Lesbian bed death?

[Chazz]

Originally Posted by BullDog

I agree with you Corkey. It's a human condition that can happen to any couple. That's why I said earlier why is there no term for heterosexual bed death or gay men bed death. The whole term and that study that was widely publicized are just perpetuating myths about lesbians plain and simple.

You definitely bring up good points about things that should be discussed before seriously committing to a relationship.

I think also sometimes there are sexual incompatibilities that can become more of an issue as time goes on. Obviously the best thing to do is try and work them out, but sometimes it really isn't possible and you don't realize how much of an issue it is until some time has passed. At least this is something I have experienced.

I also think sexual incompatibility is a big issue. It may not be recognized as such at the beginning when things are fresh and new, but as the novelty wears off it can become a deal breaker.

[Jess]

I haven't read this entire thread as I remember all too clearly the huge arguments that came up in the 80's when discussing this topic.

I ran across this video just a minute ago and thought it appropriate for a thread about Lesbian sex. I apologize if it has already been posted.

It's called Hearts Cracked Open, a film about Lesbian Tantra. Not everyone's cup of tea, but relevant none the less.

http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...9732300321633#

[bigbutchmistie]

Um Ive never had this issue Just sayin

But that being said. I havent been with someone for a long period. Of time. However, I do have a high sex drive and cannot be with someone who doesnt.

I believe all needs of a relationship should be met so if I was with someone and that wasnt there anymore. Im sorry to say I dont know that I could stay in that relationship... For me, it would be a friendship then...

Just my two cents and MY thoughts....

[Dude]

let us not forget horse's and their come hither , impossible to ignore *wink* thing they do

[blush]

Originally Posted by Dude

let us not forget horse's and their come hither , impossible to ignore *wink* thing they do

Quit horsing around!

[Mister Bent]

Originally Posted by Dude

let us not forget horse's and their come hither , impossible to ignore *wink* thing they do

There's definitely some kind of horse parts up in here.*


Sheep dip, anyone?






*My apologies to actual horses.