Femme Led Relationships and Trans/Butch/Femme Bottoms

Martina · 01-30-2011, 02:08 AM

Ah well, missed the chance to chat. i am in a Femme-led relationship, but i am not butch/trans. Don't know if i should chime in anyway.

weatherboi · 01-30-2011, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Martina

Ah well, missed the chance to chat. i am in a Femme-led relationship, but i am not butch/trans. Don't know if i should chime in anyway.

hey Martina!!!
your opinion is always welcome in here, so please feel free!!!
i would also be willing to ask admin to change the title of the thread...i feel the femme led dynamic is so small it might be to our advantage. what do you think?

weatherboi · 01-30-2011, 11:27 AM

i am a lucky guy that gets to do this!!!

Martina · 01-30-2011, 01:40 PM

Thanks!!

Great graphic! Yum.

i am so so so so so into giving footrubs. My Queen loves them. My Sir too, actually.

i am trying to learn how to do a pedicure, but i am bad. Even though i am femme, i have never done my own nails (and hardly ever had them done). Ma'am bought me a lovely kit, but it took FOREVER the first time and was a mess.

i know boys who can do better pedis than this girl. god. lol.

Being at Her feet, for whatever reason, is one of the joys of life.

Re changing the title of the thread, i don't know how many new folks it would bring in. Nice to feel welcome though.

weatherboi · 01-30-2011, 01:58 PM

hey Martina!!!

i have become very fond of styling Ms's hair for Her. She has been very patient while i have learned to use the Chi. i have often thought about teaching myself how to give Her a pedicure. when She allows me to rub Her feet i use this

i also wanted to add that i have never in my life styled hair or anything in the beauty/style related in service before...i was really nervous using that Chi...it is hot!!! burning Her does not feel good and makes me want to crawl in a hole when i have. my point is She is super forgiving and patient and i am lucky to have a Ms that allows me the space to gain value in giving up something. it makes me trust in her direction of Our/our relationship so my acts come to Her more willingly. hope that makes sense.

Martina · 01-30-2011, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by weatherboi

hey Martina!!!

i have become very fond of styling Ms's hair for Her. She has been very patient while i have learned to use the Chi. i have often thought about teaching myself how to give Her a pedicure. when She allows me to rub Her feet i use this

i also wanted to add that i have never in my life styled hair or anything in the beauty/style related in service before...i was really nervous using that Chi...it is hot!!! burning Her does not feel good and makes me want to crawl in a hole when i have. my point is She is super forgiving and patient and i am lucky to have a Ms that allows me the space to gain value in giving up something. it makes me trust in her direction of Our/our relationship so my acts come to Her more willingly. hope that makes sense.

Thank You. i will mention the product to Her. She is a lover of essential oils, and we use those a lot, depending on the mood. There is also a balm, whose name i have forgotten.

i will let You know.

There is a lot to be said for a bare handed rub though, i think. i love that transition from a tight foot to something soft, warm and relaxed.

That's awesome about learning how to do hair. That's a valuable skill! Yes, my Ma'am is patient too. She has to be -- to be my Dominant. i want to learn more about massage, but the classes are so expensive.

i love caring for and worshipping Her feet. Something extra special in that with a Femme Dominant.

A former Femme Dominant had me shave her pussy. Now THAT was scary the first couple of times. But fun!

Performing body service for a Femme IS intoxicating.

Mitmo01 · 02-08-2011, 10:42 AM

This is def our house and our dynamic....wanted to bump this up a while ago....I know that this type of dynamic is unusual in that it is not in the majority but i suspect its more common then we know....

my Ms and I are going to deeper levels in exploring our boundaries and our wiring so to speak and it feels very liberating for me....

01-30-2011, 02:08 AM	#1
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,283 Times in 4,166 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Ah well, missed the chance to chat. i am in a Femme-led relationship, but i am not butch/trans. Don't know if i should chime in anyway.

01-30-2011, 11:27 AM	#3
weatherboi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Owned boy Preferred Pronoun?: Hey boy!!! Relationship Status: counting freckles slowly under Her direction!!! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: i have 2 sets of geographic coordinates!!! Posts: 6,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,797 Thanked 12,549 Times in 2,993 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	i am a lucky guy that gets to do this!!!

01-30-2011, 01:40 PM	#4
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,283 Times in 4,166 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Thanks!! Great graphic! Yum. i am so so so so so into giving footrubs. My Queen loves them. My Sir too, actually. i am trying to learn how to do a pedicure, but i am bad. Even though i am femme, i have never done my own nails (and hardly ever had them done). Ma'am bought me a lovely kit, but it took FOREVER the first time and was a mess. i know boys who can do better pedis than this girl. god. lol. Being at Her feet, for whatever reason, is one of the joys of life. Re changing the title of the thread, i don't know how many new folks it would bring in. Nice to feel welcome though.

01-30-2011, 01:58 PM	#5
weatherboi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Owned boy Preferred Pronoun?: Hey boy!!! Relationship Status: counting freckles slowly under Her direction!!! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: i have 2 sets of geographic coordinates!!! Posts: 6,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,797 Thanked 12,549 Times in 2,993 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	hey Martina!!! i have become very fond of styling Ms's hair for Her. She has been very patient while i have learned to use the Chi. i have often thought about teaching myself how to give Her a pedicure. when She allows me to rub Her feet i use this i also wanted to add that i have never in my life styled hair or anything in the beauty/style related in service before...i was really nervous using that Chi...it is hot!!! burning Her does not feel good and makes me want to crawl in a hole when i have. my point is She is super forgiving and patient and i am lucky to have a Ms that allows me the space to gain value in giving up something. it makes me trust in her direction of Our/our relationship so my acts come to Her more willingly. hope that makes sense.

02-08-2011, 10:42 AM	#7
Mitmo01 Member How Do You Identify?: Disobedient Thing... Preferred Pronoun?: Rebel Soul in the blood..Heathen as well Relationship Status: Marked and Loved....I Belong to Her.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Omaha Posts: 984 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,523 Thanked 1,354 Times in 579 Posts Rep Power: 927728	This is def our house and our dynamic....wanted to bump this up a while ago....I know that this type of dynamic is unusual in that it is not in the majority but i suspect its more common then we know.... my Ms and I are going to deeper levels in exploring our boundaries and our wiring so to speak and it feels very liberating for me....