Femmes: How do you like to be treated on a date?

The_Lady_Snow · 09-05-2011, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by weatherboi

On my first date with Ms i picked Her up from the airport, we didn't go to dinner, we didn't do any of the traditional things spoken of here. She led Our/our first date. She likes it that way.

Cause that's how I roll!!

I love dating, dating can lead to just a great night out, a good friend, a fast fuck or a relationship if that is what I choose to happen!!

That's the great thing about dating it can be spontaneous, planned, fun, fast, quiet, or POW!!!

McDonald's, an art gallery, the beach, a ride out to just anywhere as long as the intent is there to have a good time even if you find out that this will be an only one date thing.

Money is not necessary, good conversation a must!! Treat me like your equal and we'll be good unless I say otherwise!!! I also like to be on the same page that dating does not equate we are a couple, dating is simply that DATING.

My favorite dates, we and are middle of the week dates!!!

Nat · 09-05-2011, 11:44 AM

From my vague and blurry memories of dating:

Do not pause and wait for me to open the door for you.

I often will open the door for you because i'm a chivalrous femme like that, but if I let you get to the door first and I'm all fancy for a date, I will act like I don't have arms if you pause and wait.

Brains and kindness are far more important to me than money.

Be yourself but be your best self. Don't try to be somebody else.

Do not defend strangers for flying the confederate flag. Do not say they aren't racist. Do not spend the rest of the night saying "I am not a racist - I hope you don't think that."

Please don't use the word "retarded" to criticize or make fun of people or ideas.

Inexpensive dates can be the most fun - but if you're paying and a waitperson is involved, please tip well. Cheaper food but better tip wins hands-down over expensive food and so-so tip. Also please treat anybody serving you like a human being whether it's at mcdonalds or fancyfrufru mcgees.

It's cute when it's obvious a person has put thought and creativity into planning a date - even though it's usually the awkward moments that make it obvious. It's also nice if a person can go with the flow and not be rigid about the plan.

Hanging out like friends would is often my favorite kind of date.

MsTinkerbelly · 09-05-2011, 12:58 PM

My first date with my Kasey was at Denny's...for those unaware, it is a chain restaurant just slightly better than Mc Donalds. She was just off a delayed flight from PA on business, and instead of the big plans she had made and since Denny's was right by a freeway, I suggested we meet there instead.

She was kind, considerate, and grateful that she didn't have to go through some long involved date while she was exhausted. She more than made up for that date the next time!

09-05-2011, 11:44 AM	#2
Nat Senior Member How Do You Identify?: bigender (DID System) Preferred Pronoun?: he/him or alter-specific Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Central TX Posts: 3,537 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,047 Thanked 13,967 Times in 2,589 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	From my vague and blurry memories of dating: Do not pause and wait for me to open the door for you. I often will open the door for you because i'm a chivalrous femme like that, but if I let you get to the door first and I'm all fancy for a date, I will act like I don't have arms if you pause and wait. Brains and kindness are far more important to me than money. Be yourself but be your best self. Don't try to be somebody else. Do not defend strangers for flying the confederate flag. Do not say they aren't racist. Do not spend the rest of the night saying "I am not a racist - I hope you don't think that." Please don't use the word "retarded" to criticize or make fun of people or ideas. Inexpensive dates can be the most fun - but if you're paying and a waitperson is involved, please tip well. Cheaper food but better tip wins hands-down over expensive food and so-so tip. Also please treat anybody serving you like a human being whether it's at mcdonalds or fancyfrufru mcgees. It's cute when it's obvious a person has put thought and creativity into planning a date - even though it's usually the awkward moments that make it obvious. It's also nice if a person can go with the flow and not be rigid about the plan. Hanging out like friends would is often my favorite kind of date. __________________ I'm a fountain of blood. In the shape of a girl. - Bjork What is to give light must endure burning. -Viktor Frankl

09-05-2011, 12:58 PM	#3
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,907 Times in 5,017 Posts Rep Power: 0	My first date with my Kasey was at Denny's...for those unaware, it is a chain restaurant just slightly better than Mc Donalds. She was just off a delayed flight from PA on business, and instead of the big plans she had made and since Denny's was right by a freeway, I suggested we meet there instead. She was kind, considerate, and grateful that she didn't have to go through some long involved date while she was exhausted. She more than made up for that date the next time!