What TO DO in a relationship.....

Soft*Silver · 09-01-2011, 09:56 PM

often put a smile on your face when you are talking to your Other...if you have to think about it to do so, work harder at loving her or him. Its your responsibility to make magic happen in the relationship (well its both but I am only talking to one of you)

bring in the groceries and help put them away

put a new roll of TP out before the old one runs out

clean your own hair out of the sink and tub

make dinner like she or he is the most important person in the world

eat dinner at home instead of out, demonstrating you think the cooking there is better than anywhere else

change the sheets on the bed together

bring home a packet of seeds you think will look good in the garden

be the first one to say you are sorry

mean it

Sassy · 09-01-2011, 10:05 PM

Talk. About your day. About friends, family, birds, furniture, decor, dinner, politics, religion, love, lust, likes and dislikes. Talk. About the bad things. Past things. Gone things. Never to have them again things. Wishes, dreams and nightmares. Hopes still held and hopes dashed never to return. Talk. About what makes you happy. More importantly, what makes you angry or sad. Talk. Because we are not all mind readers.

princessbelle · 09-01-2011, 11:46 PM

Appreciate everything that is done for you. Never take a single thing for granted.

justkim · 09-03-2011, 06:10 PM

Be intimate with her... intimacy doesn't always involve sex...

Laughter...

A L L day foreplay... :: blink ::

Be silly...

sara-bera · 09-03-2011, 06:38 PM

Say thank you for everything... even if it's not exactly what you wanted.

Accept compliments with grace.

Trade compassion and acceptance for anger.

09-01-2011, 09:56 PM	#1
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,906 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	often put a smile on your face when you are talking to your Other...if you have to think about it to do so, work harder at loving her or him. Its your responsibility to make magic happen in the relationship (well its both but I am only talking to one of you) bring in the groceries and help put them away put a new roll of TP out before the old one runs out clean your own hair out of the sink and tub make dinner like she or he is the most important person in the world eat dinner at home instead of out, demonstrating you think the cooking there is better than anywhere else change the sheets on the bed together bring home a packet of seeds you think will look good in the garden be the first one to say you are sorry mean it __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

09-01-2011, 11:46 PM	#3
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,496 Times in 5,198 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Appreciate everything that is done for you. Never take a single thing for granted. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

09-03-2011, 06:10 PM	#4
justkim Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Relationship Status: <3 myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 2,023 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,062 Thanked 6,799 Times in 1,553 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Be intimate with her... intimacy doesn't always involve sex... Laughter... A L L day foreplay... :: blink :: Be silly... __________________ Kim "A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success." - Unknown -

09-01-2011, 10:05 PM	#2
Sassy Member How Do You Identify?: Female Relationship Status: Together Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: In the sunshine Posts: 598 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 815 Thanked 1,929 Times in 460 Posts Rep Power: 19641164	Talk. About your day. About friends, family, birds, furniture, decor, dinner, politics, religion, love, lust, likes and dislikes. Talk. About the bad things. Past things. Gone things. Never to have them again things. Wishes, dreams and nightmares. Hopes still held and hopes dashed never to return. Talk. About what makes you happy. More importantly, what makes you angry or sad. Talk. Because we are not all mind readers.

09-03-2011, 06:38 PM	#5
sara-bera Member How Do You Identify?: female Join Date: May 2011 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 1,161 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,687 Thanked 2,858 Times in 739 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Say thank you for everything... even if it's not exactly what you wanted. Accept compliments with grace. Trade compassion and acceptance for anger.