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03-01-2011, 07:41 PM
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If you've been talking with the same person for awhile and are friends and she "on her own actions gives you her number an says give me a call" thats a sure sign for sure.
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07-25-2011, 03:34 PM
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Um.. if I was into you I'd probably go dumb.. you know.. cos all the blood leaves my brain! That is why it's good to meet someone who genuinely makes you laugh.. giggling is a clue (and she's not laughing at you, unless you are making a joke about yourself and you meant her too!) I listen alot. I smile. Take deep breaths. Make eyes. I can't beleive you don't know these things ;-) you cheeky ones ;-)
Sometimes I think I confuse women 'cos if they reached out to touch my arm then I'd be all nervous but that's not the same as making a cold face and stepping backward, which would be "not into you". Reading between the lines it's a compliment I'm all tense! If you know what I'm saying! Sexual tension! So be careful to know the difference between excited/nervous and not interested/hostile. How she shows her interest in you isn't always blatantly obvious.. so.. There are some videos on YouTube I've recently watched, although straight, kind of give you some solid clues. Named something like How to tell if a girl/boy is into you. I hope that helps. F xx |
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08-11-2011, 06:42 PM
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If she's into you, she'll find a way to make it known.
I'm the shy type. But after I met B, my sweetie today. I took some initiative, found out her name, stalked her on facebook until we exchanged emails. Took her to dinner and plied her with beer until she agreed to take me home  (OK, maybe I didn't have to push her to hard to take me home -- I'm cute dammit.) But you get the picture? Even us shy ones, if we see what we want, we'll find a way to make sure you know it. 
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08-11-2011, 06:57 PM
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I wouldn't know if someone was into me unless she said something.
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08-11-2011, 09:17 PM
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I just assume she's not. I'm almost always right. Bah, humbug.
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08-11-2011, 10:00 PM
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I totally agree though. If she's into you, you'll know it. If you don't know it, then she probably isn't.
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08-11-2011, 10:12 PM
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I may be into you, but I may be too shy to say anything...then what?
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08-12-2011, 02:45 AM
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If you text when me after I just left the room, I'd think you were into me
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After everything I said I've realised that I am rubbish the other way round - meaning - at knowing if someone likes me!
I think I am a bit autistic in the world of dating! I tend to rely on hearing the words.. literally.. but then I have been messed around and lied to so much (as everyone experiences thoughout life) that I tend to leave it all up to them now, and am sceptical. So although I tend to attract shy girls too, things don't really get off the ground!!! Have to work on this! Any tips??? Fx |
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