How did you find ButchFemmePlanet ???

Softly · 11-12-2009, 11:00 AM

heard about it from Sassy! xo

Diva · 11-12-2009, 11:16 AM

Wait.

I know the answer to this.

I can't remember.

Seriously. Which one of You told me? Was I flying the plane? Or was I one of the twirlers in the marching band?

Ok this will bother me until I find out how I found out......and I really wanted to name~drop, too!

<sigh>
~Diva

Arwen · 11-12-2009, 11:21 AM

It was a midnight phone call with a fabulous femme friend. The fact that I set my profile up at 1am may be why my "how do you identify" question answer is a bit... me!

And then I told a few folk about it. Love watching the healing spread!

Enchantress · 11-15-2009, 01:16 AM

I found ButchFemmePlanet at just the right time. I haven't been here much as of yet, but I sense it's a place of like minded individuals who seek joy and freedom of expression, rather than oppression, frustration and forced ideology.

Brava to the admins for bringing such a place to life!

milehibutch · 11-15-2009, 09:44 PM

than the delightful, delicious Diva advised me of this Planet!

girl_dee · 11-12-2009, 11:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva

Wait.

I know the answer to this.

I can't remember.

Seriously. Which one of You told me? Was I flying the plane? Or was I one of the twirlers in the marching band?

Ok this will bother me until I find out how I found out......and I really wanted to name~drop, too!

<sigh>
~Diva

*Pats your little Diva hand*

Diva · 11-12-2009, 11:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sassy_dee

*Pats your little Diva hand*

I know, right? ....I'll be in the home, posting my dang head off.....

Y'all better come see me and bring me pudding!!!

girl_dee · 11-12-2009, 11:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva

I know, right? ....I'll be in the home, posting my dang head off.....

Y'all better come see me and bring me pudding!!!

bah!!

Champagne and hot butches with large feather fans over your head my dear..

Diva · 11-12-2009, 11:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sassy_dee

bah!!

Champagne and hot butches with large feather fans over your head my dear..

I like YOUR retirement home MUCH better!!!! <giggle>

It will be a tough job.....but I'll muddle through somehow.....

Genesis · 05-24-2013, 10:49 AM

I found this site through goggle search

Jessejay · 06-19-2013, 09:54 PM

I stumbled across the site when I was looking for something to wear to my wedding caught my attention so I joined... The power of google!

snow white · 07-16-2013, 02:24 PM

Through Google, I Googled "Butch chat" : )

swagger · 08-04-2013, 05:12 AM

i'm not new, but i haven't been here in ages. when i first found it, it was by googling butch-femme forum, i think.

RumorHasIt · 11-22-2015, 07:11 PM

Just an old fashioined google search.
Seriously.
I searched " Butch Femme Forums' lol

giggleluver · 11-22-2015, 08:09 PM

My friend sent me because I was single lol

Poss · 12-02-2015, 04:09 AM

and that got me to here.

I did this search because I was fed-up with justifying and or defending our way of living on the main Australian lesbian social network site. Most of us who identify with the butch/femme dynamic on that site got put-off by the negative innuendo. It costs a lot of money to subscribe to that site and I started seeing it as a waste of my money.

This site's subscription is chicken feed in comparison than the one I used to subscribe to. I've only just recently joined up, but I'm being a little bit more careful before buying a years subscription, even though its cheap in comparison. Once bitten, twice shy!

Just_G · 11-12-2009, 12:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva

Wait.

I know the answer to this.

I can't remember.

Seriously. Which one of You told me? Was I flying the plane? Or was I one of the twirlers in the marching band?

Ok this will bother me until I find out how I found out......and I really wanted to name~drop, too!

<sigh>
~Diva

So that WAS you twirling that baton? I loved your go go boots!

Diva · 11-12-2009, 12:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just_G

So that WAS you twirling that baton? I loved your go go boots!

Especially the tassles......the ones on my BOOTS, G...on my BOOTS!

(We have derailed, haven't we? Sorry everyone! Carry on....)

NJFemmie · 11-12-2009, 11:24 AM

I did kinda sorta know about it ... but Miss Diva reminded me of it today...

-- the screename formerly known as NYFemmie

11-12-2009, 11:21 AM	#3
Arwen Joy Seeker How Do You Identify?: Smartly-Flavored Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Mrs. Syzygy 1/9/14 Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Joyville, NM (aka Land of Enchantment) Posts: 10,140 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,636 Thanked 28,107 Times in 6,411 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	It was a midnight phone call with a fabulous femme friend. The fact that I set my profile up at 1am may be why my "how do you identify" question answer is a bit... me! And then I told a few folk about it. Love watching the healing spread! __________________ I wrote a book, y'all! *FREE* Tarotscopes Seek Joy, y'all. Eschew hate. 9Words: A Poetry Challenge \| Do you like me?

11-15-2009, 09:44 PM	#5
milehibutch Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Colorado Posts: 4 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	none other than the delightful, delicious Diva advised me of this Planet!

05-24-2013, 10:49 AM	#10
Genesis Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme on a varied spectrum/babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: she/her/hers Relationship Status: Loved ლ ⚢ Join Date: May 2013 Location: Devenir un avec l'immatérialité des étoiles... Posts: 9,439 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,606 Thanked 14,669 Times in 6,299 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Hello Everyone I found this site through goggle search

08-04-2013, 05:12 AM	#13
swagger Junior Member How Do You Identify?: butch daddy Preferred Pronoun?: i dont care. Relationship Status: happy Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: crush zone Posts: 57 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 43 Thanked 126 Times in 42 Posts Rep Power: 210974	i'm not new, but i haven't been here in ages. when i first found it, it was by googling butch-femme forum, i think. __________________ unapologetically butch

11-22-2015, 07:11 PM	#14
RumorHasIt Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: Complicated. But Not Looking . Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: Nebraska Posts: 11 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14 Thanked 40 Times in 10 Posts Rep Power: 10	How I found FfP Just an old fashioined google search. Seriously. I searched " Butch Femme Forums' lol

11-12-2009, 11:00 AM	#1
Softly Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Seattle Posts: 655 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 465 Thanked 701 Times in 253 Posts Rep Power: 3646037	heard about it from Sassy! xo

11-12-2009, 11:16 AM	#2
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,175 Times in 5,239 Posts Rep Power: 0	Wait. I know the answer to this. I can't remember. Seriously. Which one of You told me? Was I flying the plane? Or was I one of the twirlers in the marching band? Ok this will bother me until I find out how I found out......and I really wanted to name~drop, too! <sigh> ~Diva

11-15-2009, 01:16 AM	#4
Enchantress Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A complex confection. Preferred Pronoun?: Miss Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The land of milk and honey. Posts: 2,169 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 741 Thanked 3,420 Times in 1,200 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I found ButchFemmePlanet at just the right time. I haven't been here much as of yet, but I sense it's a place of like minded individuals who seek joy and freedom of expression, rather than oppression, frustration and forced ideology. Brava to the admins for bringing such a place to life!

06-19-2013, 09:54 PM	#11
Jessejay Junior Member How Do You Identify?: As awesome Relationship Status: Engaged Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: Australia Posts: 8 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31 Thanked 15 Times in 5 Posts Rep Power: 0	I stumbled across the site when I was looking for something to wear to my wedding caught my attention so I joined... The power of google!

07-16-2013, 02:24 PM	#12
snow white Junior Member How Do You Identify?: straight submissive/possibly femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: Confused... Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: UK Posts: 58 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 71 Thanked 113 Times in 38 Posts Rep Power: 2925768	Through Google, I Googled "Butch chat" : )

11-22-2015, 08:09 PM	#15
giggleluver Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer femme, Mostly bottom, little Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, girl Relationship Status: Happy, single, polyamorous Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Pacific Northwest Posts: 62 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 93 Thanked 174 Times in 39 Posts Rep Power: 1718001	My friend sent me because I was single lol __________________ Giggle *You can't buy happiness, but you can buy ice cream and that is pretty much the same thing.* Love is life. All, everything that I understand, I understand only because I love. ~Leo Tolstoy

12-02-2015, 04:09 AM	#16
Poss Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Gay, Lesbian, Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Legally Married in 2018 Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: Victoria, Australia Posts: 38 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 160 Times in 33 Posts Rep Power: 1932748	I googled butch femme social network ... and that got me to here. I did this search because I was fed-up with justifying and or defending our way of living on the main Australian lesbian social network site. Most of us who identify with the butch/femme dynamic on that site got put-off by the negative innuendo. It costs a lot of money to subscribe to that site and I started seeing it as a waste of my money. This site's subscription is chicken feed in comparison than the one I used to subscribe to. I've only just recently joined up, but I'm being a little bit more careful before buying a years subscription, even though its cheap in comparison. Once bitten, twice shy!

11-12-2009, 11:24 AM	#19
NJFemmie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: The original lime-twisted femme Preferred Pronoun?: I answer to most things, especially lesbian. Relationship Status: Still loving my Mare ;) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New Jersey Posts: 4,683 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,343 Thanked 11,419 Times in 2,976 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I did kinda sorta know about it ... but Miss Diva reminded me of it today... -- the screename formerly known as NYFemmie