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04-10-2011, 06:09 PM
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ezgo with your gut feelings here darlin. First, You're staring at a big ol red flag if they move in too fast. Second, Dating without a committment is just using someone (I'm OFOS) I recommend cutting off all contact, but giving her the "it's not you it's me speech." She'll be hurt, but better than prolonging the inevitable. Don't string her around for attention...not cool..Just step away.
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04-10-2011, 06:29 PM
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You said it, you are just not that into her. That's ok! But, just don't lead her on, that's NOT ok.
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04-10-2011, 07:07 PM
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Sounds like what might be missing for you is the "dance" of butch-femme. That can be a very powerful, and if that dynamic is part of your base attraction to someone, then you'll always feel something missing in this relationship. Too bad she dropped the "L" bomb, otherwise you might be able to have a lets-have-fun-but-lets-not-get-serious relationship.
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