What do you want?

msW8ing · 05-07-2011, 10:50 AM

All the things everyone else has listed..and..someone who understands that friends/family/debt/trials and tribulations of all sorts will always come and go..but in the end bottom line is when the dust settles it will always be them and I left standing side by side to take on any and all challenges...when all is said and done it is "us against the world" Doesn't sound complicated does it? You would be amazed. A 100/100 relationship..I give 100% and they give 100%.

Stitch · 05-08-2011, 04:05 AM

I wish my most recent ex could have realized that.

boitanner · 05-08-2011, 10:31 AM

This says it all

http://youtu.be/05qcA4KPI0k

Sachita · 05-08-2011, 10:42 AM

ok a year later and a lot wiser...

I want an intelligent, conscious human being who knows who they are without getting caught up in labels. Someone that enjoys the dynamic and makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the world. Someone that LOVES gardening and cooking. Someone's who's idea of a perfect day is sitting on the porch watching our fur babies play, watching and teaching grandkids about life. Someone that doesn't have to think about doing the right thing.. it just happens. Someone who wants to work at being healthy and strong enough to spend the rest of our golden years together.

clay · 07-19-2011, 07:08 PM

Great post, Sachita!!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sachita

ok a year later and a lot wiser...

I want an intelligent, conscious human being who knows who they are without getting caught up in labels. Someone that enjoys the dynamic and makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the world. Someone that LOVES gardening and cooking. Someone's who's idea of a perfect day is sitting on the porch watching our fur babies play, watching and teaching grandkids about life. Someone that doesn't have to think about doing the right thing.. it just happens. Someone who wants to work at being healthy and strong enough to spend the rest of our golden years together.

proximitywithoutintimacy · 07-19-2011, 07:15 PM

I want someone who's honest, genuine, and old-fashioned. A woman who values love and communication above materialism and sex.

I want someone who is patient, kind, and respectful. Who doesn't smoke or use drugs, and either doesn't drink or only does so sporadically. Who will always be herself, despite what others think or say, and will never allow someone else to change them.

I want someone who has morals and values, who will hold me when I cry, and never fail to make me laugh. Someone who appreciates the little things in life.

I want someone who is intelligent, passionate, gentle, and beautiful on the inside.

I want someone who will love me for who I am, and catch me when I fall.

I want someone to come home to.

clay · 07-19-2011, 07:16 PM

Great posts, peeps...ALL of you!!!! Most of the things are qualities, traits, and attributes we are all looking for! As well as all the things listed in most of the posts here, at least for me, what is single most important is to believe in me, have faith, and when "issues" arise...be kind enough to talk with me....either by phone or in person, if possible....but at least talk with me....don't get mad and pull away! Or if you do need space & time....say so.....but to just dispel me....as if I am like yesterday's garbage....my feelings, my heart, my love, and my friendship shouldn't be so easily dispensable. I do wear my heart on my sleeve, I am sensitive, and I have feelings.....just my 2 cents!!! Carry on, peeps.....hugs to you all!!!

Holly.88 · 07-19-2011, 07:22 PM

I want someone....

- who can kick my ass in Scrabble
- who is confident in herself
- I can have fun with
- who will call me an idiot for wanting to go sky diving, but will be there to watch me
- who respects herself and others
- who thinks I'm their knight in shining armour
- who likes porch swings and southern accents
- who values manners in others
- who loves the butch-femme dynamic as much as I do
- I can bring home to mama

MissPriss · 07-19-2011, 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Holly.88

I want someone....

- who can kick my ass in Scrabble
- who is confident in herself
- I can have fun with
- who will call me an idiot for wanting to go sky diving, but will be there to watch me
- who respects herself and others
- who thinks I'm their knight in shining armour
- who likes porch swings and southern accents
- who values manners in others
- who loves the butch-femme dynamic as much as I do
- I can bring home to mama

southern accents and porch swings.....two of the finer things in life!

clay · 07-19-2011, 07:37 PM

Ditto, Holly!!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Holly.88

I want someone....

- who can kick my ass in Scrabble
- who is confident in herself
- I can have fun with
- who will call me an idiot for wanting to go sky diving, but will be there to watch me
- who respects herself and others
- who thinks I'm their knight in shining armour
- who likes porch swings and southern accents
- who values manners in others
- who loves the butch-femme dynamic as much as I do
- I can bring home to mama

Apocalipstic · 07-21-2011, 08:06 PM

I really vary....

What I want right now, is not what I want soon and definitely not what I want for ever.

Right now, I want to get my space and life together and think, read self help books, go to therapy extra and maybe try accupuncture. lol.

Soon, however I will be looking for someone extremely cool, laid back, kind, funny, 420 friendly, laid back, calm, without anger, low maintenace, smart confident, laid back, positive, kinky, sexy, Toppy Butch who is polyamorous and not looking to take hostages. (and is really really cool and laid back) (and is not treatened by baby)

Some day? Who knows what the future will bring? Life is ever changing. I can see trying settling down again some day.

Random · 05-08-2011, 10:44 AM

I want trust, honor, loyalty, honesty, intellegence and laughter.

I want someone who sees me for who I am... beautiful, ugly, strong, weak.. Might not like all of me, but loves all of me and wouldn't change a thing.

I want conversations that last for days
I want to like someone so much that I have to go find them if I haven't seen them in twenty mins, just to see their face and say hi...
I want someone secure enought to know that one day I will miss them and then the next day tell them to go away...

I want the security of knowing that if I'm alive in twenty years, they are going to be charging up my rascal and finding my other shoe...

I got lucky... or did I? Did I luck out or did I say what I wanted and get it?

Stitch · 05-12-2011, 04:34 AM

wants someone who loves cuddling as much as I do

Stud_puppy1991 · 05-24-2011, 09:09 AM

In my journey to find the love of my life. (And yes, i'm still searching.) I have noticed that I want trust. I want us to keep no secrets from each other, as honesty creates some stability. I want her to be able to look at my flaws, and i look at hers and know the person hiding behind this wall of them is the person that is who they are in love with. Also, I want someone real. I've had way to many girls use me as a pawn in their game, or they were just fake. I want someone who has true emotions, and when she says them, it's what she really feels, and it's not a script. I want someone who is going to love me uncondtionally and love me for who I am. I refuse to be someone's mold. And, whenever possible and just when they need me to, I want to be their hero.

Gemme · 05-24-2011, 09:30 AM

I want more time in the day, but that's something I need to work on.

05-07-2011, 10:50 AM	#1
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	All the things everyone else has listed..and..someone who understands that friends/family/debt/trials and tribulations of all sorts will always come and go..but in the end bottom line is when the dust settles it will always be them and I left standing side by side to take on any and all challenges...when all is said and done it is "us against the world" Doesn't sound complicated does it? You would be amazed. A 100/100 relationship..I give 100% and they give 100%. __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

05-08-2011, 10:31 AM	#3
boitanner Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch/boi/gnome Preferred Pronoun?: Gnome Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2011 Location: Eureka Springs, AR Posts: 44 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20 Thanked 46 Times in 27 Posts Rep Power: 463064	This says it all http://youtu.be/05qcA4KPI0k __________________ boitanner little lonely boi http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a106/Mom2kk/005-2.jpg

05-08-2011, 10:42 AM	#4
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,993 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	ok a year later and a lot wiser... I want an intelligent, conscious human being who knows who they are without getting caught up in labels. Someone that enjoys the dynamic and makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the world. Someone that LOVES gardening and cooking. Someone's who's idea of a perfect day is sitting on the porch watching our fur babies play, watching and teaching grandkids about life. Someone that doesn't have to think about doing the right thing.. it just happens. Someone who wants to work at being healthy and strong enough to spend the rest of our golden years together. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

07-19-2011, 07:22 PM	#8
Holly.88 Member How Do You Identify?: Male and Unc to my God Son Preferred Pronoun?: Him, he, and 'hey, handsome' :P Relationship Status: She said "Yes!" Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: NOLA Posts: 285 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 230 Thanked 654 Times in 224 Posts Rep Power: 3156407	What I want. I want someone.... - who can kick my ass in Scrabble - who is confident in herself - I can have fun with - who will call me an idiot for wanting to go sky diving, but will be there to watch me - who respects herself and others - who thinks I'm their knight in shining armour - who likes porch swings and southern accents - who values manners in others - who loves the butch-femme dynamic as much as I do - I can bring home to mama __________________ http://i52.tinypic.com/15mbugw.jpg

07-21-2011, 08:06 PM	#11
Apocalipstic Pink Confection How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Ma'am Relationship Status: Dating Myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 4,266 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,195 Thanked 11,361 Times in 2,838 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I really vary.... What I want right now, is not what I want soon and definitely not what I want for ever. Right now, I want to get my space and life together and think, read self help books, go to therapy extra and maybe try accupuncture. lol. Soon, however I will be looking for someone extremely cool, laid back, kind, funny, 420 friendly, laid back, calm, without anger, low maintenace, smart confident, laid back, positive, kinky, sexy, Toppy Butch who is polyamorous and not looking to take hostages. (and is really really cool and laid back) (and is not treatened by baby) Some day? Who knows what the future will bring? Life is ever changing. I can see trying settling down again some day. __________________

05-08-2011, 04:05 AM	#2
Stitch Member How Do You Identify?: Sweetest Soft Butch you don't know yet Preferred Pronoun?: She, Hy, Relationship Status: Solo Artist Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Vancouver, Canada Posts: 191 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16 Thanked 305 Times in 111 Posts Rep Power: 2008424	I wish my most recent ex could have realized that.

07-19-2011, 07:15 PM	#6
proximitywithoutintimacy Member How Do You Identify?: Rocker Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: That One Girl ;) Relationship Status: Putting My Heart Back Together Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: USA Posts: 175 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 141 Thanked 290 Times in 106 Posts Rep Power: 670282	I want someone who's honest, genuine, and old-fashioned. A woman who values love and communication above materialism and sex. I want someone who is patient, kind, and respectful. Who doesn't smoke or use drugs, and either doesn't drink or only does so sporadically. Who will always be herself, despite what others think or say, and will never allow someone else to change them. I want someone who has morals and values, who will hold me when I cry, and never fail to make me laugh. Someone who appreciates the little things in life. I want someone who is intelligent, passionate, gentle, and beautiful on the inside. I want someone who will love me for who I am, and catch me when I fall. I want someone to come home to.

07-19-2011, 07:16 PM	#7
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,136 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 97,020 Thanked 31,675 Times in 7,748 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	Great posts, peeps...ALL of you!!!! Most of the things are qualities, traits, and attributes we are all looking for! As well as all the things listed in most of the posts here, at least for me, what is single most important is to believe in me, have faith, and when "issues" arise...be kind enough to talk with me....either by phone or in person, if possible....but at least talk with me....don't get mad and pull away! Or if you do need space & time....say so.....but to just dispel me....as if I am like yesterday's garbage....my feelings, my heart, my love, and my friendship shouldn't be so easily dispensable. I do wear my heart on my sleeve, I am sensitive, and I have feelings.....just my 2 cents!!! Carry on, peeps.....hugs to you all!!!

05-08-2011, 10:44 AM	#12
Random Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: back in the land of trees and snow Posts: 2,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,017 Thanked 5,326 Times in 1,378 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I want trust, honor, loyalty, honesty, intellegence and laughter. I want someone who sees me for who I am... beautiful, ugly, strong, weak.. Might not like all of me, but loves all of me and wouldn't change a thing. I want conversations that last for days I want to like someone so much that I have to go find them if I haven't seen them in twenty mins, just to see their face and say hi... I want someone secure enought to know that one day I will miss them and then the next day tell them to go away... I want the security of knowing that if I'm alive in twenty years, they are going to be charging up my rascal and finding my other shoe... I got lucky... or did I? Did I luck out or did I say what I wanted and get it? __________________ ~Volunteer~ "It gets in your blood"

05-12-2011, 04:34 AM	#13
Stitch Member How Do You Identify?: Sweetest Soft Butch you don't know yet Preferred Pronoun?: She, Hy, Relationship Status: Solo Artist Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Vancouver, Canada Posts: 191 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16 Thanked 305 Times in 111 Posts Rep Power: 2008424	wants someone who loves cuddling as much as I do

05-24-2011, 09:09 AM	#14
Stud_puppy1991 Member How Do You Identify?: butch, gentleman Preferred Pronoun?: Hy, Hym, "Hey Handsome", and also throwing in a "Sup man" or a "You're sexy" will work Relationship Status: Back to Bachelorhood Join Date: May 2011 Location: Louisville, Kentucky Posts: 586 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 499 Thanked 995 Times in 361 Posts Rep Power: 7051416	In my journey to find the love of my life. (And yes, i'm still searching.) I have noticed that I want trust. I want us to keep no secrets from each other, as honesty creates some stability. I want her to be able to look at my flaws, and i look at hers and know the person hiding behind this wall of them is the person that is who they are in love with. Also, I want someone real. I've had way to many girls use me as a pawn in their game, or they were just fake. I want someone who has true emotions, and when she says them, it's what she really feels, and it's not a script. I want someone who is going to love me uncondtionally and love me for who I am. I refuse to be someone's mold. And, whenever possible and just when they need me to, I want to be their hero.

05-24-2011, 09:30 AM	#15
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,972 Times in 25,664 Posts Rep Power: 21474888	I want more time in the day, but that's something I need to work on. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.