Light a candle

Starbuck · 09-23-2011, 09:18 PM

For Wolfy
For the Soldier in Iraq that was booed by the Republicans

Abigail Crabby · 09-23-2011, 09:29 PM

For Peggy
For Wolfy
For Clay
For Craig Salerno

For all those who may be facing darkness
let these candles light your way to healing
and light.

clay · 09-24-2011, 11:33 AM

May your aches and pains, and other flu symptoms abate very soon. Sending you white light energy and healing energy...for yourself, and for your mom. May the surgery restore her health quickly! To all who are facing health issues, or any kind of a dilemma...please take energy from the flame..you are all loved...from my spirit to yours, JK & Mom....healing hugs..Clay

Tommi · 09-24-2011, 12:01 PM

Tommi · 09-25-2011, 03:52 AM

Today I go a Charger's game. Today she is on oxygen and lasix. Today, tell someone you love them.

She is so much better. I spent the day looking at pictures of our family, our relationship of 20 years, our first car, our first home. She laughed at my hippy look and hair. I laughed about her first Thanksgiving turkey that was raw when I cut it. We went out for dinner that year. We reminisced and smiled about a once beautiful love, that brought us together. In the twilight of the day, Peg made me vanilla tea, and we dunked spice cookies. We didn't speak of our breakup, or where we went wrong. She stroked my leg and I her hair. We talked about the crypts we bought so long ago, and laughed when the kids said that was weird. Last night, we both decided a ceremony at sea is where we both want to be.

We talked about her last wishes, looked at the Living Will and Advanced Directive.. Last night we couldn't fill it out. Maybe on my next visit, maybe Nancy, RN, the Home Health Nurse that will visit her today can do it. We just couldn't. Maybe never. I drove home with tears, and an ache deep inside . She may get better, but never well.

JazzGirl · 09-25-2011, 07:51 AM

candles lit:

Tommi, I sit here with tears running down my face after reading your last heartfelt candle posting. I feel the love the two of you had and still do, only in a different way than before.

I praise you to the Universe and far and wide for being the person that you are. A love like that is so very rare. I know you two moved on, but you are a very special individual and so is she. Just because people separate does not mean the love they shared was not real, did not exist and cannot exist in another form. You two are proof.

Universe, send healing, light, love and protection to Peggy and Tommi. Send miraculous healing whether it be literal or figurative. I ask that You let them know they are loved and safe.

candles lit:

clay's continued healing.
My daughter.
For any and all who just need some love and kindness.
For any and every request, reason, need or design.
Just because.

Namaste!

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 09-25-2011, 10:12 AM

For my friends Clay and Wolfy, may the heavens bring you healing and peace. To Tommi, may those same heavens bring you strength.

For myself, and my family. To the son who is incarcerated, I pray for strength for him. To my daughter who struggles with addictions and all of the humiliation and life chaos that addictions foster, I pray fervently for the willingness to change. To my grandson who has begun cutting as a way of trying to control SOMETHING in that chaotic life, I pray for help .

May the Higher Power who has come back into my life guide me and give me strength, direct my thoughts, my words, and my actions.

(and thank you to the angel who started this thread, and all who have shared from their hearts to keep it going. I am so grateful that this is here)

09-23-2011, 09:18 PM	#1
Starbuck Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Soft Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Oklahoma City Posts: 2,436 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,378 Thanked 2,148 Times in 756 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	For Wolfy For the Soldier in Iraq that was booed by the Republicans __________________ To forgive is to set the prisoner free, And then discover the prisoner was you.

09-23-2011, 09:29 PM	#2
Abigail Crabby Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Princess Relationship Status: Single, but sociable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mount Airy, NC Posts: 4,226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,554 Thanked 9,668 Times in 2,484 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	For Peggy For Wolfy For Clay For Craig Salerno For all those who may be facing darkness let these candles light your way to healing and light. __________________ Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust Turns whatever happens to you into a positive...

09-24-2011, 11:33 AM	#3
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,136 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 97,020 Thanked 31,668 Times in 7,748 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	JustKim & Mom May your aches and pains, and other flu symptoms abate very soon. Sending you white light energy and healing energy...for yourself, and for your mom. May the surgery restore her health quickly! To all who are facing health issues, or any kind of a dilemma...please take energy from the flame..you are all loved...from my spirit to yours, JK & Mom....healing hugs..Clay __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

09-25-2011, 03:52 AM	#5
Tommi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Usually "Hello" Relationship Status: Married and Bound to Tommi's kaijira (Ts_kaijira ) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Suthun.... California that is. Across the ridge from Laguna Beach. Posts: 8,151 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,621 Thanked 21,337 Times in 5,970 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Love changes but remains Today I go a Charger's game. Today she is on oxygen and lasix. Today, tell someone you love them. She is so much better. I spent the day looking at pictures of our family, our relationship of 20 years, our first car, our first home. She laughed at my hippy look and hair. I laughed about her first Thanksgiving turkey that was raw when I cut it. We went out for dinner that year. We reminisced and smiled about a once beautiful love, that brought us together. In the twilight of the day, Peg made me vanilla tea, and we dunked spice cookies. We didn't speak of our breakup, or where we went wrong. She stroked my leg and I her hair. We talked about the crypts we bought so long ago, and laughed when the kids said that was weird. Last night, we both decided a ceremony at sea is where we both want to be. We talked about her last wishes, looked at the Living Will and Advanced Directive.. Last night we couldn't fill it out. Maybe on my next visit, maybe Nancy, RN, the Home Health Nurse that will visit her today can do it. We just couldn't. Maybe never. I drove home with tears, and an ache deep inside . She may get better, but never well.

09-25-2011, 07:51 AM	#6
JazzGirl Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Feminine pronouns Relationship Status: Not looking Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: . Posts: 184 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,447 Thanked 594 Times in 153 Posts Rep Power: 8712111	candles lit: Tommi, I sit here with tears running down my face after reading your last heartfelt candle posting. I feel the love the two of you had and still do, only in a different way than before. I praise you to the Universe and far and wide for being the person that you are. A love like that is so very rare. I know you two moved on, but you are a very special individual and so is she. Just because people separate does not mean the love they shared was not real, did not exist and cannot exist in another form. You two are proof. Universe, send healing, light, love and protection to Peggy and Tommi. Send miraculous healing whether it be literal or figurative. I ask that You let them know they are loved and safe. candles lit: clay's continued healing. My daughter. For any and all who just need some love and kindness. For any and every request, reason, need or design. Just because. Namaste! __________________ " Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place." ~Zora Neale Hurston "Talk to yourself from the perspective of truly being willing to do whatever it takes rather than relying on the same old excuses that keep you from making those changes. You'll be thrilled with yourself when you adopt an 'I'm willing' attitude." — Dr. Wayne Dyer

09-24-2011, 12:01 PM	#4
Tommi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Usually "Hello" Relationship Status: Married and Bound to Tommi's kaijira (Ts_kaijira ) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Suthun.... California that is. Across the ridge from Laguna Beach. Posts: 8,151 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,621 Thanked 21,337 Times in 5,970 Posts Rep Power: 21474860

09-25-2011, 10:12 AM	#7
ArkansasPiscesGrrl Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: feeling pretty darned blissful right now! Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: central AR Posts: 856 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,594 Thanked 3,079 Times in 741 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	For my friends Clay and Wolfy, may the heavens bring you healing and peace. To Tommi, may those same heavens bring you strength. For myself, and my family. To the son who is incarcerated, I pray for strength for him. To my daughter who struggles with addictions and all of the humiliation and life chaos that addictions foster, I pray fervently for the willingness to change. To my grandson who has begun cutting as a way of trying to control SOMETHING in that chaotic life, I pray for help . May the Higher Power who has come back into my life guide me and give me strength, direct my thoughts, my words, and my actions. (and thank you to the angel who started this thread, and all who have shared from their hearts to keep it going. I am so grateful that this is here)