Maybe The Third Time Will Be The Charm

buffdaddy · 05-14-2011, 01:16 PM

Hey all! Good to see so many familiar names.

I was worried mentioning the other sites was some kinda taboo. I for one loved, loved, loved the old Butch-femme site, even some of the arguments were fun as long as there were no threats of fallacious charges. Last time I logged in it felt like everyone had left the party, I'm guessing because people were using it to harm each other. Sad because I know it meant a lot for so many of us.

Then the dance?!?! Fun for a minute, then I think management must have thought "Not on MY site" and people started getting 'nasty' public admonishments from management for the slightest dissagreement, or perceived violation. I myself was kicked off when a femme who was staying with me created a profile for herself. Just a nasty gram and !Boing! I was kinda pissed cause I had bought about a half dozen anonymous subscriptions.

So I am hopefull that this place finds some middle ground. You know what they say about she who ignores history........
-Jordan

05-14-2011, 01:16 PM	#18
buffdaddy Junior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch top Preferred Pronoun?: Call me Jordan Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2011 Location: Boston Posts: 15 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6 Thanked 55 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 183274	Crossing appendages Hey all! Good to see so many familiar names. I was worried mentioning the other sites was some kinda taboo. I for one loved, loved, loved the old Butch-femme site, even some of the arguments were fun as long as there were no threats of fallacious charges. Last time I logged in it felt like everyone had left the party, I'm guessing because people were using it to harm each other. Sad because I know it meant a lot for so many of us. Then the dance?!?! Fun for a minute, then I think management must have thought "Not on MY site" and people started getting 'nasty' public admonishments from management for the slightest dissagreement, or perceived violation. I myself was kicked off when a femme who was staying with me created a profile for herself. Just a nasty gram and !Boing! I was kinda pissed cause I had bought about a half dozen anonymous subscriptions. So I am hopefull that this place finds some middle ground. You know what they say about she who ignores history........ -Jordan