Femme Led Relationships and Trans/Butch/Femme Bottoms

[Sachita]

Originally Posted by Random

For me... My dominant energy is neither masculine nore feminine... It simply is energy... For me the closest I can come to putting it into words is.. I AM... I am confident, I am secure, I am certain.... It has nothing to do with gender or how I ID

Ps... thank you for your post Gemmie.. I came back to respond to it, but decided to do a two for one...

but just for the record those attributes of confidence etc can also be found in submissive energy.

No to deny masculine or make it seem less than but there is something divine and sacred about Goddess energy. It encompasses a natural projection of so many things- bitch, lover, mother, whore....dark and light. The women that adopt this, nurture and cultivate are alpha and solicit control. Its part of their fiber. Calling me a dominant woman barely scratches my surface. I am so much more.

Should you (anyone) ever encounter one that could seduce that goddess essence in you it just might chance your life.

[Random]

Originally Posted by Sachita

but just for the record those attributes of confidence etc can also be found in submissive energy.

No to deny masculine or make it seem less than but there is something divine and sacred about Goddess energy. It encompasses a natural projection of so many things- bitch, lover, mother, whore....dark and light. The women that adopt this, nurture and cultivate are alpha and solicit control. Its part of their fiber. Calling me a dominant woman barely scratches my surface. I am so much more.

Should you (anyone) ever encounter one that could seduce that goddess essence in you it just might chance your life.

See... I wouldn't have described submissive energy with those words.... For me submissive feels , still, empty, waiting, open....

Using energy... I am the current, she is the recepticle

I understand what you mean about goddess essence/energy but for me it's different... It's more natural/ animalistic... There is no good or bad, no dark or light... It simply is..

[The_Lady_Snow]

Originally Posted by Random

See... I wouldn't have described submissive energy with those words.... For me submissive feels , still, empty, waiting, open....

Using energy... I am the current, she is the recepticle

I understand what you mean about goddess essence/energy but for me it's different... It's more natural/ animalistic... There is no good or bad, no dark or light... It simply is..

Primal.... Yes, I like it primal till I don't!

WOOF

[Sachita]

Many thoughts on my mind lately about femme led relationships. I think I am misunderstood most of the time. Or perhaps I confuse people. I'm a playful woman and sometimes a bit of a flirt. If I want you you'll be the first to know. lol

I posted something in the Listening to Each Other thread about someone telling me they "liked" me but heard "bad" stories about me being a dom. At first I rolled my eyes and laughed just at the sheer absurdity of the statement. This drama rumor crap is just something I will never wrap my head around.

I hate labels. I don't want to be called a dom or anything else. I am woman who is sexually and spiritually mature. I am alpha, I enjoy control but it doesn't always mean the same thing. Why do people automatically think that I want you as a wet rag, groveling at my feet with no opinions of your own? Why can't I just be an intelligent, strong woman who enjoys being treated well?

Each relationship is different as it forms into a dynamic. I don't care who you are, if there's any kind of chemistry you'll find what fits you. This might manifest many different ways and some may be extreme. My relationship with Wanton Boi continues to evolve and is always changing. We are friends but not always lovers but we always love. Its nice to be real enough with someone to say "I'm feeling needy today and need some pampering." hys reply would be "I'd love to be your bitch today." No drama, no games, just two people comforting one another. At the same time I don't close doors because hy needs something different.

Perhaps I could fall in love with another alpha and I have. I just need to be respected for the woman I am and not engage in power struggles because someone is threatened. Let's find how we best fit and enjoy the places we are compatible.