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Old 01-30-2010, 05:28 PM   #1
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When I was in elementary school, my best friend was Leslie .....we both loved music and would sing together all the time. We were in the same class in 2nd, 4th and 5th grades, went to the same church and she lived just down the street from me, so of course, we had sleep~overs all the time.

We went to different high schools and even though we still went to the same church, we sorta drifted apart. When my Dad passed away 3 years ago, she was at the funeral, and afterwards, we sat and talked as though no time had passed. I love when that happens!

I also had a dear friend in high school ~ Claire ~ I named my oldest child, Melody Claire, after her. She was a free spirit and the one who 'encouraged' me to pierce my own ears. With a corsage pin! (How my ears didn't fall off, I do NOT know!) We went to different colleges, but wrote often. She was my maid on honor when I got married, and when she got married, I was pregnant with Melody Claire and I sang for hers.

Then we got busy in our own lives and lost touch. But we found each other by accident, really, when I was living in Dallas. She lived in a Ft. Worth suburb. Of course, now I hate her because she looked about the same! But again.....we didn't miss a beat. And over lunch, I came out to her and she didn't bat an eye. I will always love her for that.

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I am fortunate to have a "few" best friends. I would be here all night telling you about each one. When I talk about them tears form in my eyes, my heart warms, and the words don't ever give them justest as to what they mean to me.

I know a best friend is someone you can tell your inner thoughts to and they won't judge you unless of course they are scolding you *smirk*

I love my besties with ALL my Heart and soul...
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My best friend listens without judging
My best friend holds my truth
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My best friend keeps me honest
My best friend calls me on my shit
My best friend heals me
My best friend keeps my secrets
My best friend lets me act an ass when I feel like it
My best friend soothes my soul
My best friend kicks my ass when needed
My best friend loves me unconditionally
My best friend is my wife.

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My best friend listens without judging
My best friend holds my truth
My best friend makes me laugh
My best friend keeps me honest
My best friend calls me on my shit
My best friend heals me
My best friend keeps my secrets
My best friend lets me act an ass when I feel like it
My best friend soothes my soul
My best friend kicks my ass when needed
My best friend loves me unconditionally
My best friend is my wife.


This is so absolutely lovely, a simple 'thanks' just wouldn't do.....oh to be loved like THAT! You are both so blessed to have each other! Thank You, Corkey!
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My best friend makes me laugh
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My best friend keeps my secrets <--although sometimes, not so much, lol
My best friend lets me act an ass when I feel like it
My best friend soothes my soul
My best friend kicks my ass when needed
My best friend loves me unconditionally
My best friend is my wife.

Precisely why Mare is my bestest friend, evah.
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I am very very lucky because I have a wonderful best friend and have had her for most of my life. We can go weeks hey even months not talking and then we pick up right where we left off. I never feel like I have to watch what I say or how I say things. She gets me every time. I feel lucky and blessed to have her in my life and I thank God every single day for her...
TJ you are the best thing this world has to offer.... I love you very much!
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I have a friendship with a select few I have met on this site and I'm proud to call them friends. They are a phone call away for a quick hello or to share something funny. They have also been known to drive you to the hospital and for you to come out of surgery. When these friends are not feeling their best, sprite and chicken soup magically appear.

Lynn (Txscharmr) and Shannon, not on this site, are my "BFF's". These two people have not only been there for me through the good and bad times, but they have seen me at my worst and my best and I love them both very much. T is also my best friend and my greatest love. We have shared so much over the past, almost 6 years. We have a very strong foundation and an unconditional love and respect for one another. We can share our deepest secrets and fears.

I am very blessed to have these unselfish loving people in my life!!

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I am very very lucky because I have a wonderful best friend and have had her for most of my life. We can go weeks hey even months not talking and then we pick up right where we left off. I never feel like I have to watch what I say or how I say things. She gets me every time. I feel lucky and blessed to have her in my life and I thank God every single day for her...
TJ you are the best thing this world has to offer.... I love you very much!
Awwww *tosses in some hearts and shyt*

Exactly what I needed to read today.

My bestie is one in a million. I know that I can 911 her at any time, day or night, and she is right there for me. Growing up together has made us close but the laughter and love we share makes us instoppable (terror & trouble lol).
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Awwww *tosses in some hearts and shyt*

Exactly what I needed to read today.

My bestie is one in a million. I know that I can 911 her at any time, day or night, and she is right there for me. Growing up together has made us close but the laughter and love we share makes us instoppable (terror & trouble lol).
So many people walk in and out of our lives...
A Best friend is there FOREVER ....
No mattter what else is going on in my life
I know you are there... It makes life a little easier even on the worst
days of my life...
Yes we are trouble... but the best kind.... "giggles"
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My best friend heals me
My best friend keeps my secrets
My best friend lets me act an ass when I feel like it
My best friend soothes my soul
My best friend kicks my ass when needed
My best friend loves me unconditionally
My best friend is my wife.

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I agree, your best friend should be your wife!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mine surely is.
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I agree, your best friend should be your wife!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mine surely is.

It sounds so cliche, right? lol

and although I haven't had a lot of relationships I never thought it was possible to have everything in one person.

I am on this amazing journey with a wonderful man. (wolfwalker) and each day we seem to reach deeper and deeper into each others soul. It's romantic as hell but the most exciting part of this is the friendship we are building. For me this is the foundation of everything we do. Never have I ever felt like I could share everything. This is extraordinary.

I've said it in another thread... when you find this I think that the friendship is the real glue that keeps a marriage together. When you stop wanting to make each other happy or stop sharing your deepest secrets, no matter what it is, you can kiss it all goodbye.
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