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06-21-2011, 03:40 AM
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Dixie, now that's a great list. I know a beautiful woman like you will not have a problem.
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06-21-2011, 05:57 AM
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I can see why it took me so long to find a life partner.
 I don't know how to be on time and I am not patient, now I know what I was doing wrong! (I am working on the patience thing) Are any of us as perfect as these lists?? .gif "Say What?") If these are non negotiable, how do you go about finding the perfect human being? I mean I understand addictions and major obstacles like children but wow, some of these are pretty small things in the grand scheme of life.. Just wondering.... Last edited by girl_dee; 06-21-2011 at 05:58 AM. Reason: added more finesse... |
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06-21-2011, 06:06 AM
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For me personally, mine is a wishlist of things I would like. Hopefully my list doesn't come across as too superficial, as it deals with core things important to me. I know I'm not perfect. I also wouldn't want a perfect partner. That would be kinda boring. For me, I just want someone genuine who genuinely wants me in return.
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06-21-2011, 06:01 AM
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disclaimer: Hypothetically using Dixie here, I am sure she loves dogs. |
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06-21-2011, 06:15 AM
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Oh, and I will also say that I agree with Puplove, that when you meet that someone, all those little things disappear. Sometimes, even what you once considered a fault kinda melts away, and sometimes even becomes an endearing quality. Last edited by dixie; 06-21-2011 at 06:20 AM. Reason: adding more thoughts |
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06-21-2011, 07:48 AM
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wow alot of great lists.. seems most of us are looking for pretty much the same thing.. hmm ..for me i think looking for the small things in someone is what keeps me for "jumping" into a relationship.
looks are only somewhat important but not as important as someone that keeps themself clean/sharp and have self pride. but for my liking has to be femme. someone who respects me but does not fear me. will tell me when im wrong (not just let it slide) someone that can agree to disagree without a underlieing reason someone willing to be 50/50.. yard work,house work and excepts that im butch and i prefer to do the heavy stuff. someone that will be themself right from the start not change soon as they know my heart is into them. other then the natural growing/changing. someone who loves animals someone who has self esteem with or without me by there side. does not change just to impress others someone who is comfertable in there own skin and is just as comfertable next to mine. drives my energy level puts that extra bounce in my step lets me know were all good in pubic.. like when others are checking her out she takes my hand or slips her hand in my back pocket or puts an arm around me. doesnt care about my spelling or my lazy way of talking sees more in me then just a butch biker motor head. someone that believes that forever does and can happen i could do pages of stuff but i think for me it gets down to someone who loves me for me and that i can love them for them.. not phoney..but is always true to there inner being and not afraid to be that person im sure there is more but basics.. be yourself not who you think i would want you to be. give me the chance to know who you really are befor i break my own heart.
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06-21-2011, 09:10 AM
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06-21-2011, 01:55 PM
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wet blanket, redux
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So. I've been watching this thread from the beginning and it immediately seemed problematic to me. Lists are limiting. They constrain by what is contained from beginning to end. I think preferences are normal, but I agree with sassy, there are a lot of niggling, insignificant details contained in some. (And yes, I did just publicly agree with sassy, so?) What if the love of your life is a victim of childhood sexual trauma at the hands of her older brother, and isn't comfortable giving blow jobs? Sorry, babe, I ain't gonna love ya. I see so many here holding up these ideals, these "perfect" visions of what they desire, and yet, single. I wonder if any of you ever look deep inside yourselves and wonder, who's list am I making? Finding love is about one thing, really. Be open. Ok, two - do your "work." No one else is going to make a silk's purse out of the sow's ear of your life.
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06-21-2011, 02:33 PM
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Mr B, I respect your opinion but this is all in fun. I don't think anyone wants Mr or Mrs. Perfect. I think everyone wants love. I mean don't you? Lists are good for lots of things and sometimes not perfect. I mean I've made grocery lists and forgot stuff. I don't nor have I ever expectedvanyone to live up to my expectations I always bend and always will. So what if you don't give me a blowjob or like dogs. I mean come on. All we really want is to have someone whos honest and respects us. All the rest is a benefit. Oh and I was molested. It lasted ten years of my childhood but it doesn't effect who I am today in fact it made me a more giving person and I survived. Im not a kid and that was my past and I don't live in the past. So do me a favor. If you don't like something don't do it. If you read something and don't like what you read then stop reading but don't ruin it for people who do. Its not fair and not right. I do respect your opinion but that's all it is is an opinion. Thank you!
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06-21-2011, 02:46 PM
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My love list overflows!
Blow Jobs do not equate love!
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06-21-2011, 03:13 PM
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Hey Lady Snow, no it doesn't. Sorry everyone, I was mad. Hey Lady, I've met you in person a long time ago at the Club Cafe in Boston. Does Handsome ring a bell? Krystle was there and a few others. Hope everyone is having a great day. I'm off to go eat. I'll be around later. Again sorry for the outburst.
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06-21-2011, 03:22 PM
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I love Ms Krystle!!! I miss Lars  I love Boston!! I apologize I don't remember a handsome may I have another clue?
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06-21-2011, 03:20 PM
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Question? If the blow job and fucking requirement takes place on the first date, does she still fit into the *must respect /self respect* aspect as well? What if she is just not that good at it (gag reflex for example)?
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06-21-2011, 07:22 PM
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I'd put that on my car
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06-21-2011, 07:28 PM
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Dirty!!!!!
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06-21-2011, 04:54 PM
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And if you're going to say fuck then say "fuck."
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So you tell me you respect my opinion and then effectively dismiss the legitimacy of my position to state it. I could illustrate numerous posts that I could say "ruin" a lot of threads for me, but I won't. I either ignore them or respond to them. But I wouldn't presume to tell someone they shouldn't state their opinion. Or, judging from your most recent post, maybe only femme opinions count. If you're saying these lists are frivolous exercises then your analogy to grocery lists hardly supports your argument, as those are items we actually intend to procure. I also applaud you for your healing around childhood molestation, but that is not the case for everyone and it feels as if you diminish that reality in your comments. I'm sorry my post made you "mad," but since we're making lists, primary on mine is "no outbursters."
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06-21-2011, 05:09 PM
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Sorry if I didn't validate your opinion. I am now and I will say sorry. Have a great day everyone and I wish you all luck in finding love. I'm off to browse forums.
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What is important to me in my butch...
1 Interesting conversationalist
1. Interesting conversationalist 2. Well-read 3. Sense of humor, easy to laugh 4. Insight into self 5. Ability to be vulnerable when we are alone 6. Comfortable with both sexuality & sex 7. Healthy libido 8. Belief in the concept of monogamy in a committed relationship 9. Ethical values 10. Social & feminist consciousness 11. Kind, thoughtful, loving 12. Accepts me for who I am, in all my imperfect glory & I in return-do the same 13. Even if hurt previously, healed from it, learned from it, ready & able to move on with hope & excitement for the future |
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