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Old 06-09-2011, 10:48 PM   #1
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Inner growth, and that AHA moment, when you realize it.
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French pressed goodness.

A cool breeze coming through the window.

The smell of books in a library.

A knowing silence.

Sharing the same Sun, Moon, and Stars.

An open door to a wonderful future.

Ice cold bottled water.

Driving the truck with the music up loud and no destination.

The cats all stretched out and cooling off.

My niece's laugh.

The hypnosis receiver.

Knowing that tomorrow there is the great likelyhood of more peace to come.
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sitting at the beach, or on the beach...seeing the dolphins frolic in multiples....smiles
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The beach.
Flying a kite.
The woods.
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The quiet dark.
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something i dont do nearly enough---going to the beach.....just walking up the path to the beach,the sound of the waves i can actually start to feel all the negative crap starting to slip away....sometimes if i let things build up,and dont go for a long time,then usually i have to spend some time there for it to work its magic,but it always works!

also-sometimes-just driving in the car,windows down,music blaring!
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A few months ago, I began meditating every morning........I love it!

I meditate with special, quiet and soothing music (no lyrics).
That gives me peace for the rest of my day.

I paint. That gives me massive amounts of peace.

Third, while it has been a difficult task at times, I found that toxic people took away my peace, so I got rid of those who brought toxicity to my life. Easier said than done. But well worth it.

I am peace~filled and happy. LIFE. IS. GOOD!

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Feeling my family members are safe and content.
Recalling all the wonderful times I shared with Gramma D.
Feeding a sweet baby squirrel last night and watching him play and climb till he was tuckered out.
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Sitting out on my balcony drinking good coffee and hearing the chimes and feeling the morning breeze.
Morning prayers, chanting my mantras and ringing the bells.
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