Light a candle

[clay]

May your aches and pains, and other flu symptoms abate very soon. Sending you white light energy and healing energy...for yourself, and for your mom. May the surgery restore her health quickly! To all who are facing health issues, or any kind of a dilemma...please take energy from the flame..you are all loved...from my spirit to yours, JK & Mom....healing hugs..Clay

[Tommi]

[Tommi]

Today I go a Charger's game. Today she is on oxygen and lasix. Today, tell someone you love them.

She is so much better. I spent the day looking at pictures of our family, our relationship of 20 years, our first car, our first home. She laughed at my hippy look and hair. I laughed about her first Thanksgiving turkey that was raw when I cut it. We went out for dinner that year. We reminisced and smiled about a once beautiful love, that brought us together. In the twilight of the day, Peg made me vanilla tea, and we dunked spice cookies. We didn't speak of our breakup, or where we went wrong. She stroked my leg and I her hair. We talked about the crypts we bought so long ago, and laughed when the kids said that was weird. Last night, we both decided a ceremony at sea is where we both want to be.

We talked about her last wishes, looked at the Living Will and Advanced Directive.. Last night we couldn't fill it out. Maybe on my next visit, maybe Nancy, RN, the Home Health Nurse that will visit her today can do it. We just couldn't. Maybe never. I drove home with tears, and an ache deep inside . She may get better, but never well.

[JazzGirl]

candles lit:



Tommi, I sit here with tears running down my face after reading your last heartfelt candle posting. I feel the love the two of you had and still do, only in a different way than before.

I praise you to the Universe and far and wide for being the person that you are. A love like that is so very rare. I know you two moved on, but you are a very special individual and so is she. Just because people separate does not mean the love they shared was not real, did not exist and cannot exist in another form. You two are proof.

Universe, send healing, light, love and protection to Peggy and Tommi. Send miraculous healing whether it be literal or figurative. I ask that You let them know they are loved and safe.

candles lit:



clay's continued healing.
My daughter.
For any and all who just need some love and kindness.
For any and every request, reason, need or design.
Just because.



Namaste!

[ArkansasPiscesGrrl]

For my friends Clay and Wolfy, may the heavens bring you healing and peace. To Tommi, may those same heavens bring you strength.



For myself, and my family. To the son who is incarcerated, I pray for strength for him. To my daughter who struggles with addictions and all of the humiliation and life chaos that addictions foster, I pray fervently for the willingness to change. To my grandson who has begun cutting as a way of trying to control SOMETHING in that chaotic life, I pray for help .

May the Higher Power who has come back into my life guide me and give me strength, direct my thoughts, my words, and my actions.



(and thank you to the angel who started this thread, and all who have shared from their hearts to keep it going. I am so grateful that this is here)

[clay]

I am lighting a candle, one for each of you...
YOU, my friend.........warm hugs...and my friendship and ear..anytime......and my heart goes out to you...one dilemma alone is very hard to face, let alone ALL three! Peace, my friend!!!
for son...incarcerated
for grandson..who is hurting inside and my he find peace and a sense of self to heal within..I just can NOT imagine the heartache...
for daughter...courage & wisdom to choose a better path and strength to fight your demons....peace

[clay]

Tommi & Peggy! My lil candle isn't fancy or colorful BUT the meaning is a huge as the universe...much love and empathy for you. I walked your path...2 and a half years ago...so I can understand how devastating and heartbreaking this has all got to be...
My wife & I had had 15 wonderful years, working towards that "forever", and never thinking of the "what ifs". The world turns on a dime and life, as we know it, can tumble upside down, inside out, and do a complete 360...and we shall never, ever be the same afterwards! However, what I did take away from the 26 months battle we fought together...is that I do not sweat the small stuff any longer. The other thing is that no matter what plane we each reside on...love is love..everlasting...and that will never change. Memories are etched forever in my heart..and no one can ever take those. Hold yours close inside and when you are down, or lonely, or hurting...let them sustain you...
It took me almost a month for her to sign the final papers...her "5 Wishes"...ordering the cremation urn, and facing the fact we HAD to do those wishes. That was so very difficult, so I understand your space on not wanting to be there when she signs them. Unless one has walked in those moccasins, it is so damn hard to fathom! My wife said when she signed the last one, she felt like she had signed for her lease on life to end...it devastated me..to know she was afraid...and that I couldn't do a thing to stop the outcome...and while I can't know the depth of YOUR pain, I DO KNOW that pain, my friend!!! All I can say is I am here for you, my friend, and I send you hugs and warm white energies...my heart breaks for you...it is so much harder for the one left behind...I know...I walked that path.....so come on, Tommi....walk it not alone....Clay

[Starbuck]

For my mom, dad, brother, my son, and me who are grieving the loss off Sassie, the family pet of 14 years.

Also for Mistie and and who ever else misses their fur babies.

[Tommi]

For love, life & the journey we can never see before we turn a corner.
For peg, one more day toward getting better, and for Nurse Nancy who is holding her hand as she takes new baby steps along the way.

For all those that can see the flicker of hope, those in pain and the loved ones in the shadows. We need a candle in the wind.

Blessed be, and I need some hot chocolate with marshmallows and cinamon toast to dunk.

[JazzGirl]

candles lit:

For Tommi and Peggy.

For me, I have a health issue.

For wayward children, siblings, family, lovers, friends.

For new babies to come.

For those who have not crossed over, yet.

For love, peace, prosperity, harmony and light.