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07-14-2011, 07:55 AM
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08-18-2011, 03:16 PM
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But having the appearance of confidence does not mean that I am not having a bad day b/c of work/illness/traffic or a myriad of other reasons. And when the world gets to be overwhelming, a kind compliment-especially a unique one is much appreciated. Even confident people like to hear that someone admires a certain quality about them, especially when that person is someone whose opinion we value OR when it is a complete stranger. I went out a few years ago with a platonic friend of mine. We went to the local alt bar AFTER the party at the dungeon. It was easily 2 in the morning. But, as we were waiting to get in, she peered at me and said "your eyes look like works of art." She did not have to say that but she did and, despite her moving away, she will always have a special place in my heart. About a year prior to that, a woman ahead of me in post-Christmas returns line at Wal-mart (a place that I hate by the way) made my night with a compliment. She told me that my eyes look like polished glass or gemstones. She took a stressful/tiring situation & turned it into a fond memory. Never doubt the power of a compliment. 
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08-18-2011, 04:04 PM
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Ya know....just as we ask the gentlemen to respect our femme space....
we should respect the Butch space. I'm not trying to be thread police BUT, it is marked BUTCH zone and alot of us ladies are in here telling our Butches what they should be talking about. Fair is fair.....just saying!
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08-18-2011, 04:09 PM
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If I read it correctly, I'm pretty sure that Merlin (OP) welcomed input from femmes. (post #2)
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08-18-2011, 04:13 PM
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if thats the case, I appologize. I did not read all 64 posts. I read alot, and it was mostly femmes postings.
Sorry, as sorrys are do! ETA:...Yes, post two says femme please apply. my bad!
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08-18-2011, 05:31 PM
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No bad. Perfectly reasonable comments/concerns actually.
To be honest, I find it's sometimes hard to know who is welcome in which posts, and when. I would not normally post in a thread entitled "For all things Butch", but I just felt so welcomed by Merlin's invitation.  Now I better go back to reading about girlie stuff!  Quote:
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08-18-2011, 05:35 PM
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Question...
Okay, this may or may not be the place to post this, but I have a question that I think needs to be answered by someone in the butch zone. I consider myself a soft femme, I'm dating a lipstick lesbian...she is HOT! This is where my question comes in: I am attracted to other soft femmes (or so it seems) and soft butches. What the hell? I love looking at a femmes ass and then I love making eye contact with a butch thinking "man I really go for that". Am I confused or just a middle of the road type person?? Someone please answer me.
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08-18-2011, 05:53 PM
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08-18-2011, 05:56 PM
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Well... You could always choose to date all over the gender spectrum till you find out what you like, a fine ass comes and goes a good person to share life with, that my friend is rare.
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