool with her, all his clothes on. Memories that stay in the heart, never to be forgotten. Matthew may you rest in peace, pain free without worry. Carolyn, you have showed immense strength over the last 2 years that helped Matthew to fight. He was brave for you and you for him. You gave him the best thing he could ever have, a mother's love. Peace be with you, my friend.

HumV4me · 12-27-2009, 07:08 PM

Thank you everyone for your support... it is very hard. I know as a mother, I would feel 100% broken hearted in a way one could even compare. I haven't heard yet directly from Carolyn... only her closest friend... I hope to talk to her sister tonight... stupid me forgot my phone today when I left for work.

Also... if anyone is planning to go to visit Carolyn in the next 3 days or so... please know I am opening up my home for all travelers for this sad occation. I live in Barstow which is the last stop before Baker. I can provide much more comfort than any ol' rest stop... so please contact me... My porch light is on.

Gemme · 12-27-2009, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by HumV4me

Thank you everyone for your support... it is very hard. I know as a mother, I would feel 100% broken hearted in a way one could even compare. I haven't heard yet directly from Carolyn... only her closest friend... I hope to talk to her sister tonight... stupid me forgot my phone today when I left for work.

Also... if anyone is planning to go to visit Carolyn in the next 3 days or so... please know I am opening up my home for all travelers for this sad occation. I live in Barstow which is the last stop before Baker. I can provide much more comfort than any ol' rest stop... so please contact me... My porch light is on.

This is such a kind offer. I'm sure some will take you up on it.

I've read about Harley and Matthew's ups and downs for a while now and, as previously mentioned, the ending was anticipated.....it's so very difficult to prepare for emotionally, mentally as well as physically. The draining of a life is so hard on all members of a family.

The family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Vlasta · 12-27-2009, 07:26 PM

I am so sorry , I learned about Mathew early this am and I was hoping someone will start a thread who can keep up with .... thanks so much Alicia .... as someone said it was anticipated ,yet nobody can be prepared enough for something this tragic .

I feel privileged since I have met Mathew and he was a sweet , wonderful young man . I will always remember him like that.

my heart goes to Carolyn and her family .... sending much love and keeping her in my prayers . I am so sorry for your loss Carolyn .

Vlasta

Surayna · 12-27-2009, 07:38 PM

Rest peacefully Matthew -

Your family and friends are in our thoughts and prayers.

PinkieLee · 12-28-2009, 08:36 AM

Harley... I am so very sorry for your loss. I know that there are no words that express the sorrow in your heart, just please know that you have many friends here lifting you & Matthew up in prayer.

Matthew was an incredible fighter and encouraging & uplifting spirit ~ something he learned well from you.

I pray for peace and comfort for you and all of your loved ones during this difficult time.

Tonya

daisygrrl · 12-28-2009, 09:02 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss

Words fail me, so I'm sending hugs

HumV4me · 12-28-2009, 03:59 PM

Thank you so much everyone for your kind words of support... I know Harley will appreciate them when she has time.

I got to talk to her sister last night... they are projecting the mass or funeral in about 2 weeks. I have made myself available for this weekend just in case there needs to be another helping hand. So far, right now, there are a few friends there supporting her.

I am really fearful for Carolyn now that Matthew is passed on to his next journey. She lived her whole life for the past 17 years, for him. He was her world. Shucks, all kids were her world... a lil baby can't even get brought into the room without her face lighting up. She has to hold it. Her spirit finds strength and joy in young spirits. I hope she will beable to continue feeling for others as she has in the past.

Anyhow, I feel like I'm rambling on and on.

Thanks again ya'll for everything.

cara · 12-28-2009, 04:32 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss, Harley. My heart is aching for you.

*sending lotsa hugs though they hardly seem enough*

HumV4me · 12-31-2009, 12:05 AM

Ok I never though about giving ya'll Matthews last name... ((((thanks friend))))

Matthew Colarusso.

I soooo appreciate all the in put and /or questions... this is such a learning process in it's on way.

We all love ya'll!! ( I can't help my country-fied self. ;-)

12-27-2009, 12:39 PM	#1
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,390 Times in 4,137 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Friendship and love have no bounds. Although distance keeps me from being there to help comfort Carolyn and her family. I will keep them all in prayer. The time I spent in Vegas and every time I saw Matthew, his smile, his zest, his kindness, his love of family and the time he grabbed his little sister in his arms and jumped into the swimming pool with her, all his clothes on. Memories that stay in the heart, never to be forgotten. Matthew may you rest in peace, pain free without worry. Carolyn, you have showed immense strength over the last 2 years that helped Matthew to fight. He was brave for you and you for him. You gave him the best thing he could ever have, a mother's love. Peace be with you, my friend. __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

12-27-2009, 07:08 PM	#2
HumV4me Member How Do You Identify?: FEMME Preferred Pronoun?: Honey, Baby, Love, Dearest Relationship Status: in an animal house Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CALIFORNIA Posts: 131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 75 Times in 34 Posts Rep Power: 100333	Thank you everyone for your support... it is very hard. I know as a mother, I would feel 100% broken hearted in a way one could even compare. I haven't heard yet directly from Carolyn... only her closest friend... I hope to talk to her sister tonight... stupid me forgot my phone today when I left for work. Also... if anyone is planning to go to visit Carolyn in the next 3 days or so... please know I am opening up my home for all travelers for this sad occation. I live in Barstow which is the last stop before Baker. I can provide much more comfort than any ol' rest stop... so please contact me... My porch light is on. __________________ Alicia Ann

12-27-2009, 07:38 PM	#5
Surayna Member How Do You Identify?: Femme - babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Incredibly content, amazingly happy, and loved by some wonderful people! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: PNW Posts: 179 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 93 Thanked 82 Times in 36 Posts Rep Power: 18	Rest peacefully Matthew - Your family and friends are in our thoughts and prayers. __________________ "The more you love, the more you can love – and the more intensely you love." ~Lazarus Long~ "Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day." ~Nicholas Sparks~ "Bite Marks Are Love Notes Written In Flesh" ~anonymous~

12-28-2009, 09:02 AM	#7
daisygrrl Member How Do You Identify?: mouthy but adorable; kinky Gerbera Preferred Pronoun?: hey, cutie (or dudette) Relationship Status: xoxo Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The South (Gooogia peach) Posts: 475 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,157 Thanked 524 Times in 222 Posts Rep Power: 1065211	I'm so sorry for your loss Words fail me, so I'm sending hugs __________________ You can’t change that system by just getting your own rights, tinkering with the engine and leaving. You have to take on the whole machine. --Riki Anne Wilchins Hold on to the lessons, let go of the pain. --Leslie Feinberg

12-28-2009, 03:59 PM	#8
HumV4me Member How Do You Identify?: FEMME Preferred Pronoun?: Honey, Baby, Love, Dearest Relationship Status: in an animal house Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CALIFORNIA Posts: 131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 75 Times in 34 Posts Rep Power: 100333	Thank you so much everyone for your kind words of support... I know Harley will appreciate them when she has time. I got to talk to her sister last night... they are projecting the mass or funeral in about 2 weeks. I have made myself available for this weekend just in case there needs to be another helping hand. So far, right now, there are a few friends there supporting her. I am really fearful for Carolyn now that Matthew is passed on to his next journey. She lived her whole life for the past 17 years, for him. He was her world. Shucks, all kids were her world... a lil baby can't even get brought into the room without her face lighting up. She has to hold it. Her spirit finds strength and joy in young spirits. I hope she will beable to continue feeling for others as she has in the past. Anyhow, I feel like I'm rambling on and on. Thanks again ya'll for everything. __________________ Alicia Ann

12-27-2009, 07:26 PM	#4
Vlasta BFP Sentinels How Do You Identify?: ................. Preferred Pronoun?: .............. Relationship Status: .................. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ............... Posts: 546 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,353 Thanked 1,001 Times in 286 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I am so sorry , I learned about Mathew early this am and I was hoping someone will start a thread who can keep up with .... thanks so much Alicia .... as someone said it was anticipated ,yet nobody can be prepared enough for something this tragic . I feel privileged since I have met Mathew and he was a sweet , wonderful young man . I will always remember him like that. my heart goes to Carolyn and her family .... sending much love and keeping her in my prayers . I am so sorry for your loss Carolyn . Vlasta

12-28-2009, 08:36 AM	#6
PinkieLee Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: I need ya boo, gotta see ya boo Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Big Money Texas Posts: 4,708 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24,309 Thanked 13,073 Times in 3,047 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Harley... I am so very sorry for your loss. I know that there are no words that express the sorrow in your heart, just please know that you have many friends here lifting you & Matthew up in prayer. Matthew was an incredible fighter and encouraging & uplifting spirit ~ something he learned well from you. I pray for peace and comfort for you and all of your loved ones during this difficult time. Tonya

12-28-2009, 04:32 PM	#9
cara Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer/lesbian femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: Married to my love 08.15.15 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Indianapolis, IN Posts: 3,401 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,995 Thanked 13,255 Times in 2,725 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I'm so sorry for your loss, Harley. My heart is aching for you. sending lotsa hugs though they hardly seem enough

12-31-2009, 12:05 AM	#10
HumV4me Member How Do You Identify?: FEMME Preferred Pronoun?: Honey, Baby, Love, Dearest Relationship Status: in an animal house Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CALIFORNIA Posts: 131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 75 Times in 34 Posts Rep Power: 100333	Ok I never though about giving ya'll Matthews last name... ((((thanks friend)))) Matthew Colarusso. I soooo appreciate all the in put and /or questions... this is such a learning process in it's on way. We all love ya'll!! ( I can't help my country-fied self. ;-) __________________ Alicia Ann