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			I like to be/am the persued - I'm way too cowardly chicken to be the persuer, lol!  The truth is, I feel if it's meant to happen, then it will happen.  I don't hide, or actively encourage - I'm aware I'm not the ideal woman for some women/Butches and that's OK!   ......I'm not competitive by nature... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I get a lot of interest from Femmes - I'm not sure why?! I wouldn't rule out being with a Femme if she was 'The One' for me, but, it's not my preference (if it was, I wouldn't be on this site, lol!). I have asked Femmes if they see me as Soft-Butch/Boi and the answer is always NO! .....It still doesn't answer why, though! LOL! 
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			 Type in my username in here: http://butchfemmematchmaker.com/skad...ber/search.php I will NOT be held responsible for any hysterical laughter fits you have from my photos! LOL! 
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			I don't really actively hunt, its more like setting a trap and coming back later to see if it sprung 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			I don't usually hunt...not my bag. I have before but it would be a rare occurrence.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I definitely want to be pursued...Unless you're shy> 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 ...but, if I can tell that you're attracted to me...then I may just have to make that rare exception.
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			Thank you!  I hadn't thought of it that way - I wonder how many Femmes are 'secret Butches'...... lol! 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I am definately the Tiger in the equation,,,,tho I like my 'prey' to be equally enthralled,,and show it
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			i have been told that i am a bold-ass butch LOL. i flirt, i can not lie.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	i enjoy asking her a question that makes her laugh real big with a bit of shock lol. nothing vulgar, just a lil dirtysweet question. i don't see myself as the hunter or the prey. if that's possible. she'll know if i like her and vice versa. but i guess i do lean toward the prey lol. maybe. and i have commitment issues. i'm not looking for promises, moving in. dating is a wonderful thing. i'm laid back, ... so in the past i've waited too long to make my move lol. two things for sure. i don't beg. i don't compete.  | 
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