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I answer to "hey you" (either works for me!) Relationship Status:
19 years together- Very Married for 10 years Join Date: Aug 2010
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Touch.....
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![]() Take care of your body, take care of your health... You never know when the walls cave in and it all changes for good.
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be present and spend time with the person you are in a relationship with or get out of the relationship
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears |
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Create your own traditions...
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![]() Take care of your body, take care of your health... You never know when the walls cave in and it all changes for good.
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Listen
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“You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”
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once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010
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TRUST
TRUST each other TRUST each others friendships, are just that friendships TRUST my judgment, I only want what is best for you and for us TRUST that nothing is off limits, you can talk to me about anything TRUST that we will not judge each other TRUST that at the end of the day no matter our difficulties of the day, we will go to bed happily and loving each other, not wondering.
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Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it. |
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Practically Lives Here
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Celebrate everything!
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keep your word, If you promise to do something, do it.
the excuses can get very old after a while. |
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open your mouth
if you like something say so if you don't like something say so from everything from sex to supper open your mouth Don't appease each other. we are all different and it's ok to say so
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Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it. |
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Practically Lives Here
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pick your battles
we don't have to always be (what we think is) right...... |
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be real, and honest |
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We do this.
![]() I celebrate when I don't have to make a bank run after work. I'm already tired and cranky and it saves me about 20 minutes of time (plus mileage, etc), so that makes for a happier, less cranky but probably equally tired me when I get home and that means Ebon deals with less crankiness in general, which makes him super happy. |
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If your gf/bf is having a hard day, BE THERE FOR HER/HIM! I don't care if you don't know what to do, it's okay because you don't have to fix it! At least say, "I'm here for you."
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To forgive is to set the prisoner free, And then discover the prisoner was you. |
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I don't need you to solve a problem for me, I just need you to listen...
Don't just listen to me, hear me and I will do the same for you... Kiss me... Kiss me often... Little things... Always... |
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Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009
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Knowing your partner is by your side should be a no brained. But a lot of people confuse wanting support as them fixing it. I don't need you to fix it I can handle whatever. I just want a partner who says I'm here WE will get through this. Not someone who is just running their mouth but who backs it up. I'm tired of this issue myself. Great point Starbuck r
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