Sexual Orientation......Who does or does not have one?

Martina · 04-27-2011, 02:32 PM

Even though my first sexual dream was about a woman, i started out straight, which was not satisfactory. Like many dykes, i couldn't see what all the fuss was about. i mean men were fine. The sex was good, but i'd rather be with my friends. Finally figured that one out.

For a few years i was a happy dyke. Then my libido went sorta flat. Meeting a hot butch who knew the dance changed all that. From there, i ID'd as femme as well as lesbian.

My mid-life crisis changed a lot about my life. i moved, changed careers, etc. i also dated a couple transmen in a row and rediscovered femmes. i am a dyke and a femme. But my sexual orientation isn't all about butches anymore. Currently, i am in service to a butch-femme couple.

Rediscovering femmes has been a joy. i dated one maybe five years ago who made me feel butch. That didn't last. But the two i have been in service to made me feel more feminine and more like a girl, not less. i can't do without that. i have the privilege of serving the feminine body and spirit. It's hot. Damned hot. i still like butches too. Life is good.

04-27-2011, 02:32 PM	#17
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,278 Times in 4,165 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Even though my first sexual dream was about a woman, i started out straight, which was not satisfactory. Like many dykes, i couldn't see what all the fuss was about. i mean men were fine. The sex was good, but i'd rather be with my friends. Finally figured that one out. For a few years i was a happy dyke. Then my libido went sorta flat. Meeting a hot butch who knew the dance changed all that. From there, i ID'd as femme as well as lesbian. My mid-life crisis changed a lot about my life. i moved, changed careers, etc. i also dated a couple transmen in a row and rediscovered femmes. i am a dyke and a femme. But my sexual orientation isn't all about butches anymore. Currently, i am in service to a butch-femme couple. Rediscovering femmes has been a joy. i dated one maybe five years ago who made me feel butch. That didn't last. But the two i have been in service to made me feel more feminine and more like a girl, not less. i can't do without that. i have the privilege of serving the feminine body and spirit. It's hot. Damned hot. i still like butches too. Life is good.