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Invictus · 07-17-2011, 04:53 PM

Self admitted 2x4 Butch

Maybe its just the Old Fashioned/Old School in me

MysticOceansFL · 07-17-2011, 05:52 PM

Hello , singles hope everyone had a great week end!!

WolfyOne · 07-17-2011, 05:53 PM

A friend shared this with me today
Thought this would be a good place to share with others

http://positive-thoughts.typepad.com...r-purpose.html

bigbutchmistie · 07-17-2011, 07:04 PM

So who wants coffee and who wants frappuccino's? Let me know. Im here to serve coffee...

How is everyone's Sunday going?

Delish · 07-18-2011, 05:39 AM

Good morning everyone! I hope y'all had a fabulous weekend. It's beautiful here. Think I'm going to take my babies for a long walk Have a great day!!!

Sachita · 07-18-2011, 07:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

So who wants coffee and who wants frappuccino's? Let me know. Im here to serve coffee...

How is everyone's Sunday going?

awwww you're such a sweet boi. Java made in the press pot

WolfyOne · 07-18-2011, 11:41 AM

Popping in to say hey
My work day is over since it starts at 6am
Going to do a few chores and hunker down with a book afterwards

Hope everyone is having a good start to their work week

Sachita · 07-18-2011, 07:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Invictus

Self admitted 2x4 Butch

Maybe its just the Old Fashioned/Old School in me

How's that working for you? I'm serious. Is there a reason why? are you shy? Tell us how it works. I really want to know as I am sure many femmes here wanna know.

You can't blame it on old school because it has nothing to do with old school. I've been queer a long long time, at least 25 years and in the past old school dykes did approach femmes and make a plan to woooo them.

Invictus · 07-18-2011, 04:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sachita

How's that working for you? I'm serious. Is there a reason why? are you shy? Tell us how it works. I really want to know as I am sure many femmes here wanna know.

You can't blame it on old school because it has nothing to do with old school. I've been queer a long long time, at least 25 years and in the past old school dykes did approach femmes and make a plan to woooo them.

Perhaps I should have been more specific, 2x4 when it comes to online chat. It is very difficult for someone to catch tone and the subtleties of speech, while reading someones post. When we read, we tend to hear our own voice in our head, and therefore emphasis where it be misinterpreted, or missed completely, until the receiver has a clearer understanding of the sender. For example... in the following phrase, how much money do have?

twenty two dollar bills

Communication, where the sender and receiver are speaking, is much easier to understand.

Invictus · 07-19-2011, 06:56 AM

Good morning everyone

Sweet_Amor_Taino · 07-19-2011, 07:11 AM

The top of the morning to everyone

Sachita · 07-19-2011, 07:14 AM

I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B.

Good morning

*Anya* · 07-19-2011, 07:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sachita

I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B.

Good morning

Slow dancing can be the sexiest, hottest, ever! Totally agree

WolfyOne · 07-20-2011, 10:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sachita

I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B.

Good morning

Come to the Reunion in Oct and I'll slow dance with you
Heck, I'll dance to almost any kind of music
Music moves my soul and gets my toes tapping

Inked_Trinity · 07-19-2011, 07:17 AM

Morning everyone! Feeling a bit more myself today after getting knocked out in the ring this weekend. Vision is pretty much back to normal. Ready to take the world on again!

07-17-2011, 05:52 PM	#2
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,033 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Hello , singles hope everyone had a great week end!! __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

07-17-2011, 05:53 PM	#3
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,392 Times in 4,138 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	A friend shared this with me today Thought this would be a good place to share with others http://positive-thoughts.typepad.com...r-purpose.html __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

07-18-2011, 05:39 AM	#5
Delish Member How Do You Identify?: Queen of our castle Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: She put a ring on it and the date is set :) Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Missouri...in her arms :) Posts: 1,089 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,279 Thanked 834 Times in 427 Posts Rep Power: 3888561	Good morning everyone! I hope y'all had a fabulous weekend. It's beautiful here. Think I'm going to take my babies for a long walk Have a great day!!! __________________

07-18-2011, 11:41 AM	#7
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,392 Times in 4,138 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Popping in to say hey My work day is over since it starts at 6am Going to do a few chores and hunker down with a book afterwards Hope everyone is having a good start to their work week __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

07-19-2011, 07:11 AM	#11
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07-17-2011, 04:53 PM	#1
Invictus Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 298 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 140 Thanked 344 Times in 165 Posts Rep Power: 1681235	Self admitted 2x4 Butch Maybe its just the Old Fashioned/Old School in me

07-17-2011, 07:04 PM	#4
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	So who wants coffee and who wants frappuccino's? Let me know. Im here to serve coffee... How is everyone's Sunday going?

07-19-2011, 06:56 AM	#10
Invictus Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 298 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 140 Thanked 344 Times in 165 Posts Rep Power: 1681235	Good morning everyone

07-19-2011, 07:14 AM	#12
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,994 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B. Good morning __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

07-19-2011, 07:17 AM	#15
Inked_Trinity Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: BadAss! / Sarcastic Bastard! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Earth Posts: 2,352 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,507 Thanked 6,927 Times in 1,819 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Morning everyone! Feeling a bit more myself today after getting knocked out in the ring this weekend. Vision is pretty much back to normal. Ready to take the world on again! __________________ Tell me I can't do it.. then stand back and watch me amaze you.