Scaring straight women.. rawwrrr... lol

[The_Lady_Snow]

Originally Posted by Mister Bent

...and where butch/trans support of femme needs to be more evolved than cheering all the ways femmes support us, which still only views femme as an identity in relation to butch.

Hey, I own it, I had to get schooled on that, too. I may still not be getting it right, but I know my participation here is secondary and the experiences being discussed don't belong to me.

Yeah I am not a fan of placating. It's oogie and it take away from the convo, I don't need a pat pat soothe from someone cause of their *feelings* as an ally, reading and listening and understanding is enough support for me.

Calling out the isms and crap against us says more to *me* than the pat pat you're so cute admiration.

*shrugs*