If You *REALLY* knew Me...

deb_U_taunt · 08-25-2011, 09:24 PM

If you really knew me, you would know I am a very open and caring person.
If you really knew me, you would know I am more likely to choose comfort over vanity.
If you really knew me, you would know I am a sucker for a road trip.
If you really knew me, you would know I love fiercely and am loyal to a fault.
If you really knew me, you would know I hear how strong I am daily and I am in reality very fragile.

bigbutchmistie · 08-25-2011, 09:39 PM

If you really knew me you'd know

I believe that trust isnt given its earned

That when I fall in love I love with every fiber of my being

That the older I get the more it takes to get my heart

How sick and tired I am of dating games

How I havent had anyone that made me feel "alive" in years

How I have never wanted children

How LDR's arent for me

How I admire those that can do LDR's.

How I am a homebody

LaneyDoll · 08-25-2011, 10:08 PM

If you really knew me, you would know that...
* I eat, sleep & breathe every passion in my life.
* I think the night air has an electric charge in it that is unmatched during the day. It is both invigorating & sensual.
* I do not own "sensible shoes." All my heels are at least 3" high and some are as high as 6". And I can run in them.

* The tooth fairy at my house is a BITCH FROM HELL!!! She leaves a trail of gold glitter from the bedside, out the bedroom, down the hall, through the living room and out the front door onto the patio.
* I believe that kids need magic in their lives so I will gladly clean up after that Tooth Fairy Bitch who makes a mess in my home.
* My oldest son and I "spar." We will literally fight in the living room-it is left over from his days of Tae Kwon Do training when he needed a partner.
* My oldest son & I share music & have concerts while riding down the road. And, I am teaching him to drive-at 13 and only in the apt complex.
* My middle son is called "happy kid." I gave him that nickname because he is always cheerful. He loves his nickname.
* My middle son is my artist. He and I share a love for art.
* My youngest son will still creep into bed with me. I will still let him since I know that those days will end soon and my heart will long for them.
* My youngest son still calls me "Mommy." The other two typically call me "Laney" and I am fine with that. As long as they address me with respect, I do not dictate the name they use.
*I am not a cool mom and I do not want to be. But I treat my kids like little grown ups, I pick my battles & the kids are turning out well.

Holly.88 · 08-28-2011, 10:09 PM

If you really knew me, you'd know that....

-I hate for people to touch my hand when giving me change.
-I have always wanted to be a parent.
-I got into an argument with my principal just before graduation because I refused to wear a dress or skirt. He did not smile at me when I walked across the stage in my slacks.
-I can sew.
-I haven't cried since my god son was born.
-I love the little things in life that make it all worth it the most.

sarahwho · 11-09-2011, 10:41 PM

If you really knew me.......

You'd know I feel vulnerable when away from home.
I trust no one except my parents.
My parent's mean the world to me!
I love my son
I suffered a horrible life altering experience in 2003
I am extremely shy
I am intelligent, but don't brag
I am VERY accepting towards others
I want to belong
I am very judgemental about myself and the way I look
I want to be in a loving relationship
I love dogs
I am allergic to cats
I am terrified of birds, and reptiles
I am afraid of alot of things
My dogs are half pitbull
I hate when people lie to me
I am loyal
I will fight for my friends or family, but otherwise am very gentle
I am optimistic
I enjoy quiet
I am stubborn
I would love to live in the country
I hate shallow people
I am NOT judgemental about other people, xcept shallow people
I hate cleaning, except my new van..............I LOVE cleaning that!
I am a survivor

If you really knew me,

You'd know there was much more that people didn't know about me.

1QuirkyKiwi · 11-10-2011, 05:25 AM

If you “REALLY” knew me…

You’d know that I have a softness and tenacity with an innate clumsiness at times.

I can be Conquering and vulnerable, yet, I’m thoughtful, nurturing, loving, and affectionate and feel things deeply.

I’m very intuitive, instinctual and have non-rational perception of people and situations – this can unnerve some people.

I’m very spiritual, yet, sometime I can be rebellious (within the law).

I’ve lived and worked in 36 countries in 20 years.

Despite working in the Funeral and Mortuary Sciences, I’m the least morbid person you’ll meet!

I’m a former Para-Olympic Swimmer.

I’ve had a phobia of Clowns since early childhood, yet, I’m OK! around Mimes.

I love fruit and could happily eat it all day……..I swear I was a Fruit Bat in a previous life.

I always sleep with the hall light on as I’m afraid of the dark.

I don’t own a TV and haven’t done for years, although I watch DVDs on my laptop.

I have to tone down my accent so people can understand me when I speak (this does not include fellow Kiwis or my family).

I love working and making things with my hands.

I’m a loyal and supportive friend unless you do something to hurt me, then I’ll have nothing more to do with you.

I say what I feel/think and this has been taken as me being hurtful unintentionally.

I can and do have a fiery temper when pushed too far!

I love and adore my furbabies – in fact all animals - I take in unwanted, abandoned and neglected animals.

I love sitting and feeding Swans – I’d love a Swan sanctuary.

I’m not judgmental, yet, I am observational about people and their habits.

I believe everyone has a right to their feelings and no-one has the right to tell you otherwise.

I love silly, playful banter and I’ve been known to play practical jokes on people when they least expect it!

If you "REALLY" knew me, you'd know that this is just a little of who I am.

smouldering · 11-10-2011, 09:05 AM

You would know I have changed a lot over the recent years..

I am still sensitive and really hate to let people down - but i now know how to let go of people who are toxic in my life.

I am still shy and soft spoken- But am no longer afraid to stand up for myself when needed and if i am comfortable around you, i can be the life of the party.

I try not to take anything or anyone for granted and also try not to assume, but sometimes it gets the best of me.

I have a teen aged daughter with Aspergers Syndrome

I am a very private person and don't share much about myself unless I truly trust you, and even then it takes time for me to be completely open.

Trust is very important to me, once its been broken, it is almost never the same.

I never feel like I belong anywhere..

HoustonHuny · 11-21-2011, 07:26 PM

I was thinking about responding to this thread but then I thought it sorta feels like a resume. I read a lot of resumes on my job and what I look for are accomplishments and outside validations.

So I think I will wait until I have proven the things that I would put on this list to the rest of you.

Then I will write it.

HH

bigbutchmistie · 11-21-2011, 07:39 PM

If You Really Knew Me You'd Know :

My bark is worse than my bite so to speak.

I absolutely love chocolate

I cant eat enough Mexican Food

I take life as it comes and roll with the punches.

There have been very few times I couldnt roll with said punches. The death of my mom was one of those times.

I am extremely independent. And appear as Superman to people who know me in real time.

I only take my Superman cap off when I am home alone. And can finally exhale and just relax.

I have no edit button. I say what is exactly on my mind

I cant stand crowds

I have a huge heart

HoustonHuny · 11-23-2011, 03:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HoustonHuny

I was thinking about responding to this thread but then I thought it sorta feels like a resume. I read a lot of resumes on my job and what I look for are accomplishments and outside validations.

So I think I will wait until I have proven the things that I would put on this list to the rest of you.

Then I will write it.

HH

Ok, so this didn't go over too well, absolutely 0 thank-you's but I keep coming back to it for some reason. So...I think instead of listing all of my wonderful qualities, I will list my most evil traits.

I am outspoken
I am opinionated
I am very independent and don't like for anyone to tell me what to do.
I have asthma but I still smoke
I love gin & tonics way too much
I would rather log on to BFP than my virtual computer (don't tell my boss)
I am diabetic (not on any meds) but love my carbs
I love comfort foods and hate veggies
I don't believe in any "WooWoo" stuff or even consider myself spiritual in any way.
I love to cook but hate doing laundry
I like to gamble, slots are my favorite
I hate washing my hair, it's long (twice a week at the most)
I hate cleaning the toilet, would rather pick up the dog poop
I like sleeping alone
I hate sports on TV

Leigh · 11-21-2011, 07:53 PM

If you *REALLY* knew Me, you would know that ........

~ I suffer from depression and anxiety/panic attacks, and have been on disability due to this for the past 3-4 years

~ I live with My parents and sister, plus we have My uncle and his fiancee staying with us until they find a place of their own

~ I've had two gallbladder surgeries, almost 10 years apart to the day

~ I can't get enough of pepsi and chocolate

~ I am type 2 diabetic

~ I lost both of My grandparents, on My mom's side, of cancer 360 days apart

~ I was in the room when one of My cousin's died of cancer, holding her hand as I watched her take her very last breath

~ I'm a HUGE fan of hockey, football, wrestling and MMA

~ My two favorite teams are the Winnipeg Jets (hockey - NHL) and the Winnipeg Blue Bombers (football - CFL)

~ I identify as pansexual, meaning that I love the person for who they are on the inside not what gender they are

~ I love scratch tickets, especially Crossword and Bingo

~ My favorite color is purple

Gemme · 11-21-2011, 09:48 PM

If you knew me, you'd know how blessed tired I am right now.

This girl is going to bed.

08-25-2011, 10:08 PM	#3
LaneyDoll Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Girly girl femme Preferred Pronoun?: She; Ma'am; Miss ;) Relationship Status: Pitbull protected. Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Birmingham, AL Posts: 2,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,892 Thanked 7,683 Times in 1,607 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	If you really knew me, you would know that... * I eat, sleep & breathe every passion in my life. * I think the night air has an electric charge in it that is unmatched during the day. It is both invigorating & sensual. * I do not own "sensible shoes." All my heels are at least 3" high and some are as high as 6". And I can run in them. * The tooth fairy at my house is a BITCH FROM HELL!!! She leaves a trail of gold glitter from the bedside, out the bedroom, down the hall, through the living room and out the front door onto the patio. * I believe that kids need magic in their lives so I will gladly clean up after that Tooth Fairy Bitch who makes a mess in my home. * My oldest son and I "spar." We will literally fight in the living room-it is left over from his days of Tae Kwon Do training when he needed a partner. * My oldest son & I share music & have concerts while riding down the road. And, I am teaching him to drive-at 13 and only in the apt complex. * My middle son is called "happy kid." I gave him that nickname because he is always cheerful. He loves his nickname. * My middle son is my artist. He and I share a love for art. * My youngest son will still creep into bed with me. I will still let him since I know that those days will end soon and my heart will long for them. * My youngest son still calls me "Mommy." The other two typically call me "Laney" and I am fine with that. As long as they address me with respect, I do not dictate the name they use. I am not a cool mom and I do not want to be. But I treat my kids like little grown ups, I pick my battles & the kids are turning out well. __________________ There are beauties who stop traffic and then there are beauties who grow obsessively in the hearts of the susceptible.*

08-28-2011, 10:09 PM	#4
Holly.88 Member How Do You Identify?: Male and Unc to my God Son Preferred Pronoun?: Him, he, and 'hey, handsome' :P Relationship Status: She said "Yes!" Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: NOLA Posts: 285 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 230 Thanked 654 Times in 224 Posts Rep Power: 3156407	If you really knew me, you'd know that.... -I hate for people to touch my hand when giving me change. -I have always wanted to be a parent. -I got into an argument with my principal just before graduation because I refused to wear a dress or skirt. He did not smile at me when I walked across the stage in my slacks. -I can sew. -I haven't cried since my god son was born. -I love the little things in life that make it all worth it the most. __________________ http://i52.tinypic.com/15mbugw.jpg

11-09-2011, 10:41 PM	#5
sarahwho Member How Do You Identify?: lonely femme.... Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single - I quit Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 232 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 80 Thanked 152 Times in 69 Posts Rep Power: 2722345	If you really knew me....... You'd know I feel vulnerable when away from home. I trust no one except my parents. My parent's mean the world to me! I love my son I suffered a horrible life altering experience in 2003 I am extremely shy I am intelligent, but don't brag I am VERY accepting towards others I want to belong I am very judgemental about myself and the way I look I want to be in a loving relationship I love dogs I am allergic to cats I am terrified of birds, and reptiles I am afraid of alot of things My dogs are half pitbull I hate when people lie to me I am loyal I will fight for my friends or family, but otherwise am very gentle I am optimistic I enjoy quiet I am stubborn I would love to live in the country I hate shallow people I am NOT judgemental about other people, xcept shallow people I hate cleaning, except my new van..............I LOVE cleaning that! I am a survivor If you really knew me, You'd know there was much more that people didn't know about me. __________________ You will find a girl prettier than me, smarter than me, and funnier than me, but you will never find a girl just like me. Last edited by sarahwho; 11-09-2011 at 10:45 PM.

11-10-2011, 05:25 AM	#6
1QuirkyKiwi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: BBW. Unique femininity that does not encompass the western paradigm. Preferred Pronoun?: Anything Respectful! Relationship Status: Single, Happy, not Desparate or Looking, but Open to Possibilities... Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Europe and Aotearoa on a 5:2 ratio. Posts: 2,308 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,003 Thanked 6,035 Times in 1,617 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	If you “REALLY” knew me… You’d know that I have a softness and tenacity with an innate clumsiness at times. I can be Conquering and vulnerable, yet, I’m thoughtful, nurturing, loving, and affectionate and feel things deeply. I’m very intuitive, instinctual and have non-rational perception of people and situations – this can unnerve some people. I’m very spiritual, yet, sometime I can be rebellious (within the law). I’ve lived and worked in 36 countries in 20 years. Despite working in the Funeral and Mortuary Sciences, I’m the least morbid person you’ll meet! I’m a former Para-Olympic Swimmer. I’ve had a phobia of Clowns since early childhood, yet, I’m OK! around Mimes. I love fruit and could happily eat it all day……..I swear I was a Fruit Bat in a previous life. I always sleep with the hall light on as I’m afraid of the dark. I don’t own a TV and haven’t done for years, although I watch DVDs on my laptop. I have to tone down my accent so people can understand me when I speak (this does not include fellow Kiwis or my family). I love working and making things with my hands. I’m a loyal and supportive friend unless you do something to hurt me, then I’ll have nothing more to do with you. I say what I feel/think and this has been taken as me being hurtful unintentionally. I can and do have a fiery temper when pushed too far! I love and adore my furbabies – in fact all animals - I take in unwanted, abandoned and neglected animals. I love sitting and feeding Swans – I’d love a Swan sanctuary. I’m not judgmental, yet, I am observational about people and their habits. I believe everyone has a right to their feelings and no-one has the right to tell you otherwise. I love silly, playful banter and I’ve been known to play practical jokes on people when they least expect it! If you "REALLY" knew me, you'd know that this is just a little of who I am. __________________ What will make the difference to me is your strength of character and what's in your heart...

11-10-2011, 09:05 AM	#7
smouldering Member How Do You Identify?: Punky girly girl, glittery femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, etc. Relationship Status: Single, Recovering Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,288 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,306 Thanked 3,974 Times in 924 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	If you really knew me: You would know I have changed a lot over the recent years.. I am still sensitive and really hate to let people down - but i now know how to let go of people who are toxic in my life. I am still shy and soft spoken- But am no longer afraid to stand up for myself when needed and if i am comfortable around you, i can be the life of the party. I try not to take anything or anyone for granted and also try not to assume, but sometimes it gets the best of me. I have a teen aged daughter with Aspergers Syndrome I am a very private person and don't share much about myself unless I truly trust you, and even then it takes time for me to be completely open. Trust is very important to me, once its been broken, it is almost never the same. I never feel like I belong anywhere.. __________________ ~~Smouldering~~ Suit the action to the word, the word to the action. ~William Shakespeare

08-25-2011, 09:24 PM	#1
deb_U_taunt Senior Member How Do You Identify?: ........ Join Date: May 2011 Location: ....... Posts: 1,748 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,324 Thanked 5,255 Times in 1,361 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	If you really knew me, you would know I am a very open and caring person. If you really knew me, you would know I am more likely to choose comfort over vanity. If you really knew me, you would know I am a sucker for a road trip. If you really knew me, you would know I love fiercely and am loyal to a fault. If you really knew me, you would know I hear how strong I am daily and I am in reality very fragile.

08-25-2011, 09:39 PM	#2
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	If you really knew me you'd know I believe that trust isnt given its earned That when I fall in love I love with every fiber of my being That the older I get the more it takes to get my heart How sick and tired I am of dating games How I havent had anyone that made me feel "alive" in years How I have never wanted children How LDR's arent for me How I admire those that can do LDR's. How I am a homebody

11-21-2011, 07:26 PM	#8
HoustonHuny Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: On the Beach Posts: 212 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 144 Thanked 461 Times in 136 Posts Rep Power: 8526085	This feels like a resume to me I was thinking about responding to this thread but then I thought it sorta feels like a resume. I read a lot of resumes on my job and what I look for are accomplishments and outside validations. So I think I will wait until I have proven the things that I would put on this list to the rest of you. Then I will write it. HH

11-21-2011, 07:39 PM	#9
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	If You Really Knew Me You'd Know : My bark is worse than my bite so to speak. I absolutely love chocolate I cant eat enough Mexican Food I take life as it comes and roll with the punches. There have been very few times I couldnt roll with said punches. The death of my mom was one of those times. I am extremely independent. And appear as Superman to people who know me in real time. I only take my Superman cap off when I am home alone. And can finally exhale and just relax. I have no edit button. I say what is exactly on my mind I cant stand crowds I have a huge heart

11-21-2011, 07:53 PM	#11
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	If you REALLY knew Me, you would know that ........ ~ I suffer from depression and anxiety/panic attacks, and have been on disability due to this for the past 3-4 years ~ I live with My parents and sister, plus we have My uncle and his fiancee staying with us until they find a place of their own ~ I've had two gallbladder surgeries, almost 10 years apart to the day ~ I can't get enough of pepsi and chocolate ~ I am type 2 diabetic ~ I lost both of My grandparents, on My mom's side, of cancer 360 days apart ~ I was in the room when one of My cousin's died of cancer, holding her hand as I watched her take her very last breath ~ I'm a HUGE fan of hockey, football, wrestling and MMA ~ My two favorite teams are the Winnipeg Jets (hockey - NHL) and the Winnipeg Blue Bombers (football - CFL) ~ I identify as pansexual, meaning that I love the person for who they are on the inside not what gender they are ~ I love scratch tickets, especially Crossword and Bingo ~ My favorite color is purple __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

11-21-2011, 09:48 PM	#12
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,945 Times in 25,668 Posts Rep Power: 21474888	If you knew me, you'd know how blessed tired I am right now. This girl is going to bed. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.