What do you want?

Sachita · 05-08-2011, 10:42 AM

ok a year later and a lot wiser...

I want an intelligent, conscious human being who knows who they are without getting caught up in labels. Someone that enjoys the dynamic and makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the world. Someone that LOVES gardening and cooking. Someone's who's idea of a perfect day is sitting on the porch watching our fur babies play, watching and teaching grandkids about life. Someone that doesn't have to think about doing the right thing.. it just happens. Someone who wants to work at being healthy and strong enough to spend the rest of our golden years together.

clay · 07-19-2011, 07:08 PM

Great post, Sachita!!!

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Originally Posted by Sachita

ok a year later and a lot wiser...

I want an intelligent, conscious human being who knows who they are without getting caught up in labels. Someone that enjoys the dynamic and makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the world. Someone that LOVES gardening and cooking. Someone's who's idea of a perfect day is sitting on the porch watching our fur babies play, watching and teaching grandkids about life. Someone that doesn't have to think about doing the right thing.. it just happens. Someone who wants to work at being healthy and strong enough to spend the rest of our golden years together.

proximitywithoutintimacy · 07-19-2011, 07:15 PM

I want someone who's honest, genuine, and old-fashioned. A woman who values love and communication above materialism and sex.

I want someone who is patient, kind, and respectful. Who doesn't smoke or use drugs, and either doesn't drink or only does so sporadically. Who will always be herself, despite what others think or say, and will never allow someone else to change them.

I want someone who has morals and values, who will hold me when I cry, and never fail to make me laugh. Someone who appreciates the little things in life.

I want someone who is intelligent, passionate, gentle, and beautiful on the inside.

I want someone who will love me for who I am, and catch me when I fall.

I want someone to come home to.

clay · 07-19-2011, 07:16 PM

Great posts, peeps...ALL of you!!!! Most of the things are qualities, traits, and attributes we are all looking for! As well as all the things listed in most of the posts here, at least for me, what is single most important is to believe in me, have faith, and when "issues" arise...be kind enough to talk with me....either by phone or in person, if possible....but at least talk with me....don't get mad and pull away! Or if you do need space & time....say so.....but to just dispel me....as if I am like yesterday's garbage....my feelings, my heart, my love, and my friendship shouldn't be so easily dispensable. I do wear my heart on my sleeve, I am sensitive, and I have feelings.....just my 2 cents!!! Carry on, peeps.....hugs to you all!!!

Holly.88 · 07-19-2011, 07:22 PM

I want someone....

- who can kick my ass in Scrabble
- who is confident in herself
- I can have fun with
- who will call me an idiot for wanting to go sky diving, but will be there to watch me
- who respects herself and others
- who thinks I'm their knight in shining armour
- who likes porch swings and southern accents
- who values manners in others
- who loves the butch-femme dynamic as much as I do
- I can bring home to mama

MissPriss · 07-19-2011, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Holly.88

I want someone....

- who can kick my ass in Scrabble
- who is confident in herself
- I can have fun with
- who will call me an idiot for wanting to go sky diving, but will be there to watch me
- who respects herself and others
- who thinks I'm their knight in shining armour
- who likes porch swings and southern accents
- who values manners in others
- who loves the butch-femme dynamic as much as I do
- I can bring home to mama

southern accents and porch swings.....two of the finer things in life!

Holly.88 · 07-19-2011, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by MissPriss

southern accents and porch swings.....two of the finer things in life!

I knew I forgot something on my list! I also want someone with good taste

MissPriss · 07-19-2011, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Holly.88

I knew I forgot something on my list! I also want someone with good taste

great taste and southern charm also important!

Holly.88 · 07-19-2011, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by MissPriss

great taste and southern charm also important!

There's a lot to be said for a good southern romancin'

clay · 07-19-2011, 07:40 PM

Hey MissPriss:
I am a True Southerner....born & raised in SC! You would be surprised at how much razzing I get for my Southern accent!!! And yes, porch swings....big enough to stretch out in and swing your troubles away in....a tall glass of Southern Iced (sweet) tea with lemon...Nothing could be finer than to be in Carolina, in the moooorrrniinnnggggg! Yeehaw!!![/

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Originally Posted by MissPriss

southern accents and porch swings.....two of the finer things in life!
Nothing could be finer than to be in Carolina, in the moooorrrniinnnggggg! Yeehaw!!!

MissPriss · 07-19-2011, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by claybabytwo

Hey MissPriss:
I am a True Southerner....born & raised in SC! You would be surprised at how much razzing I get for my Southern accent!!! And yes, porch swings....big enough to stretch out in and swing your troubles away in....a tall glass of Southern Iced (sweet) tea with lemon...Nothing could be finer than to be in Carolina, in the moooorrrniinnnggggg! Yeehaw!!![/

Yummmy, Sweet Tea!! Southern Sweet that is, the color of molasses now thats good drinkin! I am always teased about my accent! My porch swing is 60 yrs old, my grandfather made it when he and my grandmother were married for their first home. Only thing even close to a porch swing is a hammock!

clay · 07-19-2011, 08:18 PM

Yes, ma'am.....ain't nothin' like Southern Sweet Tea.....awesome porch swing there, missy!!! You n your sweetie will enjoy that swing!!!

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Originally Posted by MissPriss

Yummmy, Sweet Tea!! Southern Sweet that is, the color of molasses now thats good drinkin! I am always teased about my accent! My porch swing is 60 yrs old, my grandfather made it when he and my grandmother were married for their first home. Only thing even close to a porch swing is a hammock!

clay · 07-19-2011, 07:37 PM

Ditto, Holly!!!

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Originally Posted by Holly.88

I want someone....

- who can kick my ass in Scrabble
- who is confident in herself
- I can have fun with
- who will call me an idiot for wanting to go sky diving, but will be there to watch me
- who respects herself and others
- who thinks I'm their knight in shining armour
- who likes porch swings and southern accents
- who values manners in others
- who loves the butch-femme dynamic as much as I do
- I can bring home to mama

Apocalipstic · 07-21-2011, 08:06 PM

I really vary....

What I want right now, is not what I want soon and definitely not what I want for ever.

Right now, I want to get my space and life together and think, read self help books, go to therapy extra and maybe try accupuncture. lol.

Soon, however I will be looking for someone extremely cool, laid back, kind, funny, 420 friendly, laid back, calm, without anger, low maintenace, smart confident, laid back, positive, kinky, sexy, Toppy Butch who is polyamorous and not looking to take hostages. (and is really really cool and laid back) (and is not treatened by baby)

Some day? Who knows what the future will bring? Life is ever changing. I can see trying settling down again some day.

atomiczombie · 07-21-2011, 08:23 PM

If I don't think about what I want, then I won't miss it, right? That's my philosophy.

Apocalipstic · 07-22-2011, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by atomiczombie

If I don't think about what I want, then I won't miss it, right? That's my philosophy.

True, expectations lead to disspointment and resentment.

05-08-2011, 10:42 AM	#1
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,994 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	ok a year later and a lot wiser... I want an intelligent, conscious human being who knows who they are without getting caught up in labels. Someone that enjoys the dynamic and makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the world. Someone that LOVES gardening and cooking. Someone's who's idea of a perfect day is sitting on the porch watching our fur babies play, watching and teaching grandkids about life. Someone that doesn't have to think about doing the right thing.. it just happens. Someone who wants to work at being healthy and strong enough to spend the rest of our golden years together. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

07-19-2011, 07:22 PM	#5
Holly.88 Member How Do You Identify?: Male and Unc to my God Son Preferred Pronoun?: Him, he, and 'hey, handsome' :P Relationship Status: She said "Yes!" Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: NOLA Posts: 285 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 230 Thanked 654 Times in 224 Posts Rep Power: 3156407	What I want. I want someone.... - who can kick my ass in Scrabble - who is confident in herself - I can have fun with - who will call me an idiot for wanting to go sky diving, but will be there to watch me - who respects herself and others - who thinks I'm their knight in shining armour - who likes porch swings and southern accents - who values manners in others - who loves the butch-femme dynamic as much as I do - I can bring home to mama __________________ http://i52.tinypic.com/15mbugw.jpg

07-21-2011, 08:06 PM	#14
Apocalipstic Pink Confection How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Ma'am Relationship Status: Dating Myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 4,266 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,195 Thanked 11,362 Times in 2,838 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I really vary.... What I want right now, is not what I want soon and definitely not what I want for ever. Right now, I want to get my space and life together and think, read self help books, go to therapy extra and maybe try accupuncture. lol. Soon, however I will be looking for someone extremely cool, laid back, kind, funny, 420 friendly, laid back, calm, without anger, low maintenace, smart confident, laid back, positive, kinky, sexy, Toppy Butch who is polyamorous and not looking to take hostages. (and is really really cool and laid back) (and is not treatened by baby) Some day? Who knows what the future will bring? Life is ever changing. I can see trying settling down again some day. __________________

07-21-2011, 08:23 PM	#15
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07-19-2011, 07:15 PM	#3
proximitywithoutintimacy Member How Do You Identify?: Rocker Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: That One Girl ;) Relationship Status: Putting My Heart Back Together Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: USA Posts: 175 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 141 Thanked 290 Times in 106 Posts Rep Power: 670282	I want someone who's honest, genuine, and old-fashioned. A woman who values love and communication above materialism and sex. I want someone who is patient, kind, and respectful. Who doesn't smoke or use drugs, and either doesn't drink or only does so sporadically. Who will always be herself, despite what others think or say, and will never allow someone else to change them. I want someone who has morals and values, who will hold me when I cry, and never fail to make me laugh. Someone who appreciates the little things in life. I want someone who is intelligent, passionate, gentle, and beautiful on the inside. I want someone who will love me for who I am, and catch me when I fall. I want someone to come home to.

07-19-2011, 07:16 PM	#4
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