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Old 06-21-2011, 06:49 PM   #1
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7AM tomorrow, 7 year checkup.. So tonite NetFlix & popcorn.
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I have been diagnosed with invasive ductual carcinoma (right breast), stage 2B, grade 3, triple negative.
I have my second of eight chemo treatments tomorrow. Today, lots of hair in my brush. My partner and I both have joined support groups and hoping to continue to be healthy enough to attend.
I am having a hard time moving today. Not in pain or anything, just a sad day. I am crying easy.
My partner is scared of me and started sleeping in the other room. He thinks he might accidently roll over on me at night. My first treatment, he left to put new front tires on my car while I was dozing. Typically guy to the core. Can't fix it and is fixing what he can.
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I have been diagnosed with invasive ductual carcinoma (right breast), stage 2B, grade 3, triple negative.
I have my second of eight chemo treatments tomorrow. Today, lots of hair in my brush. My partner and I both have joined support groups and hoping to continue to be healthy enough to attend.
I am having a hard time moving today. Not in pain or anything, just a sad day. I am crying easy.
My partner is scared of me and started sleeping in the other room. He thinks he might accidently roll over on me at night. My first treatment, he left to put new front tires on my car while I was dozing. Typically guy to the core. Can't fix it and is fixing what he can.
{{{{{Debby}}}}} you are not alone, dear one. one thing i can say from experience is that it's ok to just plop into a pile of mush after chemo. cry, sleep, snuggle...whatever your body intrinsically tells you it needs - listen and give. and don't forget to put a hand on your heart and tell yourself how much you love YOU. this is your one beautiful life and there are times you/we have to fight like hell for it!!
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{{{{{Debby}}}}} you are not alone, dear one. one thing i can say from experience is that it's ok to just plop into a pile of mush after chemo. cry, sleep, snuggle...whatever your body intrinsically tells you it needs - listen and give. and don't forget to put a hand on your heart and tell yourself how much you love YOU. this is your one beautiful life and there are times you/we have to fight like hell for it!!
Thank you Novelafemme,

I do feel blessed at the love and support I have from family and friends.
I have learned to put myself first. Sad it took a life changing event to learn to say NO, but its been a great lesson. I have told everyone, I will be in chemo coma all weekend and if they need to talk call my partner.
My sweetie cut all my hair off last night and told me I have a perfect head and my bald head is sexy. He is a keeper.
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I only have 6 more chemo treatments left. I feel much better this time then the first one. I did the claratin first and didn't get the sinus headache for HOURS. Didn't even get one at all! Just bald and my brain is a bit fuzzy. Sure makes this heat easier to deal wih.

Random thought, breast cancer has to be timed with menopause? Really what kind of joke is that..lol
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