Stone Butches

[cuddlyfemme]

Originally Posted by stonebutchinpa

Just got back from a bad date where the woman I was with told me that being with someone "like me" aka a stone made her feel like she wasn't a lesbian anymore, I took her lesbian identity and made her feel straight?!?!

I completely understand that everyone has their opinion, but I clearly told her who I was waaaayyy before we started dating.

I just want to thank the femme woman out there who love and appreciate us stone butches.

I'm really sorry that this happened to you You were up front with her so its not like she didn't know. I've been in relationships where the butch thought hy could "change" me....not gonna happen in this lifetime!

I am glad you realize that there are femme's that love and appreciate all you wonderful, handsome stone butches. Nothing gets me going like a stone butch does!

[stonebutchinpa]

Originally Posted by morningstar55

I dont understand .... why someone continues to date someone when they know way way before hand .. what type the person is ... maybe she thought she could change you somewhere down the road..

I think she did think I would change....so obviously she didn't truly understand what a stone butch is.

Originally Posted by DapperButch

I'm sorry this happened. At some point you will find a woman who WANTS this in her butch.

That is the difference, I think, and I mentioned it earlier. I would only want to be with a woman who DESIRED a butch like myself, not one that is "ok" with me being stone.

I want that part of me to be something she prefers in a partner, not something she "accepts" in a partner.

I agree Dapper, you are right. I definitely want someone who "accepts" me for being stone not who is "ok" with it. I appreciate the support

Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme

I'm really sorry that this happened to you You were up front with her so its not like she didn't know. I've been in relationships where the butch thought hy could "change" me....not gonna happen in this lifetime!

I am glad you realize that there are femme's that love and appreciate all you wonderful, handsome stone butches. Nothing gets me going like a stone butch does!

Ahhh Cuddly you are such a sweetie, thank you for the support.