Femme C*ck

[Dreams]

Originally Posted by Just_G

I "entertained" the idea once....that was all it took!

When some of my femme friends have said they would love to be a fly on the wall when we are having a boys night or when I am with a group of butches...believe me when I say, you would hear some interesting conversations about things that some of us (not all of us mind you) actually enjoy, but never talk about.

5 years ago, I never would have mentioned anything about thinking that femme cock is hot, but I think it is time to start talking about it! It doesn't make me one tiny bit less butch (or any other negative connotation I have ever heard...see Lady Snow's post with the list of things said earlier in this thread...I have heard more than one of those in my time!) because I like femme cock and think it is hot!

pervert..

[Just_G]

Originally Posted by Dreams

pervert..

Thank you! (you have known this from the day we met buddy! )

[Dreams]

Originally Posted by Just_G

Thank you! (you have known this from the day we met buddy! )

this is so true...

[AtLast]

Originally Posted by Dreams

pervert..

ROTFL!

There may very well be more "perverted" butches, transguys, etc. around than anyone might imagine!

For the life of me, I don't get some of this stuff sometimes- couples of every type and kind- from heterosexual to the queerist of queer have been enjoying and using "femme" cock for a very long time. Lots of straight men enjoy back door sex via dildo worn by their wives/girl friends. It does not have a thing to do with gender identity or roles- it has to do with pleasure and what a couple wants to share.

I so agree with Just G about what can be heard among butches about all of this. But something that bothers me is that there is some kind of secret code about it- as well as for butches that are not focused on butch cock as the sexual main event.

For such a diverse, "open" and sex positive community, I often just shake my head.

[The_Lady_Snow]

Originally Posted by AtLastHome

ROTFL!

There may very well be more "perverted" butches, transguys, etc. around than anyone might imagine!

For the life of me, I don't get some of this stuff sometimes- couples of every type and kind- from heterosexual to the queerist of queer have been enjoying and using "femme" cock for a very long time. Lots of straight men enjoy back door sex via dildo worn by their wives/girl friends. It does not have a thing to do with gender identity or roles- it has to do with pleasure and what a couple wants to share.

I so agree with Just G about what can be heard among butches about all of this. But something that bothers me is that there is some kind of secret code about it- as well as for butches that are not focused on butch cock as the sexual main event.

For such a diverse, "open" and sex positive community, I often just shake my head.

I only experience this Femme Cock phobia here online, I do truly think it's all them isms that leak into our LGBTQ canvas, it's a heteronormative expectation.

I think it's something that men experience as well because like you stated that it's a biggo secret. I don't know what the word is exactly to use to describe what it is.

[AtLast]

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I only experience this Femme Cock phobia here online, I do truly think it's all them isms that leak into our LGBTQ canvas, it's a heteronormative expectation.
I think it's something that men experience as well because like you stated that it's a biggo secret. I don't know what the word is exactly to use to describe what it is.

I agree- so very heteronormative. And I think connected to the whole male ego garbage. Firstly, I am female and lesbian. Secondly, cock as sex toy or accessory is not gender specific. As I have said before, for me it is about clit extension and celebration anyway. My orgasms are products of my clitoris- no matter how and with what might be part of the stimulation that sends it into glory.

Fergoddessakes, in heterosexual sex, the guys penis was just part of the stimulative configuration. There are aspects of every human sense being excited during sex which all work quite well together, each doing their part to promote pleasure.

I really appreciate femmes wanting to talk about femme cock and take their rightful ownership of cock usage as femmes. In fact, it is refreshing.

I would also honmor a femme lover's feelings about not wanting to use or explore femme cock as I would any kind of sexual boundary.

[Martina]

For me, femme cock is not a sex toy. Nor does it need to be renamed clit extension. It is cock. Femme cock. And it makes my mouth water.

i appreciate that people are speaking from their own experience, but i do not like even the slightest sense that femme cock is being disempowered or considered a toy or an extension of a clit (love the clits). It is cock. Big powerful, throbbing, hot red meaty nasty delicious FEMME cock. To me.

i do not need to explain it away or any sexual response away to feel like i am avoiding being respectful to myself or others as a woman.

Sex is not politically correct. i am careful and loving with others and myself. But i can do that and maintain an outrageous non-conforming, hot to the bottom of my being sex life. And the femme cock i interact with is COCK. i worship it. And it is FEMME, which means female etc. But it is equally COCK.

[AtLast]

Originally Posted by Martina

For me, femme cock is not a sex toy. Nor does it need to be renamed clit extension. It is cock. Femme cock. And it makes my mouth water.

i appreciate that people are speaking from their own experience, but i do not like even the slightest sense that femme cock is being disempowered or considered a toy or an extension of a clit (love the clits). It is cock. Big powerful, throbbing, hot red meaty nasty delicious FEMME cock. To me.

i do not need to explain it away or any sexual response away to feel like i am avoiding being respectful to myself or others as a woman.

Sex is not politically correct. i am careful and loving with others and myself. But i can do that and maintain an outrageous non-conforming, hot to the bottom of my being sex life. And the femme cock i interact with is COCK. i worship it. And it is FEMME, which means female etc. But it is equally COCK.

Although you didn't attach this to my prior post, it is obviously in response to it. I would really appreciate your not bringing your personal animosity toward me on the site. In fact, this does fall under the TOS- passive-aggressive posts.

So don't rename it or refer to it as a toy. And I will call it, experience it as I desire based upon my own paradigms thank you very much. And all "cock" is clitorially based for me. Sexual freedom includes each person expressing sexuality and sensuality as they view it, including terms they prefer. No, sex has no political correctness- but it sure has individual preferences no matter what a person desires. Your statement is absurd and personally judgmental! Interesting as you would (and others, rightfully so) fly into quite a tizzy if anti-leather and D/s posts were made.

There is absolutely no disempowerment in femme cock nor is there any judgment in joining the center of female sexual response and pleasure with the use of what most commonly is used within this community and called cock. It simply is not what I like to call it in terms of myself or a partner. Many posting in the thread have some of the same feelings- we all are just not the same.

I have received several messages about your post as a rude response to what I was expressing. And every one of us has a right to express our personal feelings and attitudes in these forums.

[The_Lady_Snow]

I personally didn't find Martinas post rude. I assumed she was posting from her experience with Femme cock..

[kannon]

A lot of good information. Thanks everyone for sharing.

[Just_G]

Wrong thread to be reading in class...wasn't expecting a picture of a pink jellyfish cock to pop up on the page....ooops! Several times at that since it was quoted a few times...lol

Back to work G!!

Carry on.....

[kannon]

I like the above cock for the symbolic content. The pink represents the femme. It's shaped like a screw - notice the large threads. It looks pretty yet quite powerful at the same time.

[The_Lady_Snow]

Originally Posted by kannon

I like the above cock for the symbolic content. The pink represents the femme. It's shaped like a screw - notice the large threads. It looks pretty yet quite powerful at the same time.

As a Femme I gotta say kannon that the color pink does not represent me AT ALL!! Matter of fact I can't stand the color pink unless Hello Kitty is involved. I dunno who the hell though up this whole

Pink=Femme