Big Butch Love

bigbutchmistie · 01-10-2011, 10:31 PM

Im glad to see this thread again

I had missed it... I love seeing all the femmes out there who love us big guys

asphaltcowboi · 01-10-2011, 11:07 PM

this is the first time ive seen this thread.. its good to see it.. tho i recently went from 280lbs to 210 at 5'10 im still built like a line backer.. ive always worried esp when i was at 280 that i was to big. that my size scared people away. i know there are some femmes that love the big butches. growing up i was fairly on the too skinny side lol and worried that some big butch would kick my ass if i didnt behave right. as an adult and a older butch im proud to join the ranks!

Leigh · 01-11-2011, 12:13 AM

I am SO very glad to see this thread again, missed it alot

Miss Scarlett · 01-11-2011, 05:56 AM

Here is what this Femme notices (in order of importance):

1 - eyes

2 - mouth, including smile

3 - hands

...

99 - body size

Miss Scarlett · 01-11-2011, 07:23 AM

There's so much more to us all than that number on the scale or the tags in our clothes. A short list of things that matter to me are:

1 - even tempered;

2 - mature, well-mannered, respectful and polite;

3 - personal appearance - as in well groomed;

4 - employed;

5 - emotionally secure/confident - no need to prove themselves to anyone or for any reason;

6 - sense of humour and loves to laugh;

7 - understands the difference between breaking and curbing this high spirited femme;

8 - loves conversation/discussion;

9 - loves animals; and

10 - not hung up on an ex (or exes) and/or will not let an ex move back back in, tell me after the fact and expect me to be OK with it all.

stepfordfemme · 01-11-2011, 10:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett

Here is what this Femme notices (in order of importance):

1 - eyes

2 - mouth, including smile

3 - hands

...

99 - body size

Not me!
If I see a big tall handsome (linebacker to use Cody's word

) I'm done! I'm so in. Its the first thing I notice. Its just the presence and the way they can carry themselves. I love butches that are taller in particular. And if they look like a big farm boi or football player....I'm like melted butter. Broad shoulders are always a plus.Big strong arms & a tummy that I can use like a pillow when cuddling on the couch. Aww sure is nice to dream!

Love to all the big butches!

Leigh · 01-11-2011, 11:35 PM

Its women like all of you that makes butches and guys like us keep fighting to be ourselves because we know that someone out there, somewhere, will love us for who we are ............. thank you

storyofmylife · 01-15-2011, 03:52 AM

Big Butch Love

chai~ · 01-19-2012, 02:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stepfordfemmeyyc

Not me!
If I see a big tall handsome (linebacker to use Cody's word

) I'm done! I'm so in. Its the first thing I notice. Its just the presence and the way they can carry themselves. I love butches that are taller in particular. And if they look like a big farm boi or football player....I'm like melted butter. Broad shoulders are always a plus.Big strong arms & a tummy that I can use like a pillow when cuddling on the couch. Aww sure is nice to dream!

Love to all the big butches!

Oh, I am swooning over your description of a tall big butch!

halla~lou~yer!!!!!

*fannin self*

Love to be able to sit on a lap that won't buckle. Arm draped around strong shoulders, eye level....and kiss level~

SugarFemme · 01-19-2012, 03:18 AM

For me, I REALLY like a butch who is comfortable in hys or her own BIG skin. That they don't try and make themselves smaller or invisible due to size. That they take up as much "space" as they need. That they revel in their size. That I am only 5'1" and they are taller and bigger, helps me with that emotional illusion that they can "protect" me if needed. It also fuels my "Daddy" needs. Especially if they are a lot taller than myself. It fulfills me physically to feel that large presence looming over me. Nothing sexier than a big ole confident butch. How yummy is it to feel all that enveloping my being. For me, now that's power.

01-10-2011, 11:07 PM	#2
asphaltcowboi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: HAPPY Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: ..... Posts: 1,509 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,367 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,042 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	this is the first time ive seen this thread.. its good to see it.. tho i recently went from 280lbs to 210 at 5'10 im still built like a line backer.. ive always worried esp when i was at 280 that i was to big. that my size scared people away. i know there are some femmes that love the big butches. growing up i was fairly on the too skinny side lol and worried that some big butch would kick my ass if i didnt behave right. as an adult and a older butch im proud to join the ranks! __________________

01-11-2011, 12:13 AM	#3
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I am SO very glad to see this thread again, missed it alot __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-11-2011, 11:35 PM	#7
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Its women like all of you that makes butches and guys like us keep fighting to be ourselves because we know that someone out there, somewhere, will love us for who we are ............. thank you __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-10-2011, 10:31 PM	#1
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Im glad to see this thread again I had missed it... I love seeing all the femmes out there who love us big guys

01-11-2011, 05:56 AM	#4
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,947 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Here is what this Femme notices (in order of importance): 1 - eyes 2 - mouth, including smile 3 - hands ... 99 - body size

01-11-2011, 07:23 AM	#5
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,947 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	There's so much more to us all than that number on the scale or the tags in our clothes. A short list of things that matter to me are: 1 - even tempered; 2 - mature, well-mannered, respectful and polite; 3 - personal appearance - as in well groomed; 4 - employed; 5 - emotionally secure/confident - no need to prove themselves to anyone or for any reason; 6 - sense of humour and loves to laugh; 7 - understands the difference between breaking and curbing this high spirited femme; 8 - loves conversation/discussion; 9 - loves animals; and 10 - not hung up on an ex (or exes) and/or will not let an ex move back back in, tell me after the fact and expect me to be OK with it all.

01-15-2011, 03:52 AM	#8
storyofmylife Member How Do You Identify?: silly femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Truly,Madly,Deeply Engaged ♥♡ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: garden state Posts: 636 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,057 Thanked 808 Times in 350 Posts Rep Power: 2559043	Big Butch Love

01-19-2012, 03:18 AM	#10
SugarFemme Member How Do You Identify?: Fierce Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Southwest Posts: 1,029 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 650 Thanked 4,458 Times in 854 Posts Rep Power*: 21474852	For me, I REALLY like a butch who is comfortable in hys or her own BIG skin. That they don't try and make themselves smaller or invisible due to size. That they take up as much "space" as they need. That they revel in their size. That I am only 5'1" and they are taller and bigger, helps me with that emotional illusion that they can "protect" me if needed. It also fuels my "Daddy" needs. Especially if they are a lot taller than myself. It fulfills me physically to feel that large presence looming over me. Nothing sexier than a big ole confident butch. How yummy is it to feel all that enveloping my being. For me, now that's power.